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Open_kitchen2014: Love is a natural feeling and it doesn’t come with a price tag

In life no mattet how desperate you are, no matter how much you long to love or to be loved, never ever make a mistake of buying love! You will regret this for as long as you live. Love is not for sale never have never will be! Love is a natural feeling and it doesn't come with a price tag
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In my life time I have seen what money has done to alot of people. I have seen how money changes people. I have seen how money brakes up families, relationships, and so on. It is very scary! Never let money control you because if you do money will make you become someone you never thought you will be and once that money goes away will you ever be the same person, will you ever talk to the same people again whom you looked down on when you had money, will you ever accepted that now your life has changed and your no longer the Don but the Doughnut 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 Be real, be yourself, be humble no matter how many zeros you have in your account money is not everything in life AND YOU CANT BUY LOVE WITH MONEY just my morning thoughts  AMKA TWENDE LET THIS BE YOUR MONTH PUSH YOURSELF EVEN HARDER

Winny Edwin Kihore: BLESSING THROUGH RELATIONSHIPS

BLESSING THROUGH RELATIONSHIPS Did you know that God will bless you through your relationships? He will pour out his favour on you by using the people in your life. He’ll use your friends, family, coworkers and even your spouse. It says in PROVERBS 18:22 “HE WHO FINDS A WIFE … RECEIVES FAVOR FROM THE LORD.” Men , do you realize that your wife is bringing you favor from the Lord.? We should always be thankful for our relationships and not take our loved ones for granted. We should do our best to seek peace and choose love.

One way we can show love is by giving others room to make mistakes. Ladies, the scripture says in First Peter that you are to enjoy your husband.” It does not say that you are to remodel that man! It doesn’t say to try to change him or make him fit your mold. No , let him be who God made him to be and learn to enjoy him. He may have weaknesses. He may do things that you don’t particularly care for, but don’t focus on that. Focus on his good qualities. Don’t fall into the trap of comparing your husband to someone else’s husband.” Well , my husband never brings me flowers like Susie’s husband. They go out on a candlelight dinner every weekend. I don’t know what’s wrong with my husband,” NO, Quit comparing and be grateful for the man God has given you.

If you are married, don’t let little things build up. Don’t let resentment creep in. Before long, resentment and bitterness will bring in strife and division and make you difficult to be around . Instead, I challenge you to find something good, one great quality, about your husband or wife , and then begin to magnify it. Your husband may not be the most romantic man, He may not be the best communicator, but maybe he is a hard worker. Maybe he provides a great living. Well, why don’t you start telling him,” Hey, I appreciate you being such a great provider for our family.” If you will magnify the good, not only will you be happier, but you’ll see that man come up higher in other areas. Remember, you aren’t called to change him; you are called to love him and pray for him. Just focus on being a good example and let God do the rest. Don’t take the people in your life for granted. Magnify the good, choose to forgive and watch how God will poor out his favor on you through your relationships!

HEBREWS 3:13- ” But encourage one another daily, as long as it is called ‘ Today, so that none of you may be hardened by sin’s deceitfulness.

Joyce Kiria: MWANAMKE PIGA KAZI KWENYE NDOA FUATA MAHABA

IVI DUNIA YA LEO BADO KUNA MWANAUME ANAKATAZA MKE KUJITAFTIA KIPATO???? ------ Jamani Kuolewa kunatakiwa kukubadilisha tu kuwa umetoka kuishi mwenyewe na sasa unaishi na mwanaume lakini sio ubadilishwe kutoka kwenye kazi uwe mama wa nyumbani. Halafu kuna wanaume wanatumia hicho kama kigezo kisa kujifanya wana wivu kuhisi labda mwanamke akitoka kwenda kazini atakuwa na mchepuko. Yani wewe mumeo akisema acha kazi mwambie nipe kazi ingine ya kujiajiri na tena hiyo kazi nayo uwe na haki nayo sio umeachishwa kazi umefunguliwa kiduka siku mnaachana kiduka chake anachukua unaenda kuanza upya. Usikubali kupoteza kazi yako kisa ndoa tambua maisha ya leo yenyewe hayatabiriki wanaume wenyewe wa sasa maji kupwa maji kujaa sasa ndo uache kazi unajua umeolewa ukiachwa unaenda kuwa omba omba. Kwanza mwanaume mwenye akili atamuacha mke wake afanye kazi ili siku mambo yamekuwa mabaya kwake mke anaweza endelea kutunza familia. MWANAMKE PIGA KAZI KWENYE NDOA FUATA MAHABA... Kumekucha achia shuka bibi weeeeeee, SHAURILO

