Category Archives: General Life Lessons

Throw 🔙 Thursday: Repost from 2017

Wema Sepetu katika ubora wake! Vazi limemkaa haswa aaa! Kapendeza sana! My dear Wema naomba leo nikushauri, unajuwa wewe ni our Sweetheart! Tunakupenda sana na kukutakia mema! Naomba usichukie kuhusu ushauri wangu kwani unatoka from a good place of my heart, na pia sio lazima uhufuate unaweza ukasoma na ukauwacha kama ulivyo! Na ninakuhakikishia bado nitakupenda bila kinyongo! …… Wema sikiliza: 《1》Hii karne ya 21 kuzaliwa mzuri tu haitoshi! Wewe ni mzuri sanaaaaaa! Lakini unamengi ya ku-prove ili umpate yule mume / partner unaye stahili kuwa naye KAMA KWELI HILO NI HITAJI LA MOYO WAKO!

《2》 Achana kabisa na watu /fans wako ambao saa zote wanakueweka katika muonekano wa “mashindano” na mtu fulani haswa Zari, wakati Zari got no time for nobody yani yupo busy na maisha yake! Wewe ishi maisha yako bila kupigizana kelele na mtu! Au kuweka mazingira fulani yanayo onyesha some sort of competition! Kumbuka mtu yeyote yule ambaye anataka kushindana na mtu jua huyo mtu teyari umesha mzidi ndio maana anataka aku-drug down to  his /her level! Always choose “highway” na sio mashindano!  《3》Ngoja nikwambie ukweli, wewe na Zari wote ni wazuri sana tena to be fair labda niseme wewe umependelewa zaidi na figure kuliko Zari! Hata hivyo any man ambaye ni potential au well successful will absolutely pick Zari over you! Unajua kwa nini? Zari has proven herself kuwa (a) she knows what she wants in her life! And happiness is her number one priority! Na ndio maana aliamua kuachana na marehemu Ivan Ssemwanga na kuwa na Diamond! She prefers happyness over money (b) Zari has proven kuwa she can make her man to be the best of all! She did that twice! Kwa marehemu Ivan Ssemwanga na sasa kwa Diamond! Ndio, unaweza sema ulimpenda Diamond akiwa bado “Nasib Abdul” but mdogo wangu, wenyewe wanasema hivi “a man with dreams need a woman with vision”! Na hapo ndipo Zari alipokupiga bao! You knew Nasib’s dreams but you didn’t have VISION to take Diamond where he needs to be! Plus badala ya kuwa team player ukawa kama una compete na Diamond; kumbuka zile kauli kuwa “anatembelea nyota yako” toka kwa mashabiki wako na watu wako wakaribu! Zari aliacha yote kumjenga Diamond at least for the first two yrs ya relationship yao. Building Diamond ikamsaidia kujiendeleza na yeye pia kwa ku-expand her empire in Tanzania. Wakati alionekana kama amepoteza Dira ya maisha  kwenye macho ya watu wenye mtazamo finyu lakini kwetu sisi wengine tulijua Zari is going to surprise them big time and she surely did! Kumbuka nimekwambia kuwa Zari nia yake ni kuwa na mwanaume ambaye will make her happy, and that is what exactly Diamond is doing! Spoiling her right before your eyes! Pia angalia Ivan Ssemwanga, pamoja na yote bado Zari alikuwa ndio Kimbilio na tegemeo lake! Kitu ambacho wewe mpaka dakika hii pamoja na kuteka people’s heart but none of them can trust you with their “treasure” or legacy! (c) Zari has proven kuwa she is not only a great partner but  she can hold down a family as well! She’s strong, has good family values enough to make her own family kitu ambacho wanaume wengi waliofanikiwa wanapenda kuwa nacho! Na hapa siongelei kuwa na watoto kwani watoto ni mipango ya Mungu! Ninacho kisema hapa nikuwa “grounded” enough to make someone’s house a family friendly place ambapo mtu kama Dr. Mengi atakuwa excited, and proud enough kusema I’m going home na once in a while kuwaita some of his friends for dinner! Mpaka sasa kwa hili mdogo wangu Wema, umefeli kabisa! Siku zote waliokuzunguka mmh! only God knows who they are! Embu jifunze kitu kutoka kwa aunt Ezekiel! 《4》 My dear Wema, achana na kutafuta attention zisizo na kichwa wala miguu! Don’t let them losers and fools use you my dear! Kama kweli you want to have that potential man holding your hand then you need to prove kuwa you are a woman of character! Make your man feel secured kuwa hayupo kwenye “competition” with another man! Yani kuwa akija mwenye hela zaidi yake he’s out of the league! Hii inaweza ikawa ngumu kunielewa lakini mpaka utakapo elewa hichi ninacho kwambia basi tegemea kutumika na wanasiasa pamoja na wenye pesa za “mission-town” ambao wanatafuta kuandikwa kwenye magazeti ya udaku!

