Category Archives: General education

hollietheblogger: So many people ask me If I get paid to promote

Regrann from @hollietheblogger - So many people ask me If I get paid to promote @zarithebosslady the answer is NO. But let me tell you what I gain and why I waste my time..it’s her rare STORY‼️ Rare because, she chose HER and HER KIDS above EVERYTHING something many women have no courage to do‼️ My benefits might NOT be in monetary terms but it’s in a sense of hope and reassurance. Reassurance that in future our daughters will NEVER have to sit silent in abusive relationships just because the society expect them to. But because of Zari’s and many other women’s experiences they will have the strength to reclaim CONTROL and emancipate themselves‼️ Just like you, in Zari I see my mother, my sisters, my aunties & best friends. Women who have been cheated on, abused and emotionally & physically trampled on. Women whose happiness have been snatched by another woman. Homes and children left fatherless, loveless, poor and homeless just because of men’s selfishness. Despite all these evil, society and some ignorant women still believe it’s ok for a man to disrespect a woman‼️ Religion & culture teach us that women are beneath men & aren’t allowed to be their own person. When a woman rises up to be her own voice there is so much noise surrounding her strength. Therefore if someone say that DP actions were innocent & didn’t mean any harm, I say that is nonsense. 

Zari the real Bosslady
DP knew and still knows what he does. His actions were & are still emotionally abusive and were/are meant to break ZARI and leave her dependent and powerless just as he’s done to all his exes. DP has broken them all emotionally and left them powerless and dependent on him‼️If Zari had hold on to this nonsense this guy would have continued to demean her publicly to show her she’s worthless. These actions would have created fear and decreased her self esteem making her dependent on him‼️💯 So don’t expect the dirty ***  to move on or find happiness anywhere else because she’s EMOTIONALLY broken and will sit in that rented flat as a side fuck for the rest of her life👌Compared to Zari who had a loving upbringing, these two are both as bad as each other because they both had a fucked up-bringing #revisitthispostinfuture #goodmorning - #regrann

Kamwe usibishane na pepo!

Wapendwa wasomaji wangu, za siku mbili tatu 😍 Haya leo ngoja niongee kidogo kuhusu pepo au mapepo. Unajua humu kwenye mitandao au hata kwenye maisha yetu tumezungukwa na mapepo wachafu. Hao au hili pepo anaweza akawa ndugu, rafiki, mfanyakazi wako, au mtu baki kabisa ambaye hana undugu wala ujamaa na wewe. 

Utakuta hili pepo kazi yake ni kuchukizwa na wengine wakiwa na furaha. Yani akiona watu wengine wana amani hata kama ni masikini kuliko yeye basi yeye roho yake inatahabika sana! Kinachofuata nikutafuta kila njia ya kufanya ile amani au furaha uliyonayo itoweke! Kama ni familia inafuraha basi atatafuta kila njia ya kuondoa furaha kwenye hiyo familia. Atagombanisha watu hata kwa kutumia watu wengine ili yeye asijulikane! Hapendi kuona watu wanaishi kwa amani na furaha kugombanisha watu ndio furaha yake yeye!

Sasa hata humu kwenye mitandao yapo haya mapepo! Kwa sisi Wakristo, Bible inatuambia "utawajua kwa matendo yao"! Yani ukiona mtu kutwa yeye nikugombanisha watu kwenye hii mitandao, kutwa kutukana watu kwakutumia sababu yoyote ile, amekalia kuvuruga familia za watu kwasababu wanafuraha? Yani muongo na umbea ndio maisha yake; mpendwa, basi jua huyo ni PEPO! Kamwe! Nasema tena Kamwe! usijibishane na Pepo! Pepo unalikemea kwa Jina la Yesu! Ukijibishana na pepo atakuambukiza mapepo yake! Hivyo njia nzuri ya kulishinda pepo ni kulikemea likafie mbali huko, hakuna jina ambalo pepo linaogopa kama jina la Mungu. Wewe kemea usimpe nafasi ya kukusogelea!

Huwa napendaga sana huu wimbo wa Rose Muhando "Nipishe nipite" haswa kwenye chorus. Huu wimbo unamkemea pepo au kwa jina lingine shetani. Huu ni mfano mzuri kabisa, kuwa pepo unalipa 'amri' nasio kuongea nalo! 

"Wewe ulimwasi Mungu, nipishe nipite 

Uliwadanganya Adamu na Eva, songea nipite 

Dunia nzima imeharibika, kwa ujanja wako 

 wewe shetani mlaaniwa, mwenyeji wa kuzimu 

Sasa nipishe nipite "Wapendwa tukemee mapepo yanayotuzunguka na kutufata fata kwa nguvu usicheke wala kulemba lemba maneno kwa pepo! Mpe amri, mwambie wewe  ulimwasi Mungu songea nipite, wewe shetani mlaaniwa mwenyeji wa kuzimu nasema sasa sogea nipite katika jina la Yesu! 

*** Kama humjui huyo kwenye picha ni mdogo wangu kipenzi Jokate Mwegelo. Missing you, love you dearly****



Wanaopenda kushangaa ndio wajanja!