Jacqueline Mengi: Love is an act of endless forgiveness!

Nimeenda kuchungulia kwa Mrs Mengi nikakutana na picha nzuri sana zakwake na maneno Fulani amazing hivi, "love is an act of endless forgiveness"! Haya ni maneno rasmi aliyo yatamka Beyonce baada ya kumsamehe Jay Z kwenye ile "cheating scandle" nakusema kuwa amejifunza upendo ni tendo la kusamehe bila ukomo / kukoma! Dah! Haya maswala ya mapenzi namwachia Jacqueline na Dr Mengi wake maana site wengine tulishaga achana nayo  😂😂🙈🙈. 
Kuna mtu aliandika article akisema Beyonce amemsaidia sana kwa maneno yake hayo ............."The best part of the show is when Beyoncé gives us the quote about forgiveness.

Love is an act of endless forgiveness. Forgiveness is me giving up my right to hurt you for hurting me. Forgiveness is the final act of love” 

All this while getting shot in a wedding dress. Yes, shit gets THAT real.
We’ve all been there for before where we wanted to hurt the one we love because they hurt us. Why? Because no one can hurt you more than the ones you care for. They know you best and you feel so vulnerable to them.

It is a valuable lesson to be learned here. In order to sustain love, you have continuously BE love. You have to be willing to love through thick AND thin. It’s easy to stop loving once you’ve been hurt but as the late Maya Angelou once said, “Have enough courage to trust love one more time, and always one more time.”

If two people can put aside their ego and realize that mistakes will be made; and know that nothing worth having will come without HARD work to keep it, you can really have that ever lasting love you seek." ............unaweza soma article you kwa kubonyeza 👉👉 (LoveIsAnActOfEndlessForgiveness).  

“If you are happy with yourself it’s very easy for others to make you happy”JNM……….Umependeza sana! Super clean and beautiful!

“KAMA HAJAKUOA BASI SI MUME WAKO SOMA KISA HIKI CHA HUYU DADA.”

KAMA HAJAKUOA BASI SI MUME WAKO SOMA KISA HIKI CHA HUYU DADA.

Kuna watu wengine ambao unakutana nao katika maisha halafu wanaishia kukupa hasira tu, unawaza hivi ni kwanini sikukutana nao miaka kadhaa kabla nakutana nao sasa, lakini yote ni mipango ya Mungu.

Miaka mitatu iliyopita nilikua katika kipindi cha kupigania ndoa, kipindi ambacho nililazimika kufanya vitu vingi vya ajabu ili tu mwanaume anikubali, nilikua nadhindani na wengi hivyo nikiamini kua mimi ndiyo napendwa zaidi nilijua nitaolewa mimi.

Lakini mpenzi wangu hakujali hilo, baada tu ya kunipata alinigeuza kama ka ATM kake, wote tulikua wafanyakazi wa serikali, alitaka kununua gari, hakua na pesa za kutosha na aliniomba nimkopeshe. Nikiwa najua kabisa hatanilipa nilitoa kiakiba changu cha miaka miwili ambacho nilipanga kufungulia biashara na kumpa. Hiyo ilikua ni baada ya kumbembeleza na kumshauri sana kuwa kwanini afanye vile, kwanini tusingejenga kwanza.