《5》 Kama nilivyo sema kuwa you’ve  a lot tu-prove na kitu kingine ni kuonyesha kuwa you can stand strong alone na kua-achieve something for your own good! Kwamfano mimi sio such a “career woman” but I managed to get my college education. Nasio hivyo tu, nimelea mwanangu ambaye niko so proud of her! Plus, naishi mwenyewe hapa Marekani bila msaada wa mwanaume hivyo mwanaume yoyote yule atajua kuwa kama tumependana ni kwasababu zingine na mapenzi ya kweli nasio ugumu wa maisha wa hapa Marekani! Angalia, mfano wa karibu ni Jokate, she’s a great example kama utataka kujifunza kutoka kwake! You have to show some potentials! 《6》Lamwisho, achana na mashoga a.k.a “wadada wa mujini”! You have your sisters make them marafiki zako wa karibu. Unaweza ukawa na baadhi ya marafiki wazuri kwa kula “bata” but don’t let them be your close friends! Kwasababu naona wengi wao sio wazuri na mkikorofishana siri zako  zote wanakutolea nje wakati wewe sioni kama unatabia ya kutoa siri za watu! Hivyo achana nao kabisa! Otherwise, mie nakupenda sana na nakutakia mafanikio mema. Najua bado unanafasi ya kufanya matengenezo! Kama nimekosea naomba unisamehe sana. ❤

#Throw 🔙 Thursday  #Repost from 2017

#Soma original post 👉🏾 WemaSepetuKatikaUboraWake

Hollietheblogger: RESILIENCE‼️

Regrann from @hollietheblogger  -  We have all gossiped too much this week, so let’s talk about something different 🤷‍♀️ RESILIENCE‼️ Resilience is the capacity to recover quickly from difficulties. Is sort of the ability to spring back from any challenge and difficulties and soldier on like nothing happened‼️Like for me, given the dynamic nature of events in a healthcare sector, resilience is a must have characteristic. One minute you are fighting to resuscitate a patient, the other you are signing an end of life form and the next examining a new patient with all smiles like nothing has happened. Over a period of time, You tend to block these events and just put yourself in a moment every time everyday. Resilience can be emotionally draining so it requires tremendous emotional stamina. Most people give up easily because they have traded resilience with fear. They choose the easy way out and opt for easier choices instead of immersing themselves in this complex journey and wait to enjoy their complete un-breakable success. For example you want to loose weight and get in shape but you do not want to exercise or give up your old lifestyle. So you will try exercising for a week and get drained or bored and decide to resort to other short cuts to achieve your objective. The truth is that you might just get thinner but not fitter which is your main health benefit goal. So overall you fail to achieve the COMPLETE OUTCOME. For you to enjoy your FULL benefits of success you must be willing to sacrifice and invest your everything in any project or goal you choose. You must be resilient in all circumstances no matter the weather so that when you build that house you have a solid foundation or business without any loopholes. See your Boss Lady is so resilient that when you think she’s broken she springs back tougher and stronger✌🏾 So ladies watch and learn 💯#issabossladiesmovement #brandzari💯🗣🗣💰  - #regrann

It’s only in TZ that 98% if it’s local celebrity is on instagram begging from the local struggling businesses for advertisements…..!

Regrann from @hollietheblogger  -  I salute educated and dignified Tanzanians💯💯💯. My sisters and brothers you have broken the norm and crushed this stereotype & you deserve praise 🤙🏾You know them days Tanzanian Education was one of the most sought after in East Africa. Many former African leaders either studied in Tanzania or Uganda. It was prestigious to be a TZ alumni 👩‍🎓. However, given the current events I just want to believe that standards must have dropped drastically or this extreme rate of unemployment has discouraged many and forced young people on streets. It’s only in TZ that 98% if it’s local celebrity is on instagram begging from the local struggling businesses for advertisements🙈. Only in TZ that women mock and publicly diss another woman’s child bearing struggles or inability to have children..cheii🤦🏾‍♂️ Only in TZ that women are defined by marriage and you see them fighting over men publicly, breaking families to please society and be rendered tough by other fellow women🤷‍♀️ It’s only in TZ that men are allowed to publicly abuse and re-abuse women emotionally and sexually and the society doesn’t rebuke such unacceptable behaviour because it’s complacent to this culture. It’s only in TZ that mother in-law and an unacknowledged prospective daughter in law would publicly insult and mock each other and drag their dirty linen in public without any shame. It’s only in TZ the so called local celebrities will fight for cheap stolen designs publicly and proudly expose screen shots of their discussions for the world to see in the name of levelling up or protecting their brands🙈🙈What went wrong in/with TZ 🇹🇿? Anyone with a different experience or views of this new TZ and it’s current generation? 😱I hope people like @jokatemwegelo, a stream of new and young leaders will start working towards restoring youth confidence, sorting unemployment and setting systems and measures to protect daughters and girls of Tanzania’s next generation. #goodday👌  - #regrann

hollietheblogger: So many people ask me If I get paid to promote

Regrann from @hollietheblogger - So many people ask me If I get paid to promote @zarithebosslady the answer is NO. But let me tell you what I gain and why I waste my time..it’s her rare STORY‼️ Rare because, she chose HER and HER KIDS above EVERYTHING something many women have no courage to do‼️ My benefits might NOT be in monetary terms but it’s in a sense of hope and reassurance. Reassurance that in future our daughters will NEVER have to sit silent in abusive relationships just because the society expect them to. But because of Zari’s and many other women’s experiences they will have the strength to reclaim CONTROL and emancipate themselves‼️ Just like you, in Zari I see my mother, my sisters, my aunties & best friends. Women who have been cheated on, abused and emotionally & physically trampled on. Women whose happiness have been snatched by another woman. Homes and children left fatherless, loveless, poor and homeless just because of men’s selfishness. Despite all these evil, society and some ignorant women still believe it’s ok for a man to disrespect a woman‼️ Religion & culture teach us that women are beneath men & aren’t allowed to be their own person. When a woman rises up to be her own voice there is so much noise surrounding her strength. Therefore if someone say that DP actions were innocent & didn’t mean any harm, I say that is nonsense. 

Zari the real Bosslady
DP knew and still knows what he does. His actions were & are still emotionally abusive and were/are meant to break ZARI and leave her dependent and powerless just as he’s done to all his exes. DP has broken them all emotionally and left them powerless and dependent on him‼️If Zari had hold on to this nonsense this guy would have continued to demean her publicly to show her she’s worthless. These actions would have created fear and decreased her self esteem making her dependent on him‼️💯 So don’t expect the dirty ***  to move on or find happiness anywhere else because she’s EMOTIONALLY broken and will sit in that rented flat as a side fuck for the rest of her life👌Compared to Zari who had a loving upbringing, these two are both as bad as each other because they both had a fucked up-bringing #revisitthispostinfuture #goodmorning - #regrann

Siku zote katika maisha yangu nilipenda sana kuitwa mama lakini ….