Baadhi ya watu haswa sisi Watanzania huwa tunatabia yakutokupenda kuwa wadadisi wa jambo au mambo matokeo yake our ignorance is very High! 
Yani tupo radhi tuamini katika uongo au majungu / umbea kuliko kuchukua muda wako na kukisoma / chunguza kitu wewe mwenyewe ili uwe na huwakika wa kile unachokiongea. Utakuta mtu anahadithia kitu wewe utaamini ni kweli ameiona mwenyewe kwa macho yake au amesikia yeye mwenyewe kwa masikio yake kumbe naye kasimuliwa na rafiki yake ambaye nae huyo rafiki kasimuliwa na mtu mwingine 🙆‍♂️🙆‍♂️
Hiii no karai ya Chicago
Hii tabia kutopenda kuchukua muda wetu na kujifunza jambo fulani au kufatilia habari fulani bila ya wewe kuweka uongo wowote ndio imefanya Watanzania wengi wanapenda majungu sana, wanaamini ili uweze fanikiwa basi lazima umuharibie mwingine haswa kama yupo kwenye biashara au jambo ambalo na wewe unafanya! Inasikitisha sana kwani kwa hii tabia maendeleo ya taifa letu yatahitaji dictator!!  Juzi niliamua kwenda kuangalia hili 'karai' kubwa ambalo limeletwa hapa Houston, Texas kwenye chuo cha sanaa. Hili karai limetengenezwa Ulaya likaletwa hapa. Ni urembo wa aina unao vutia sana.  Katika mji wa Chicago nao wanao 'karai' kama hili limetengenezwa na mtu mmoja. Ila la Chikago limeinamishwa (kama inavyo onekana kwenye picha ya pili kutoka juu) hivyo watu wanaweza ingia katikati ya hili 'karai' nakupiga picha nzuri sana kama anavyoonekana mwanangu hapo pichani ☝ na pia tizama picha ya mama yangu na mdogo wangu hapo chini 👇
Hizo picha zilipigwa miaka 6 iliyopita kwenye hilo karai la Chicago. Kwa maoni yangu binafsi mimi napenda ya Chicago zaidi kwani imewekwa vizuri kwa watu kupiga picha na kitendo cha kulazwa chini imefanya hiyo sehemu iliyoingia ndani kuwa sehemu ya kivutionzaidi cha kupigia picha. Halafu maua na urembo ulioko pembezoni unahakisiwa na hiyo karai ambayo pia nikivutio.
Nilichotaka kuwaambia Watanzania wenzangu ni kuwa usiogope kushangaa! Hakuna njia nzuri ya kujifunza kitu kama kushangaa. Tena ukimpata mtu anayekupa maelezo basi wewe zidisha kushangaa ili akupe maelezo zaidi. Wanaopenda kushangaa ndio wajanja!

Je, unaheshimu mali za watu?!

Alpha Igogo, blogger Throw 🔙 2008

Mimi naheshimu sana kitu cha mtu yoyote yule! Yani mtu akiniazima kitu au kunipa kitu huwa nakitunza zaidi ya chakwangu! Naonaga mpaka mtu kutoa kitu chake kakupa au kukuazima inamaana sio tu amekuheshimu bali anakuamini! Trust is essential to me! Nina picha nilipewa na wanafunzi wenzangu Kowak Girls secondary school hizo picha mpaka leo ninazo hapa Marekani, sidhani hata kama wao wanakumbuka! Hivyo ndivyo nilivyo mimi! Na huwa nachukizwa sana nikiona mtu haeshimu kitu cha mtu mwingine kwani inaonyesha wewe unaweza kuwa na vielement vya tabia za kichawi chawi 😂😂😂

Sasa jana jioni nilikuwa natafuta kitu kwenye closet (ambapo kuna washer and dryer sio kwenye nguo) nikakutana na hii GPS! Yes that how GPS monitors used to be 😂😂 Wahenga mtatujua tu! 🙈 🙈Hii GPS niliazima kutoka kwa my good friend aitwae Sammy mwaka 2009. Alikuwa akihiitaji nampelekea nami ikitokea nahitaji naifata au ananiletea. Mwishowe ikaishia kwangu. Kusahau na mambo kuwa mengi sikufanikiwa kumrudishia.

Lakini kwakuwa nilijua niliazima sikupewa moja kwa moja miaka yote nimejisikia kuwa na wajibu wa kuitunza mpaka hapo nitakapo mpa tena. Believe me, nilipokuwa nahama Michigan to Texas, niliipaki vizuri nikaja nayo 😍😍 nimeihifadhi vizuri sana mpaka stand yake ipo 🙈 nafikiri it’s about time kumrudishia mwenye GPS yake akitaka kuitupa aitupe mwenyewe! Sindioo au niendelee kumtunzia kama yeye alivyokua akinitunzia vya kwangu 😂😂💃💃 #HeshimuVyawatuZaidiYaChako

#NiMchezoWakutunzianaTu

 

 

“WAISLAMU_NA_WAKRISTO SOTE TU TAIFA MOJA IMARA”

#WAISLAMU_NA_WAKRISTO SOTE TU TAIFA MOJA IMARASiku tukianza kukumbatia tofauti zetu za kidini (ukristo na uislamu) ni sawa na  kujichimbia kaburi la pamoja (mass grave) mchana kweupeeee kabisa.

