Mimi naamini kuzaliwa “mwanamke” ni mtihani tosha, lakini kuwa mke unayebeba jukumu lako la kuwa mke kikamilifu ni mtihani mgumu na mzito zaidi! Ukiwa umekula kiapo kile “KITAKATIFU” kuwa KATIKA TABU NA RAHA yani utakuwa unajifikiria mara mbili mbili na kujikuta unasimama hata pale usipo taka! Haya ndio yalio mkuta Mrs Bill Cosby a.k.a Camille Cosby! Baada ya ukimya na kujificha kwa takribani miaka 3, finally amejitokeza saa za mwisho bega kwa bega na mumewe ambaye anashitakiwa kwa makosa ya ku-drug wanawake na kufanya nao mapenzi bila hidhini yao ( sex assault).  As I said before being a woman is not a joke but I can only imagine how hard it is to be a fully committed wife!!

Sidhani kama Camille Cosby angekuwa na uwezo wa kujificha forever asinge fanya hivyo kwani aibu na fedhea ambayo mumewe amempa ni kubwa mnooooo! Angesema akaye pembeni society bado ingemuhukumu kwa kutokuwa “woman enough” kusimama na mumewe!! Shame! As Bill Cosby’s lawyer said in the court room kuwa the real victim here is a long  suffering Camille Cosby! Which in somehow nakubaliana naye kwani huyu ni mke walio owana kwa miaka 53, amemjua mume wake kama; mume muaminifu, baba na mwanaume ambaye siku zote analinda na kuheshimu wanawake. Akajenga “image” hiyo katika dunia kuwa yeye ni “Family man” na mkewe na watoto wake wakawa very proud of him! Sasa leo hii mbele ya uso wa dunia anatakiwa afute hiyo “image” aliyo wajengea na kuwaaminisha watu kuwa Nope! That ain’t him! Ni ngumu kueleweka na fedheha kubwa sana kwa mkewe na watoto wake wakike! Naamini sababu kuu ya Mrs Cosby kukwepa kuwepo mahakamani wakati victim wakitoa ushahidi ni kwasababu hakutaka kuweka mambo yatakayo semwa mahakamani kwenye akili yake ambayo yangemfanya aanze kutafakari na kumuangalia mumewe katika sura mpya! I believe she wants to continue to remember her husband the way she knows / knew him and not otherwise! Maana zile testimony ukizisikiliza unaweza file for Divorce bila kutaka! I truly feel sorry for her! Mungu amsaidie! Hata hivyo yeye si wakwanza kusimama bega kwa bega na mumewe katika scandal kubwa na za kufedhehesha namna hii! Wapo wanawake wengi wamefanya hivyo kama Hillary Clinton wakati mumewe anakesi ya kufanya mapenzi ndani ya moja ya office za WhiteHouse na secretary wake Monica Lewinsky!……… It’s hard to be a woman but it’s more harder to be a fully committed wife!! #StandByYourMan #GodHelpUs!

Alijisemeaga Oprah Winfrey kuwa labda hizo vows zingebadilishwa huwenda angefunga ndoa cause yeye haelewi wanaposema “katika shida na raha” what do they real mean?! ?? Wenyewe wanasemaga hivi “if you can’t stand the heat better stay out of the ktchen” ??? bora yeye kajisemea ukweli lol!………..Huko nyuma niliandika hivi ??  TheBillCosbyTrial