Regrann from @open_kitchen2014 – Siku zote katika maisha yangu nilipenda sana kuitwa mama lakini kwa sababu ya uzito wangu ambao ulikuwa unanipa complications katika uzazi ilinichukua muda mrefu sana kufanikiwa mwaka 2010 nilibahatika kwa mara 2 kupata ujauzito baada ya hormone treatment za kufa mtu nilipigana na kubeba mimba mpaka almost 7 months lakini kwa bahati mbaya my pressure haikuwa controlled vizuri mtoto akafia tumboni nilikaa labour masaa 12 sitokaaa kuyasahau mpaka nikafanikiwa kujifungua and she was a girl almost 1.5kg tukamzika next to my mum .  Baada ya mwezi nikapata bahati ya kwenda shanghai china kulikuwa a world expo kupitia Tan trade nikafunga mzigo wangu wa vinyago maana ilibidi nifanye mchaka mchaka nikapakia mzigo kwenye container pamoja na wenzangu na hapo sijapona vizuri ila Mungu ni mwema alinipa nguvu za ziada mwezi unaofuata nikapanga safari na kuondoka hakuna siku niliwahi kumwona mume wangu analia kama hiyo siku ananipeleka airport alilia sana kwa uchungu na kunionenea huruma kwamba sijapona vizuri then naenda kuhangaika nguvu zenyewe bado hazijarudi vizuri alinibembeleza sana nikamwambia bora niende nikapigane nifanye kazi kuliko kukaa kitandani na mawazo mimi naamini kila jambo Mungu anapanga kwa muda wake i am strong mentally na nitaweza tu wewe kuwa na amani.

Tulikuwa wafanya biashara wengi kidogo kama 10 hivi tulifika na kupokelewa vizuri na watu wa ubalozi wetu so ikabidi tu share apartment mimi akaniomba dada mmoja ni share nae alikuwa na mtoto wa kiume alikuwa kama na miaka 10 plus or 8 yrs hiyo apartment ilikuwa single room so mimi nikachukua bed wao wakasema watachukua sitting room because kuna more space na kuna sofa bed kubwa basi next day tukaanza kukimbizana kupanga mizigo kwenye banda letu kwakweli ilikuwaa kazi ngumu sana kwasababu mzigo ulikuwa umeshushwa almost 2km away ndio store ilipo vinyago ni vizito sana so inabidi uvitoe store uje kuvipanga kwenye banda na ukifika lazima uvipige kiwi yaani tulikuwa hoi na huwezi kuleta vyote maana nafasi ndogo so inabidi ulete kidogo kidogo na hapo sina nguvu za kutosha but najipa moyo i can do this ukizingatia hakuna kukaaa ukimaliza kupiga kiwi kupanga unasimama uuze bidhaa zako yaani ikifika jioni miguu yote imevimba unchoka hata kuongea huwezi.

Yule dada aliyeomba kukaa na mimi akawa so rude kwangu ghafla mara kanuna mara hataki mtoto wake akuongeleshe watu tunakaa same room tunfanya biashara same banda dah nikasema huu ni mtihani but mtoto was so kind akawa tukikutana nje ananiambia Aunty its ok my mum is like that msamehe tu he was a good boy mimi nikaamua kumpotezea na kuishi kivyangu nikiingia room kwangu kimya naoga nalala .

Nikiamka naenda store najazia mzigo kwenye stand yangu napiga kazi na hapo mchina hajui kiswahili wala kingereza biashara tunafanya kwa calculator yaani we acha tu unaongea mpaka unapasuka untoa mifano yote maana wote tunauza same product sasa wewe hapo inabidi uwe mjanja mteja akipenda kinyago chako usimwachie ukimwachia tu imekula kwako  Aiseee nilipigana for 4 weeks none stop 7 days a week 12 hrs kila siku on my feet Mungu ni mwema niliuza mzigo wangu wote sikubakiza hata kitu kimoja nilimshukuru sana Mungu maana kuna wamasai wakubwa wananishinda urefu nilisema hawa kweli nitawauza but i had faith mteja alikuja akanipa bingo ndefu dah i was so happy nilipomaliza tu mzigo nikafunga sanduku langu huyooo nikarudi zangu dar mifuko imejaaaa nilikuwa nimechoka sana but i did it niliinvest kama dola 10,000 usd kila kitu mzigo plus all expenses nikapata kama 35,000 usd in 30 days i was so happy nilijiona mimi ni mshindi mkubwa sana i did not give up kabisa mazingira ya kazi na kuishi yalikuwa magumu but i stayed focus .

Miezi miwili baada ya kurudi nikajikuta nina mimba tena nikaanza hormone treatment pressure ikawa controlled then Mungu akanipa zawadi ya Baby Iman so leo nataka wewe usikate tamaaa no matter what NEVER GIVE UP BELEIVE IN YOURSELF AND BELEIVE IN GODS TIMING .

kila kitu Mungu anapanga kwa muda wake mitihani inakuja kila siku we need to stay focused

Watu tumetoka mbali sana kwenye haya maisha ya kupambana but Mimi sijawahi kukata tamaa💞 – #regrann

True Situation Analysis of Life: There’s no permanent champion, but current champion

             True Situation Analysis of Life.

Mapigano Peter and his wife

After Secondary School..

All your classmates have gone in different directions in the world.