Ukumbukwe tu ya kuwa si kitendo cha wakristo kuwatenga waislamu ndicho kitaweza kutuhakikishia maboresho katika mfumo wetu wa elimu ambao watoto wa dini hii kuu mbili wanapaswa kunufaika nao kama vijana tegemeo wa taifa la kesho, na wala si kwa;

kitendo cha waislamu kuwatenga wakristo ndicho kitahakikisha utatuzi wa changamoto ya upatikanaji wa maji vijijini ambapo takribani 90% ya watanzania waumini wa dini hizi kuu mbili wanapatikana.

Ili nchi hii isonge mbele, ni lazima tuhubiri umoja, na isiishie tu katika mahubiri, hapana, bali juhudi na mikakati ya makusudi kabisa lazima iwepo na itekelezwe ili kuhakikisha Tanzania inakuwa moja kwa leo na inaendelea kuwa moja na imara zaidi hata vizazi vijavyo.

Mwanaume kuwa na nyumba peke yake si tija…..!

Nakubaliana na Lemutuz kwa maneno aliyo andika hapo  chini lakini naomba niongezee kwa kusema kwamba; mwanaume kuwa na nyumba peke yake si tija bali kuwa na mji wako ndio mambo yote! Mwanaume sharti uwe na mji wako ndio utaheshimika! Hili hata kwenye Bible (kwa site tunao amini Bible) imesema. Siyo tu kufanya starehe halafu una lala na kuamka kwenye mji wa mwanaume mwenzio, kwani wewe unamatatizo gani?! Mwanaume kuuza sura hakukupi heshima au kukyongezea thamani yoyote bali kunaonyesha jinsi gani ulivyo na Itilafu kuchwani au mahala "fulanai" mwilini mwako!! Napia kuwa na nyumba nyingi kuna kufanya kuwa "baba mwenye nyumba" lakini hakukufanyi kuwa Baba Mwenye Mji (home)!! Kwa  mwanaume  kupata uwezo wa kusema nina kwangu au nina mji wangu lazima uwe na MKE!! Sijasema Kimada au Vimada hapana! MKE! Mwanamke uliyemuoa kihalali kwa kufata taratibu halali za kidini au lisheria! Nawala siyo mwanamke wa kufichia status kwa social media. Lasivyo hizo nyumba zako zinakuwa hazina uzito sana!! Nyumba hata Kunguni wanazo 😂😂 Hivi bado kuna ndoa za kimila karne hii  😕😕Just asking 🙈🙈Regrann from @lemutuz_superbrand  -  FACT: Hapa mjini kuna Baba mwenye nyumba ...sio Baba mwenye wabebez au magari na nguo ...hahahahahahaha.....NI BABA MWENYE NYUMBA TU! .....tuleni Batazzz lakini TUJENGE...Case Closed ....U know! - @lemutuz_superbrand  - #regrann

why so many people like to talk down on the teaching profession?

I don't get why so many people like to talk down on the teaching profession. It baffles me because teaching is no different than being a doctor, an engineer, a lawyer, all the other jobs that are deemed more important to society. These careers are seen as practices and people forget that Teaching is also a practice. It's a learning experience just like those other jobs. You see teachers literally everywhere. I always ask myself ...without teachers would we have doctors, lawyers, and engineers? People aren't born with all that knowledge they are TAUGHT it by TEACHERS. So, why the bad rep? Teachers are the backbone of all society and yet...never get that recognition. (Yes there are bad teachers, but there are far more good ones. But one should also research why there are bad teachers, what is so messed up about the education system that even ALLOWS bad teachers?) Of course many people who go into education don't do it to be noticed. But is it wrong to want to be respected? Is it wrong to want to know that your community understands your importance and impact on a student's life? Is it wrong to ask to be provided with resources needed to help reach student's success without having to constantly prove that they are essential? It seems like many people forget that it's not just the teachers but it's the students who also are affected. And how can a teacher do their job of educating these students when most of them don't even have the tools,support etc to achieve this goal? Everyone has a story about a teacher who has helped them, gone the extra mile, simply been there for them. Who would you be without them? - Rant ended***by Sarah, teacher to be***

Dina Marious: Angalia ndoto yako

Regrann from @dinamarious  -  Usiangalie magumu yanayokukabili na changamoto unazokutana nazo Leo angalia NDOTO yako.

Ndoto yako itatimia.......

 ndoto yako inawezekana.Kumbuka jinsi ulivyoiamini endelea kuiamini.

Inawezekana Leo umeamka una stress,huna hela,huelewi mambo yanavyokwenda.

Pamoja na yote endelea kuiamini NDOTO yako hata katika mazingira yanayokatisha tamaa.