Some have completed universities and are now:

  • Doctors,
  • Engineers,
  • Teachers,
  • Pilots,
  • Lawyers,
  • Administrators, etc.
  • Some are married,
  • Some have given birth,
  • Some are still searching and waiting on the Lord.
  • Some are dead, don’t forget that too.
  • And others are on the sick bed,
  • Some are running their higher degrees: Masters, PHD, etc.
  • Some haven’t even gained admission into the tertiary institution and may NEVER be able to.
  • Some own companies,
  • Some are now Directors and major shareholders in global companies.

But how do you feel

When you meet your classmates, and it seems like he/she has accomplished their dreams and you’re not yet close to yours? So many thoughts run through your mind, right?

First, you think God has not been fair to you. How about the ones you meet on the street wearing dirty cloths and still struggling for survival ?  Do you get the same thoughts running through your mind? I guess, NO. Don’t forget too that some are already dead.

Somehow it feels natural to have that feeling of jealous for those mates who seem better off, but it is really unnecessary. There is no room for regrets,

We are all different and our paths to greatness are also not the same in distance. Some might have arrived earlier before you and some after you, but whatever level you find yourself in life,

Please keep trying to break limitations and move further. Celebrate the success of others, its an indication that yours too shall surely come.

Zari the real Bosslady

Your friend buys a car now, be happy with him/ her. Remember when you’ll buy yours,  theirs might not be the latest again. There’s no permanent champion, but current champion.

Life is not about competition, do not be in a race with anyone; remember, we may seem to be reading the same book but different chapters at different times.

Don’t let the passion in you kill the desire in you, keep it burning. What you’re passing through today; Write it down because one day the world would be ready to read it, they’ll become part of your success story.

There’s no height you cannot attain, believe in yourself, define your goals, recognize distractions and don’t stop striving. Spend time teaching yourself, because those things that mainly take people to the top are the things they devoted their time to develop.

Don’t be intimidated by your friend’s success, the sky is wide enough for birds to fly without touching one another. Value every little thing that God brings into our life, love God and obey Him. For with God, all things are possible.

The Ambassador of Bryan Foundation-Zari in doing charity work in Uganda

*Now to those who are on top Never forget to give a helping hand to those who are down.Because Life is full of uncertainties; the one you pull up today, may be the one to hold your hands and prevent you from falling tomorrow*

A piece of advice there, food for thought

Share this to all your friends and let them realize that God has a purpose in their lives.

May God bless you.”

***Written by Mipigano Peter***

Maisha ni nini?!

“Maisha ni nin? Swali hili limekuwa na utata na kuusumbua ulimwengu ni nini maana ya maisha; je! maisha ni kuwa na mume mwenye pesa nyingi? Je!maisha ni kuwa mke mzuri? Je! maisha ni kuwa na nyumba au gari nzuri? Je! maisha ni kuwa na marafiki wengi? Je! maisha ni kuwa na watoto? au je! maisha ni kuwa na kazi nzuri inayokupa heshima? Maswali haya yote ni sawa na bure maana watu wamekuwa na vyote hivyo na bado hawaelewi ni nini maana ya maisha! Maisha ni kutambua kuwa kuna Mungu na kukubali kuisikiliza sauti yake, kukubali kuwa yeye ametukomboa katika utumwa wa dhambi. Maisha ni kutambua kuwa miguuni pa Yesu pekee ndio mahali pa usalama Luka 10:38-42″ 

“mpenzi yoyote yule anayekupiga kuna siku ATAKUUWA TU sio mtu wa kumchezea”

Regrann from @lemutuz_superbrand  -  LIVE STRAIGHT TALK: FACTS The Art of Love and Hate takwimu zinaonyesha kati ya Mwaka 2016 na leo 2018 Jumla ya Wananchi 341 wameuliwa na Wapenzi wao kati yao ni Wanawake ndio waliouliwa zaidi yaani Wanawake 247 na waliobaki ni Wanaume waliouliwa ni 94 wote wamekufa kwenye mapenzi na hasa ndoa inasikitisha sana ...kinachosikitisha sana ni the fact that Jamii imenyamaza kimya Wabunge wetu hawana hata habari na Wanasiasa wetu ndio wamekuwa mabubu kabisa sababu? ni Maadili yetu zaidii ya kuficha mapungufu ya Ndoa kwa Mwanaume kulalamika kwa jamii kuwa hamuelewi mke wake ni Aibu sana na Mwanamke kulalamika kwa jamii kuwa hamuelewi mumewe pia ni Aibu ya kuahindwa kuficha mambo ya ndani ya ndoa na matokeo yake ndio haya Taifa limepoteza Nguvu kazi ya Wananchi 341 ...nani anatakiwa kuhusika na afanye nini? ndipo tunapokwama na ninarudia tena na tena kwamba huu ni wakati muafaka Serikali ikaanza kulitupia macho hili tatizo ambalo chanzo chake ni Mapenzi na hata kwenye kuua huwa wanajiamini kwamba wanafanya kitu sawa kwa niaba ya mapenzi yao kwa wanaowaua ...tunatakiwa kuimarisha our Social Welfare Services ziwe na Professionals wanaoweza kusuluhisha matatizo ya Ndoa mara wanapoarifiwa tu na hata wapewe nguvu za kisheria za kuwaweka Rumande Wanaume na Wanawake waanaonekana kuwa chanzo cha matatizo ya kufikia kupigana katika ndoa au mapenzi ....ninasema hivi hatuwezi kuwa na Viwanda imara kama hatuna Wananchi Imara na sisi wananchi its about time sasa tukaanza kuamka usingizini hakuna mapenzi ya kupigana pigana mpenzi yoyote yule anayekupiga kuna siku ATAKUUWA TU sio mtu wa kumchezea I mean mpenzi anayepiga ni hatari sana ni most of the times ni kwa sababu amekulia kwenye ndoa ya Mama yake kupigwa na Baba yake au Baba yake kupigwa na Mama yake guys usicheze na mpenzi wa aina hiyo cause atakuuwa ....ndio maana USA watu wa namna hii wakifungwa jela huwa hawachiwi maana hakuna Therapy wala Rehab inayoweza kuwasaidia isipokuwa kuishi jela tu ...kwa mnaopigwa na Wapenzi wenu please take action now kama hawezi kuacha muwache cause ataishia kukuuwa! - @lemutuz_superbrand  - #regrann

Zari don’t be fooled, stay awake!

Okay! I believe we all had a chance to listen to Diamonds ft Ravvyn new song #Iyena kwangu mimi naona wimbo upo kawaida japo video ni nzuri na nafikiri uwepo wa Zari mule umeongezea mvuto kwa kiasi kikubwa! Kama hujaona tazama 👇

Lakini sijali sana kuhu wimbo, ujumbe wangu ni kwa Zari kwani nineona mashabiki "maandazi" wanavyo ongea eti "warudiane" na Diamond 😳😳 I am like for real!! Who in a right mind will dare to say that?! Seriously people?  let us be real here for a second!! Hivi ni huyu huyu Diamond aliye m-cheat Zari na kuzaa nje baadaye akaomba msamaha Zari akamsamehe kwa moyo mkunjuvu na akasema "I made peace with his mistakes"!! Baada ya hapo nini kilitokea?!! Sindio akarudi kutoka South nakupokelewa na Wema Sepetu ukumbini na familia yake yote ikiwepo na Wema?! Na hapo ni baada ya mama Diamond kukaa South Africa kwa Zari zaidi ya mwezi pamoja na mumewe halafu kafika Bongo ndio huyo yupo busy na Wema? (With all due respect to Wema, mimi sinaga mambo ya timu bali nataka nifikishe ujumbe wangu vizuri ndio maana namtaja) Na bado picha na video akiwa na wanawake wengine zilirushwa kwenye mitandao na kila mtu anaona! Nyie watu acheni mzaha!! 
To you Zari, I'm not sure if you consider yourself "a celebrity" or a business lady who happened to be a "celebrity"! Celebrity is a culture, if you want to live a  celebrities culture then forget about your integrity, take Diamond back and prepare to lose respect from many people! What I am trying to say here you're way better off without Diamond! You stand as a very strong and powerful woman right now than those days you used to  zoom around  with Diamond everywhere like a homeless lady!!

You have added your value by showing people who you real are, how strong you can be, please don't trap kwa mama Diamond childish games! Adults, young girls and boys are looking up to you so do your children please don't let them down eti kisa nyimbo! Think about your daughter, you are laying a foundation of how boys and men should treat her be wise like snake! Build good foundation that every man will think twice before holding your daughter's hand! Teach young boys that women are not tools but rather are fellow human beings treat them with respect and dignity, not using them as "money making" machines!! Please, find a healthy  co-parenting way with Diamond and his family but don't take them back as family. That family is perfect but not for you, is perfect for those other women (if you know what I mean)! Achana nayo kabisa they don't deserve you even for a second. You were raised by a strong woman, whom she raised all those strong children alone why letting her down!! Usiseme eti watoto hata yatima pia ni watoto lakini wanakua!! That family isn't a healthy family to raise children with labda uwe unavuta bangi! Money is good but Not all money is great!! Choose your paycheck wisely! 

After all, you look more matured, focused, and well kept right now than ulipokuwa na Diamond. He stressed you out, took the strength out of you, misused your love, you didn't have peace at all.  Try to look at your old pictures you will agree with me!! They degraded you to accommodate and keep up with their uncivilized characters!! Trying to make money by destroying every woman that Diamond is involving with, I hope you are awake enough to smell the nasty coffee!!
Plus this babydaddy of yours care less about your life, he doesn't care if he would leave your children motherless perhaps even no parents at all that why he can't use any kind of protection-HIV is real woman! And what about Hippies, and Hepatitis C for God's sake!! Look how he was fooling around  with those ladies, let them recorded him with no fear or shame then shared them in social media?!! Guess what, that is the PROOF THAT HE DOESN'T LOVE YOU!! He is just using you! Selfish to the core!! If someone loves you will care about you, will always think about you before taking any action!! No one is perfect but some people are evil!! This is nothing but pure evil!!

You can do business with him but make sure every thing is clearly written and well documented. Make sure he is not a beneficiary of any of your money even if you happen to die today! Let ALL your children be the first beneficiaries, and your sisters legal guardian. You're better than this  Zari don't let this family destroy the woman you are!! ..... In the end, it's your life we are just cheerleaders!!


Facts of life: Throw Away That Degree Otherwise You Will Die Poor

Facts of life: 

*Throw Away That Degree Otherwise You Will Die Poor* 👌🎓🎓

✊Things have changed so we must change too, Universities in the 60s used to produce 1000 graduates each year and they would get jobs even before finishing, but now each year we graduate more than 80,000 from over 30 universities and 100 institutes. 

🤷🏻‍♂Where are these people going? Even if We pray day and night, we can't have jobs for even a quarter of these graduates. 

_The education system only trains one to be a slave to another, work for someone for a pay cheque and make sure his dreams are achieved,  it doesn't prepare us for the current competitive world where almost everyone has gone to school._

🤔Most of the Educated people in Africa are poor not because they are dense but the way they see things just doesn't apply to the real world. 🕺🏻The lucky ones who get a job earn less than 600k for a salary before tax and other deductions. When the deductions are put into consideration, the net salary comes to around 400k. The net salary then suffers from loan deductions, The landlord then demands for his 300k and monthly shopping takes away 100k leaving one with 0shs The taxi will demand for 6k going to and from work and other emergencies come in. The whole salary is gone and borrowed money starts working. 