Kumbuka wewe ndio una hiyo picha ya Kesho yako naamini ni picha nzuri sanaa na amini utaifikia.

Good morning!  - #regrann

Hujafa hujaumbika: Mariah Carey amegundulika na Bipolar disorder

Wahenga walisema hujafa hujaumbika hawakukosea bali walitaka watu wajifunze kuishi kwa unyenyekevu bila kudharau wengine kwani kama bado hatujakuchimbia kaburi lako tegemea kupatwa na kitu chochote kila kibaya au kizuri! Just be humble! Kuna watu wengi ukiwaona utadhani wapo vyema kabisa kiafya na kiroho, kumbe ni wagonjwa kama siyo kiroho, basi kimwili, au kiakili! Tena humu kwenye social media ndio nirahisi sana kuwagundua 😀😀 Wewe angalia sana watu wanaofanya vitu extreme just to get attention fanya kuwachunguza utagundua kuna shida mahala! Siyo tu wanao post matusi au picha za uchi, hapana! Hata wale ambao kutwa picha zao lazima ziwe na muonekano fulani "perfectly put together" the "divaish" behavior. Au mwingine kazi yake ni kupiga picha na viongozi wa siasa na "celebrates" tu haonyeshi maisha yake halisi zaidi ya hizo picha yani watu kama hawa wengi ni wagonjwa! Wengine ni waongo spare zake hakuna!!

Lakini  hakuna haja ya kumcheka mgonjwa japo saa nyingine katika hali ya kiubinadamu wengi tumejikuta tukifanya hivyo haswa kwa wale ambao wameumiza roho zetu! Kumbuka 'hujafa hujaumbika'! Wewe ona mtu kama Mariah Carey  uzuri na pesa zote alizo nazo bado amekutwa na huu ugonjwa! Bipolar siyo Ukichaa ila usipo tibiwa kwa muda mrefu unageuka kuwa kichaa kabisa. 

Mariah Carey aligundulika kuwa na huu ugonjwa mwaka 2011, ameficha kwa muda huo wote lakini sasa imefikia hali ambayo haufichiki tena. Kwa kuhofia kuwa ipo siku mtu angetoa hivyo siri kabla yeye hajasema imembidi sasa aende hadharani na kutangazia dunia kuwa yeye ni mgonjwa wa akili, hivyo dunia impokee na kumkubali jinsi alivyo!.....Kabla ya kuhukumu mtu jaribu kumjua kwa kiundani unaweza tena dhambi mbaya sana! #HujafaHujaumbika

Kwenye hili la Makonda na ‘watelekezwa’…….!

Regrann from @mutwiba  -  MJADALA 

Kwa wale wenye uelewa wa maswali yajayo naomba tusaidiane kuyatafakari na naamini tutapata majibu ama maswali zaidi yatakayohitaji ama kuleta majibu zaidi. Kwenye hili la Makonda na 'watelekezwa' nimejiuliza baadhi ya maswali. Na kwa kuwa penye wengi haliharibiki neno, wacha niulize hapa ili ukiweza jibu lolote kati ya maswali haya.

MJADALA WA HESHIMA UTATHAMINIWA

1: Hili la wanawake kutelekezwa na watoto wao linatokea Dar tu ama hata mikoani lipo?

2: Wanaotajwa Dar wakikimbilia mikoani ambako mpango ama mkakati huu haupo, watasakwa ama? Na watakaotajwa kwa chuki na kuharibiwa mahusiano yao ya sasa watafidiwa?

3: Hili la kuwataja wanaume wanaoaminika kutelekeza watoto linatendeka kisheria ama ni ubunifu wa mkuu wa mkoa? Kama ni kwa mujibu wa sheria, si lifanyike nchi nzima? Kama ni ubunifu wa Mkuu wa Mkoa, akiacha ama kuachishwa kazi na ubunifu wake usio katika maandiko unakuwa umefia hapo?

4: Hudhani kwamba ingekuwa vema kuandaa workshop ama hata matangazo ya radio ya kuwafunza sheria za ndoa / mahusiano wanawake waliotelekezwa na wanaotaka kuingia kwenye mahusiano?

5: Mhe. Mkuu wa Mkoa akishakutana nao, wakishawataja watu waliowatelekeza, atawatatulia tatizo lao ama atawaelekeza Mahakamani ambako sheria ambazo zipo tayari zinastahili kuchukua mkondo wake?

6: kilichoonekana juzi ni kipi? (i) wanawake waliotelekezwa? (ii) wanaume waliotelekeza? (iii) mfumo wa sheria usiotenda haki kwa wanawake? (iv) wanawake wasiojua haki zao ambazo walistahili kuzisaka na kuzipata kabla ya kumfikia Mkuu wa Mkoa?

Yaani kilichodhihirika leo ni jambo la kuihurumia jamii yetu kwa kutojua ama kupuuza sheria

Na kwa kuwa na imani katika njia isiyotufikisha tunakotakiwa kwenda.

My two cents.

Na natunza haki ya kukosea na kukosolewa.