🙃 Most of the degree holders are poverty stricken, borrowing money to buy smart phones, nice clothes, shoes,  makeup ,chicken and chips, pizza, and a small car for shobies.

👉🏻The biggest excuse for getting paid such low amounts of money and having to sit and work for another person for 30 days is *THE DEGREE* that one possesses and that’s all. This has made most of the degree holders very poor and will die that way most likely. 

💵 _*A degree holder does not know how to generate money even from the simplest thing unless that money is generated for the employer. He is so dependent on the salary that he can do anything to get a job but will not think of starting a business of his own to employ others not even operate a chapati Business where he can make 30k a day.*_

▪A degree holder is not prepared to sell chips but enjoys them with friends every 3days in a week, my brother think of doing business here

▪A degree holder is not trained how to make money from school yet it's the order of the day in the real world.

▪A degree holder is not prepared to sell second hand clothes but is very happy to be employed by the business owners and is very good at buying expensive clothes 

▪A degree holder is not prepared to make 1.5M monthly doing his own business but is very happy to work at the Till in a bank getting paid 500k.

▪A degree holder is not prepared to start a company and grow it in 2 to 3 years but will spend 4 years searching for a job and works for 30years pushing another person's dream.

▪A degree holder is not prepared to sell food to students but will be happy to be reporting to a boss with no qualifications as long as he is paid 400k for a salary.

▪A degree holder is so eager to get out of this country and work in another country than spend time to develop his own country by creating solutions and innovations.

▪A Tanzanian degree holder would rather sweep the streets of London or USA than start a business and make money in Tanzania – others work in people’s homes as maids. 

▪A degree holder in Tanzania will watch movies and music on his laptop all the time but never to write a book or research about business opportunities using the same laptop and make money.

▪A degree holder will blame the government for lack of jobs even when he was on government bursary for him to have his degree.

▪ Tanzania is blessed with people who have master’s degree and others are doctors in different technical fields such as IT and Engineering but all of them have failed to create a cartoon character and develop a movie from the same instead very happy to buy Tom and Jerry for their children thereby promoting America.

🍝🍹 *At the University I went to, there is an old man very humble and illiterate. He does not speak English but sells Soda at 1500shs and Fresh juice at 500 each making a profit of 600shs on each soda plus 300shs on juice. He also sells chips at 2500shs making a profit of 800shs on each plate. Not less than 30 students buy chips and a drink every single day. This means he makes a profit of 18000 for a soda ,9000shs for juice and 24000 for chips and a total profit of 51000shs Every single day. In 10 days he makes a profit of 510000shs, in twenty days 1,020,000shs that's 1,530,000 a month*

👉🏻The degree holder working in a bank at the till gets a salary of 700k every month with nssf, local service tax, pay as you earn and other deductions. 

👊 *Why are the degree holders poor?*

Because they have decided to pride themselves in a degree and failed to think better than a man who does not have even a certificate to his name.

👌If you want to progress, throw away that degree and start thinking better than someone without a degree. Be prepared to get your hands dirty and work like an ox for your business.

🍋A lot of opportunities exist in Tanzania but u have to be keen to identify them.

🤝 *Your innovation, commitment, hard work and patience will pay off.*



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Madam Rita Paulsen: I can proudly say I know how she feels

Regrann from @mspaulsen - The smiles when a you are a single mother and get to wittness your daughter,s wedding...... I can proudly say I know how she feels. It's the best achievement and a blessing . The feeling is unexplainable. I wish this to all single mothers out there we rock 💪💪💪thanks God and our daughters for making us proud - #regrann Maneno ya kugusa moyo haya kutoka kwa Madam Rita Paulsen. Je, wewe umeahawahi kukutwa na hali kama iliyomkuta Madam Rita? Yani ukaona mtu anapitia jambo au anakutwa na kitu fulani (jema au baya) halafu zile hisia zake ukahisi ni wewe kwasababu huwenda nawe unapitia kitu hichohicho au ulishawahi kupitia huko nyuma? Kwanini nime share nanyi hii " status" ya Madam Rita, nikuwa maisha ni fumbo, ukimwona kichaa yupo uchi usimcheke kwani hujui yakesho! Watu pekee ambao wanaweza kuelewa kwanini yule kichaa yupo uchi na nijinsi gani anajisikia niwale ambao walishawahi kuweuka! Nawale  ambao wanajua thamani ya kuwa na akili timamu niwale wale uliowahi kuwa vichaa. Ndivyo ilivyo hapa, only those who are or have been single mothers before ndio wanaoelewa ujumbe wa Madam Rita na furaha ya mama Princess Megan.  ***Siku zote dharau maiti siyo binadamu mwenye pumzi ya uhai***

“If you find true love don’t look at limitations”

START TO SEE ADVERTSITY THE RIGHT WAY.

When life hits you with so much pain,so much hurt & disappointments, you need to find strength & comfort in knowing that God didn’t promise us days without pain, laughter without sorrow, or sun without rain, but He did promise strength for the day, comfort for the tears & light for the way.

If God allows it on you, He will also bring you through it all & you will never be the same again. Whatever you are going through – He has a reason.

Here she is;
Princess 👑 Meghan Markle
—————-

She is half black ,half white.(Biracial) African American origin.

Her parents got divorced when she was 6 years old

She was married before @30 years and divorced two years after .

Despite these factors you may consider as odds and a humble/not too smooth beginning, she rose above these circumstance and made a mark for herself.

She became a popular and successful actress

Became an advocate for gender equality and women empowerment.

Became a Global Ambassador for World Vision Canada

Became a UN advocate for women

Owns her own Clothing Line

She is Founder and Editor-in-Chief of her own blog.

And now at age 36 she is married to Prince Harry of England who is 34 years
Love is the way.she is making a grand entrance into The Royal Family! That is the story of MEGHAN MARKLE!

Amidst all, her family instead of supporting her new found journey to happiness, they’re busy putting her down. This coward brother writes to Prince Harry not to get married to a divorcee, old….
She’s an epitome of a true humble lady.

MORAL OF THE STORY:

1. Prince Harry followed his heart to beat all odds. If you find true love don’t look at limitations.

2. Your family background is not a limiting factor to anything.Do not let society define who you are, or friends telling you how old you’re and should be getting married!

3. The end of one marriage does not mean the end of your life!

4. Work hard to pick up the pieces of your life and start all over again! Do not give up on yourself .

5. Do not despise the days of humble beginning. Start small even as a brief case girl or tea girl or a secretary but don’t stay small. Dream and think big, stay focused , keep your eyes on the ball and aim for the stars.

6.. You may have to kiss a few frogs before you meet your Prince. Don’t give up on love ! You are lova

Never loss hope because Life can go from 0 to 100 Real Quick” 🔥🔥🔥.

Good Morning Everyone. Blessed Sunday. Ramdhan Kareem. NTV Mwasuze Mutya 9am.Every Weekday. NTV/Spark TV.

Huwezi copy personality ya mtu!

Regrann from @mspaulsen – You can copy everything about a person but not her personality its a God given. Just be yourself 😍😍utachekesha…….. – #regrann   Mmesikia hayo maneno toka kwa Madam Rita? Personality ya mtu ni kama DNA huwezi iga wala huwezi kuwadanganya watu! Acha maisha ya kuiga iga kuwa wewe, acha watu wakujue, wakupende, na kukuheshimu kwa kuwa authentic best version of you na siyo kujifanya wewe fulani wakati watu wanakuona ni kitu kingine!

Hekima za Mwl. Nyerere: Usikubali kuwa jiwe

https://youtu.be/TfbVbhvss2w

Kisa hichi kinanikumbusha story ya mke wa Lutu kwenye Biblia japo hakifanani sana lakini the moral of the story still the same. Ukitaka kusonga mbele na kuwa na mafanikio makubwa inabidi kuwa jasiri sana wakutosikiliza ya watu! Watu ambao wanajua kuwa “wamechemsha” kwa kutofata masharti ya kufika to their “promise land” or "destiny" wengine huwa wanakua na busara na kutumia experience yao kwa kuwafundisha au kuwaambia wengine wasifanye makosa waliofanya. Lakini kuna ambao wanakuwa na hasira sana na wengine na kuanza kupiga makelele kwa wale ambao wanaonyesha muelekeo wa kufika kwenye nchi ya asali…….. Watu hao ndo wazushi, waongo, wachonganishi, wapika majungu n.k hayo yote wanafanya kuwakatisha tamaa wale ambao wanaonyesha dalili ya kufanikiwa. DON’T  NEITHER LISTEN NOR  JOIN THE NOISE MAKERS! They are nothing but biggest losers! USIKUBALI KUWA JIWE!!

Joyce Kiria: Kila mtu ana njia yake …. Kila mtu kapewa msuli wa kupambana na matatizo yake

Regrann from @joycekiriasuperwoman  -  MAISHA YANGU  BINAFSI NILIYAKUTA YAMEJAA CHANGAMOTO NYINGI, ELIMU SINA, FAMILIA YETU NI MASKNI, MIE NDO MTOTO WA KWANZA, YAANI MAISHA  HAYANA HAMASA, HAYANA MATUMAINI, NOW  NIKACHAGUA KUYAGEUZA NDO FURSA, YAANI NDO MTAJI WANGU... WEWE UNAONA NI MATATIZO MIMI NINAYAONA NI MGODI...  NILIAMUA KUPAMBANA NA HAYA MATATIZO YANGU KWA STAILI HII YASINIUMIZE KICHWA, BALI YANAPOKUJA TUU NINAYATAZAMA KWA JICHO LA FURSA! NAYAKUMBATIA NAYAONGEA KWA NGUVU ZANGU ZOTEEEE,  NAPATA NAFUU LAKINI PIA NAPATA KAZI HAHAHAHA.

UJASIRI HUU NILIOJIPA NDIO UNAONIFANYA KUWA SUPER WOMAN, NANI ATAWEZA KUPITA HII NJIA?? UNADHANI WATU HAWANA MATATIZO? KWANINI WENGI WANAYAOGOPA?? KUKUBALI UKWELI WAKO BINAFSI SIYO JAMBO JEPESI, WENGI TUNAPENDA SANA KUJIONYESHA KWAMBA TUU WATAKATIFU...

MIMI NASIMULIA MAISHA YANGU BINAFSI, SIYASIMULII YA MTU, NASIMULIA NJIA ZANGU ZENYE LADHA YA ASALI NA MWAROBAINI KWA PAMOJA KWA AJILI YA KUJIFUNZA NA KUFUNDISHA WENGINE.... THAT IS MY PATH ... NJIA ZETU HAZIFANANI ... KILA MTU ANA NJIA YAKE ... KILA MTU KAPEWA MSULI WA KUPAMBANA NA MATATIZO YAKE... PIGANA NA  YAKO.... AM SUPER  PROUD TO BE ME... I AM A SUPER WOMAN #SUPERWOMAN  - #regrann

Mo Dewji: safari ya mtu mwingine HAIWEZI KUKUZUIA WEWE kufanikiwa kwenye safari yako