Mzee wa Changamoto  - #regrann

Joyce Kiria: Wamejikuta wanakubaliana na IMANI ya KUVUMILIA hali walizonazo

Regrann from @joycekiriasuperwoman – Watu wengi wamenasa katika mtego wa kuamini kuwa hawana uwezo wa kupata ufumbuzi wa matatizo waliyonayo, kwa sababu wamejikuta wanakubaliana na IMANI ya KUVUMILIA hali walizonazo.
Wacha nikwambaie, Haujaumbwa ili kuvumilia matatizo yanayokukabili, umeumbwa ili UYATATUE na upige hatua. Chunguza matatizo yanayokuzunguka Leo na ujiambie nafsi yako ” HATA TATIZO HILI LINA UFUMBUZI, SITAKUBALI KUSHINDWA KULITATUA”
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Kila Changamoto inayokukabili Leo inahitaji UWEZO Mkubwa zaidi wa kufikiri au MAARIFA ili uweze kuitatua. Kinachofanya Changamoto iwe ngumu, siyo kwa sababu ya jinsi ilivyo Bali kwa sababu ya UWEZO Mdogo wa MAARIFA uliyonayo.
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Katika Changamoto ulizonazo jiulize unahitaji maarifa gani katika hilo Eneo ili uweze kukabiliana nayo na kuishinda… Good morning
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Top from @lizycollections @lizycollections – #regrann

Chumba chako cha kulala siyo sehemu ya michezo!

Zari, my dear umeona nowadays I don't post you like I used to right? Honestly, you have disappointed so many of us!! Never in a million times  wouldn't  have ever thought you could stoop yourself so low like that?! Honestly, for what?!! Because I'm sure you are not happy right now! So for what?! Don't you see how  Diamond is abusing your love?! Playing with your feelings, disempower you every day, and literally tarnishing your brand and you think it's okay cause?! Anyway, it's your life my dear the rest of us are just "hand clappers" 😂😂😂 wishing you the best!
Hayo ya Zari tumuachie Zari mwenyewe embu tuongee kuhusu mada yetu ya leo! Eti wewe unakiwekaje chumba chako cha kulala? Unaruhusu watu kuingia na kucheza kama hapo kwa Zari au una mipaka?! Kuna kitu kinaitwa "self discipline", Kama mtu hauna self discipline basi hautajua  wapi kwa kuweka mipaka yako! Hautojua wapi niseme ndio na wapi niseme hapana! Yani Mimi hapa nawaonyesheni chumba ninacho lala sasa hivi kwasababu bado sijaamia kwenye my "dreamed bed room" 😂😂 kweli kabisa siku nikiingia kwenye hicho chumba hamta kaa muone chumba changu cha kulaka kwa social media!! Nope! Labda wale watakao nitembelea ndio watabahatika kukiona tena tuwe tumezoeana sanaaaaaaa!! Hivi mlishaona mtu Kama Madam Rita Paulsen, Oprah Winfrey, au Jacqueline Mengi wakiwaonyesha vyumba vyao wanavyo lala?! You just have to leave something to yourself! Chumba chako cha kulala nikama your private part keep it private! Labda wale wanaokuja kukutembelea ndio utawapa house tour! Soon nitakuwa kama Mrs Mengi haonyeshagi nyumba yake yote  nikwa nje  na kwenye ngazi tu! Hata jiko hajawahi onyesha 🙈🙈 Nahiyo ndio inaongeza heshima na watu kujua mipaka  ya urafiki! Chumba chako is not a game room ambapo watu wanaingia bila mpangilio tena wanapanda mpaka kwenye kitanda chako! Always have a self discipline!

Uzalendo huanzia nyumbani kwako!

"Picha hii ilipigwa siku ambayo nilitangaza kuwa sitagombea tena Ubunge, baada ya kuwatumikia kwa miaka 10. Sita sahau hisia zetu siku hiyo, jinsi mioyo yetu ilivyo vunjika kwa kujua kuwa mazoea yetu yatabadilika. Nina uhakika upendo wetu umebaki daima. Ndugu zangu Singida mjini ninawakumbuka sana! ❤ MO" // This picture was taken the day I announced to my constituents that I won’t be running for parliament, after serving them for 10 years. I won’t forget our emotions that day, a deep sense of heartbreak knowing that our interactions will change but the love will forever remain. My fellow Singida Urban brothers and sister, I miss you dearly! ❤️ MO"