Regrann from @moodewji  -  Kila wakati kumbuka kuwa, safari ya mtu mwingine HAIWEZI KUKUZUIA WEWE kufanikiwa kwenye safari yako. Usipoteze muda kwenye mawazo yasiyo kuwa na umuhimu. — Mo // Always remember that, someone else's journey WILL NOT STOP YOU from succeeding in yours. Don't waste time on unnecessary thoughts. — Mo  - #regrann

Akin Al-Ameen: There is no such thing as fighting for love unless you’re both on the same page fighting for the same cause

Some people are naturally difficult, very hard to love. Never allow such people to take your happiness away. No matter how good your intentions are, never force kindness on people against their wish. Most people think loving them is a weakness. Always have a boundary. Sometimes accepting everything doesn’t mean you’re peaceful, it means you’re vulnerable and desperate for love. If you take everything, people will give you anything. Love is peace, and love is sweet but “IF LOVING SOMEONE IS GIVING YOU MORE SADNESS THAN JOY, LEAVE THEM ALONE AND LOVE THEM FROM FAR AWAY”. Never lose yourself while searching for the right person. The best you can do is to make yourself a right person. Try your best to save your relationship but if giving your best is not good enough, you’re probably giving it to the wrong person.

Mercy, Sammy, and Alpha

There is nothing bad in loving people from distance, that doesn’t mean you stop loving them, it simply mean you respect yourself and cherish your peace of mind. Always remember that everybody in life needs help. Sometimes staying out of some people’s life is the best way to help them. Love is not a favor, don’t beg for it. It’s not a war, don’t force it. You can never be in a relationship alone. There is no such thing as fighting for love unless you’re both on the same page fighting for the same cause. If your dream partner cannot see you in his/her own dreams means it’s time for you to wake up and stop dreaming alone. Never mistake a SITUATIONSHIP for RELATIONSHIP if you want peace of mind. Be honest with yourself. Never make a life changing decision based on your emotions alone.

Akin Al-Ameen®™2018

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RC Paul Makonda: haikuwa rahisi kama siyo Mungu kuwatumia wateule wake sijuwi leo nigekuwa wapi

@Regranned from @paulmakonda - Mwaka 2017 ni mwaka watofauti sana kwangu. Leo tunapojiandaa kupokea Mwaka 2018. Ni vyema nikayatazama maisha yangu ndani ya mwaka 2017 hakika huu ulikuwa mwaka wa aina yake. Ni mwaka ulionipa marafiki wa kweli, lakini kubwa kuliko ni Upendo na Maombi niliyoyapata kutoka Kwa Kipenzi changu Maria. Nikuambie kitu ndg msomaji...... haikuwa rahisi kama siyo Mungu kuwatumia wateule wake sijuwi leo nigekuwa wapi. Nimepewa kila jina baya, kila jambo baya nimefanya mimi ,matusi yote yalikuwa yangu na hata watu kutamani nisiwepo duniani. Lakini kwako Mpenzi ilikuwa tofauti, ulinitia moyo Kwa sauti ya upole,uliniombea na kunifuta machozi bila kuchoka. Tena Kwa kusema Nanukuu, Paul Mungu hajawahi kukuacha hata kama Dunia yote inakuona haufai nataka nikuambie Mungu amekupaka mafuta Kwa kazi hii simama na usonge mbele. Mwisho wa kunukuu”.Ndg zangu na wananchi wenzangu ni vyema mkajua kila mtu anayo hadithi ya kumweleza mwenzake ila kwangu inahitaji kitabu kuyaeleza mapito na njia nyembamba niliyoipita mwaka 2017. Itoshe kusema Mungu wa haki iko siku atasimama na kutoa hukumu ya kweli Kwa watu wote. Kwani yeye anatujua kila Mtu na matendo yetu tena kwake hakuna Siri ya maisha yetu.Nakupenda sana Maria wangu na ninathamini sana Mchango wako ktk utumishi wangu hapa Duniani. Uzidi kuwa Imara simba wangu ili niyafanye yote mema ambayo Mungu amepanga Kwa watu wake. Asante sana Mungu Kwa kunivusha mwaka 2017.

JNM: I’d like to share with you some of the things I’m including in my TAKE TO 01/01/2018 LIST

@Regranned from @j_n_mengi – As we are about to say bye to 2017 and welcome 2018 I’d like to share with you some of the things I’m including in my TAKE TO 01/01/2018 LIST: 

1. Positivity and faith-I can’t even start to tell you how many things I manifested through my faith this year.

2. Honesty-though can seem difficult it’s the most liberating gift to self and others

3. Patience-a make or break in life but also the wisdom to know when to stop

4. Friendship-honest friends to laugh and cry with,by your side for no reason 5.Quality time spent with family-because you must always have a warm home to go to

6. Dreams-because dreams are what reality is made of and one must always have something to look forward to.

7. Doing what makes me happy-because I deserve it just like everyone else.

8. Facing my fears-because through this I get to discover my new strengths

9. Time out-because time alone allows me to connect to my inner self

10. Take it easy-what seems to be such a big deal today might not be that way tomorrow so it’s important not to take everything too seriously. Pls share with me yours too..

Faraja Nyalandu: Kubali yaishe, maumivu ya leo ni pona ya kesho.

@Regranned from @farajanyalandu - #Niliyojifunza2017
 4/10 Sio kila changamoto utakayopitia ni ya kutatua, nyingine ni za kuzivuka kama zilivyo ili ujifunze. Kwa mfano kuna changamoto zinazoweza kutokea ili kukudhihirishia watu ulionao kwenye maisha yako. Kuna watu wamefika mwisho wa safari yao kwenye maisha yako au wewe umefika mwisho wa safari yako kwenye maisha yao na kuna matukio yatakufahamisha hivyo. Kubali yaishe, maumivu ya leo ni pona ya kesho. Move on to a better day! - #regrann