Biblia inasema kuwa mtu asiyependa wakwao ni mbaya kuliko mtu asiye amini! Yani ni bora  mpagani anaonekana mtakatifu mbele za Mungu kuliko yule anaye sema anamuamini Mungu wakati anachukia na kutojali wakwao! Kuna watu wengi sana tena wengine wapo mbele ya macho yetu kila siku baadhi yetu wanawachukulia kama "role model" wao bila kutafakari kwa kina kuhusu hao "role model" zao! Je,  umewahi kuwachunguza kama kweli wanapenda wakwao? Au ni watu wa 'mikakati' yani they have an hidden agenda ya kutaka kupata pesa kutoka kwa wazungu na sponsors wa mambo yao! Kama ni kusaidia je  umeshaona wakisaidia wakao? Au ndio wale watu ambao ndugu zao wote ni wa "mujini wenye pesa" ukiishi uswahili kwetu kule Keko wewe siyo ndugu yao hawakujui!! Uzalendo unaanzia nyumbani kwako kwani hata hao ndugu zako ni Watanzania hivyo ukiwasaidia unasaidia taifa la Tanzania. .............Binafsi naheshimu nakupanda  watu wenye tabia ya kutoa jasho lao na kusaidia watu bila kuomba au kubugudhi wengine. Mfano ni Mh. MO Dewji, ShyRose Bhanji, Dr. Ntuyabaliwe  Foundation, Rita Paulsen, Flaviana Matata Foundation, Kidoti na wengine. Sipendi mtu anayetaka kusaidia wengine kwa kulazimisha wengine wamchangie kwani kusaidia mtu ni ibada, hivyo ni siri ya mtu na Mungu wake. Usinielewe vibaya kuna kuchangia kwingine naunga mkono kabisa kama mambo ya cancer, shule, n.k (for special cause). Ninacho ongelea hapa ni kusaidia watu binafsi......... Anyway, napenda vile Mh. MO anavyo wajali watu wa kwao huko Singida mjini. Mfano mzuri wa kuwa uzalendo, unaanzia ndani ya nyumba yako!

You deserve!

You Deserve

 Make room in your life for what you really deserve instead of settling for a comfortable compromise. Join her on a journey to forgiveness.
Iyanla Vanzant
Photo: Gary Lupton/Studio D
Some years ago, I was shopping and came upon a beautiful red dress. The color, style and length were perfect. But the store didn’t have it in my size. It did, however, have the same dress in navy, which I wasn’t crazy about. Then I noticed a pair of blue shoes nearby that complemented that blue dress. (I didn’t love those, either.) So what did I do? I bought both. I was afraid I wouldn’t find anything else, so I settled. (It won’t surprise you to learn that I’ve never worn the dress or the shoes.)

You’ve probably heard the saying “Better the devil you know than the devil you don’t.” Here’s a question: Why put up with any devil? Why not give ourselves only good things? When we believe we cannot have what we desire—when we lack faith in ourselves and in the goodness of life—we settle for less. We decide that whatever is in front of us is better than nothing. But believe me when I tell you that better than nothing isn’t good enough.

I often see people settle for less than they deserve in personal relationships: accepting bad behavior, excusing broken promises, accommodating people who take more than they give. Why? Because doing things we’ve grown accustomed to is familiar, comfortable.

Which is why sometimes it can be tough to gauge whether we’re settling: When we tell ourselves that things are fine, we soon forget that they could be better. Here’s how to know whether you’re putting up with less than you deserve:

  • When you have to work yourself into a state of excitement rather than naturally experiencing joy and passion, you’re probably settling.
  • When you bargain with yourself about what you can do without rather than feeling gratitude for what you already have, you’re probably settling.
  • When your focus is on the time and energy you’ve invested in an endeavor rather than the love, joy and gratification you’ve gained, you’re probably settling.
  • When you’re making excuses about why you should stay put rather than going for what you truly want, you’re probably settling.
  • When you spend more time complaining about what you have than appreciating it, you’re definitely settling.

    But there is a lesson to be learned in everything. When we realize we’ve been settling, we discover what we actually believe. We learn that we perhaps think ourselves undeserving of happiness and find how susceptible we are to outside influences—because often we settle when others convince us it’s the right thing to do. Most important, we learn that we are not standing fully in our truth. Armed with this information, we can make new choices that support our desires—by beginning to believe that we can have what we really want.  Iyanla Vanzant is the host of OWN’s Iyanla: Fix My Life and the author of Peace from Broken Pieces.

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Dina Marios: Usifanye makosa ukaangalia safari ya mwenzako

Subira na Uvumilivu ni muhimu sana katika safari ya kukimbiza ndoto zetu na mafanikio yetu.

Ni muhimu kukubali kuwa matokeo mazuri ya juhudi zetu hayaji kwa haraka au Papo kwa papo. Lakini wakati ukipitia hatua muhimu ndogo ndogo za matokeo madogo madogo jua upo tayari njiani. Inawezekana unajua au hujui sababu wewe ni aina ya watu mnaotaka matokeo mazuri hapo hapo. Kuna aina ya watu wao hutaka matokeo ya juhudi zao hapo hapo…unataka yes hapo hapo…na ukikosa ni rahisi kuwa discouraged na kukata tamaa moja kwa moja.Kwa nini imekataliwa?kwa nini haijatoboza kama nilivyotaka?basi hili jambo naachana nalo…basi sitaki tena…mimi sio bora.

Na kuna watu wao ni kama marathoners wakimbia mbio ndefu. Anakimbia umbali mrefu km kadhaa lakini mdogo mdogo mpaka afikie finishing line.Njiani ataanguka,atasikia kiu, lakini amefocus kwenye finishing line yake.

Subira/Patience ni muhimu sanaa wanasema safari ya miles 1000 huanza na hatua moja. Ijue safari yako iwapo ni ndefu na inayohitaji hatua nyingi tena za taratibu au la.

Usifanye makosa ukaangalia safari ya mwenzako mbona fulani nimeanza nae juzi tu yeye kashafika? yeye kashafanikiwa? Ukaacha njia yako nakuanza kufata ya kwake…utapotea.

It’s owkey wakati mwingine kuanguka, lakini usikate tamaa…..Rise Up tena ukiwa na ari ya kufanikisha zaidi na zaidi.

Subira……..Uvumilivu kama haunao anza kuufanyia mazoezi ni muhimu sana.

Good Morning!
Dina Marios

                                              ***Baadhi ya maoni***

Joyce Kiria: MWANAMKE PIGA KAZI KWENYE NDOA FUATA MAHABA

IVI DUNIA YA LEO BADO KUNA MWANAUME ANAKATAZA MKE KUJITAFTIA KIPATO???? ------ Jamani Kuolewa kunatakiwa kukubadilisha tu kuwa umetoka kuishi mwenyewe na sasa unaishi na mwanaume lakini sio ubadilishwe kutoka kwenye kazi uwe mama wa nyumbani. Halafu kuna wanaume wanatumia hicho kama kigezo kisa kujifanya wana wivu kuhisi labda mwanamke akitoka kwenda kazini atakuwa na mchepuko. Yani wewe mumeo akisema acha kazi mwambie nipe kazi ingine ya kujiajiri na tena hiyo kazi nayo uwe na haki nayo sio umeachishwa kazi umefunguliwa kiduka siku mnaachana kiduka chake anachukua unaenda kuanza upya. Usikubali kupoteza kazi yako kisa ndoa tambua maisha ya leo yenyewe hayatabiriki wanaume wenyewe wa sasa maji kupwa maji kujaa sasa ndo uache kazi unajua umeolewa ukiachwa unaenda kuwa omba omba. Kwanza mwanaume mwenye akili atamuacha mke wake afanye kazi ili siku mambo yamekuwa mabaya kwake mke anaweza endelea kutunza familia. MWANAMKE PIGA KAZI KWENYE NDOA FUATA MAHABA... Kumekucha achia shuka bibi weeeeeee, SHAURILO

Siku ya maisha yangu: Ndani ya maisha ya designer Kiki Zimba

 “Siku ya Maisha Yangu na @kikizimba @kikisfashion Siku Ya Maisha Yangu Ni show inayo onyesha maisha ya kila siku ya watu mbali mbali wanao toka kwenye mazingira tofauti. Tuna angalia wafanya biashara, wajasiriamali, wana siasa, watu mbali mbali Walio fanikiwa kwenye kazi zao mbali mbali, wakurugenzi, washawishaji, watu wanao julikana kwenye jamii, Na watu ambao wanafanya vitu vikubwa kwenye jamii hata Kama hawa julikani. Je kwenye Siku Yao huwa wana fanya nini tangia Asubuhi mpaka wana maliza siku? Je nini kiini cha mafanikio Yao Na vitu gani vina wasukuma kufanya mambo mengi makubwa wanayo yafanya. Lengo la kipindi cha Siku ya Maisha Yangu Ni kujifunza, kuhamasisha, kuwezesha, kushawishi kupitia watu mbali mbali. Nenda kwenye Bio Na fungua link kuangalia kipindi. #sikuyamaishayangu #kikizimba #kikisfashion” Dorothy Kipeja

LeMutuz: DANUBE sio Chama cha Siasa au anything ni Kampuni ya Biashara ambayo inatoa ajira kwa Vijana wa Kitanzania kama 3,000 na inalipa kodi

LIVE HARD TALK:- The Art Of Business decisions ni maamuzi magumu ya Kibiashara ambayo huwa hayajali local au international Politics huwa ni maamuzi MAGUMU ya kibiashara yanayojali PROFIT kwanza sio Siasa wala anything nilitaka tu kumsaidia aliyeandika hii habari na habari zote zinazotrend kuhusiana na hii ishu ya uamuzi wa Kibiashara ….DANUBE sio Chama cha Siasa au anything ni Kampuni ya Biashara ambayo inatoa ajira kwa Vijana wa Kitanzania kama 3,000 na inalipa kodi kama inavyotakiwa kwa mujibu wa Sheria ila Tanzania hatuna sheria ya kuyaamulia Makampuni ya Biashara nani wa kuwatangazia matangazo yako ya Biashara …ndio maana hatujawaamulia Yanga kusajili Wachezaji wa Bongo tu na hatujawaamulia Simba kusajili wachezaji wetu tu wa Bongo ….kama Dunia ingekuwa na mawazo mgando kama huyo muandishi juu ina maana Samatta asingeweza kwenda kucheza Ulaya kwani kule Belgium hakuna wachezaji? …guys kabla hamjaandika mawazo yenu finyu muwe mnafikiria kwa upana kuwa hizi Social Media zinasomwa Dunia nzima na hasa huko Nje ya nchi sasa wakisoma mawazo madogo kama haya watatushangaa sana kwamba eti kuna wananchi Tanzania hawajui maana ya Global Community & Outreach …DANUBE wameamua maamuzi ya kibiashara na wanazo Justifications as a FACT kwamba @zarithebosslady & @diamondplatnumz ndio Celebrities maarufu sana Tanzania sasa hivi na hata East Africa nzima wao wawili Combined wana wafuasi 7M humu Instagram HAKUNA WENGINE….sasa ungekuwa wewe unamiliki hiyo biashara unasema utampa yule Miss Tanzania asiyejitambua anayegombana mpaka na Kamati ya Miss Tanzania wenyewe na ana Wafuasi wasiozidi 500 tu ndio awe Balozi wako wa Biashara kama DANUBE BIG BRAND? au Super Couple with 7 Million Followers? hahahaha ….I mean kuna mambo yanachosha sana humu Instagram sometimes ila tutaendelea kuwaelimisha tu kwamba haya mambo ya mateam yenu Uchwara msiyaingize kwenye biashara za watu cause Yanga na Simba hawajavunja Sheria kuwasajili Tshishimbi na Okwi so hata DANUBE hwajakosea kumpa deal Zari ni maamuzi ya Business…I hope nimewasaidia wengi at large! …na this topic is CLOSED! – le Mutuz

 Tatizo la watu wenye makelele na muda wa kuandika ujinga kama huyo kaka / dada ni watu ambao biashara yao kubwa kukaa kwenye social media kutukana watu na kueneza chuki! Hamna wanachokijua zaidi ya matusi! Inasikitisha sana hii generation itakayokuja kutawala taifa letu kwani wengi wao akili zao ni za “kupewa”! Hamna kitu wanaweza fikiria kwa akili yao wenyewe ili kutofautisha Tui la Nazi na maziwa!! So sad!………..You go Zari!!

“MUDA huongea sana…..Muda hutenganisha ukweli na Uongo” ~~~~ Dina Marios

MUDA huongea sana.....
muda huponya..
muda hutibu majeraha...
Muda hutenganisha ukweli na Uongo....
Muda Hutoa majibu
Muda hukomaza n.k

Katika jambo lolote lile lipe muda 
Hata ukishika mimba si unaipa muda ili ikue na mtoto azaliwe?
Hata ukipanda mbegu shambani si unazipa muda zichipue na baadae mazao yakue na kuja kuvunwa.
Hakuna jambo linakwenda kwenda tu yoote yanakwenda na muda. Basi hata maswali ujiulizayo ambayo hujapata majibu,yape muda ipo siku utapata majibu.

Kuna mambo huko nyuma nilikuwa sina ujuzi nayo....sina taarifa nayo lakini baada ya MUDA nikayajua na kujifunza.

Hivi unajua uliwahi kuwa mtoto mchanga?unaelishwa na kunyonya?unavalishwa nepi ya vipande vya khanga lakini MUDA ulipita sasa upo hivyo ulivyo.
Katika kila jambo lipe muda.....good morning

Je, Zari ataweza kubeba “bendera” za nchi mbili!?!

  Katika Biblia kuna maneno yanasema ‘hakuna mtu awezae kutumikia mabwana wawili’! Yani kiufupi lazima mmoja utampendelea na mwingine utamuonea kwa mapenzi ya uwongo! Sasa, wote tumeshuhudia maisha ya Zari na Ivan mpaka kuachana kwao. Lakini pamoja na hayo Ivan bado hakuona mtu mwingine ambaye angefaa kulinda mali zake, watoto wake, na kuhakikisha kuwa his Legacy forever lives zaidi ya Zari. Na Zari mwenyewe kwa mdomo wake alitamka mbele ya kadamnasi siku ya mazishi ya Ivan Ssemwanga  (SomaHapa) kua atavaa viatu vya Ivan Ssemwanga, kwani yupo tayari, anaona kama she was prepared enough for it!!  Na kwamba she will do it for his boys, his family, friends, and his legacy!  Swali ambalo ninajiuliza will Zari be able to be a “flag bearer” for the two men from different countries?!  Can she honestly, sincerely, and lovingly serve the “two masters”! ……..Personally, I’m not sure but very curious to see how will this go down considering one of her “men” is still living and 100%  involving in her life!………Will Zari disappoint many or will she continue to shine and come-out as a shero? Will this be Zari’s downfall as she may lose some sort of “respect” from Ugandans who are / were hardcore fans of the “Rich Gang” particularly  The Don- Ivan Ssemwanga?! Will Watanzania accept Zari and give her 100%  support to carry their flag as Diamond’s wife especially after his bizarre behaviors of abusing and disrespecting women!?! Remember “The B**** is dying for fame”  and “the baby is not mine”! And finally, the boys are growing up, one day they will have bunch of questions to ask! How will her children feel? Will they feel a sense of betrayal from their own mother; the only living parent?! Can’t get any better than this!! I will surely keep up with the story. And You be the judge!

 

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