Jibu lake lilikua yeye ni mwanaume siwezi kumpangia. Aliniambia kama nataka kumpanda kichwani wakati bado hajanioa akinioa itakuwaje? Niliufyata mkia nikanyamaza nikampa zile pesa lakini hata gari yenyewe hakununua, aliishia kuhonga Malaya wake.

Nilijua kwani walinipigia simu kunitukana kua mimi natafuta na wao wanahongwa, niliumia sana lakini baada ya kumaliza zile pesa basi alikuja kuniomba msamaha. Alijutia sana na kama unavyojua mwalimu wetu kipofu aliniambia msamehe, hakuna mwanadamu aliyakamilika.

Lakini sasa nilimpa mashariti kua tunapaswa kuwekeza katika maisha yetu, aliniambia anatafuta pesa anunue kiwanja na anataka kunioa. Kama kawaida ukisikia ndoa unchanganyikiwa, ingawa kwetu walikua wanamfahamu lakini sa alijitambulisha rasmi.
Alinivalisha pete ya uchumba kuonyesha kua alikua siriasi na mimi. Maisha yaliendelea na baada ya kuvalishwa pete nilivyokua mpumbavu nikageuka kua mke tena, nikijua kuwa nikikaa naye ndiyo nitamdhibiti nilihama kwangu na kwenda kuishi kwake, ndiyo ni upumbavu kuwa mke kabla hujaolewa.

Kabla hata sijaolewa basi tulianza kuishi pamoja nikiamini pete ndiyo cheti cha ndoa. Nilihamishia vitu vyangu kwake na tukawa mwili mmoja, hapo ndipo nilianza kuona chungu ya pilipili. Sio kwamba tu alizidi kuninyanyasa lakini alinipiga pia.

Akichelewa kurudi nikiuliza napigwa ananiuliza mimi ni Malaya tu kaniweka ndani na si mke. Lakini sinishavalishwa pete nilivumilia kwa wimbo uleule wa ndoa ni uvumilivu sijui hata nilikua navumilia nini wakati ndoa yenyewe hata sikua nayo.

Alinunua kiwanja kitu ambacho nilikua namshauri kila siku na akataka tuanze ujenzi, hapo nilijua mwanaume kabadilika, kwakua kipato chetu cha kawaida si unajua mishahara yetu hii basi aliniambia nichukue mkopo ili tukichanganya na kipato chake kidogo basi tujenge.

Nikijua kuwa tutakuja kufunga ndoa karibuni nilichukua mkopo, ujenzi ukaanza na Mungu si Athumani alijalia pamoja na vidilidili vyake vya kazini basi tulifanikiwa kumalizia ujenzi. Katika kipindi chote hicho tunajenga aligeuka na kua malaika, akiwahi kurudi na kufanya kila kitu kama mume mwema.

Lakini baada ya kumaliza kujenga, nikitaka kuhamia hapo ndipo ilizuka kasheshe. Wanaume ni washenzi ndugu zangu na hapa ndiyo najuta kwanini Kaka iddi sikukuona mapema nikasoma makala zako. Unakumbuka makala moja ulisema kama mwanaume hajakuoa si mumeo chako ni chako na chake ni chake. Hilo ndiyo lilinitokea, nikijua najenga na mume wangu mtarajiwa kumbe nayeye alikua anajenga na mtu mwingine.

Yule mwanaume hakutumia hata senti tano katika lile jengo, alikua na mwanamke mwingine ambaye naye kama mimi alichukua mkopo tena wakwake wa benki kibiashara na kuwekeza kwenye ile nyumba. Lakini yule mchaga alinizidi kete, wakati mimi nasubiri kuambiwa tuhamie yeye alihamia kabisa.

Ndiyo kwa mbinde alianza kuishi pale kwenye ile nyumba, nilipotaka kwenda na mwanaume alikataa hakutaka twende, nilipokazania sana alinipiga na kunifukuza, ndiyo alinifukuza na kuniambia sina changu, nililazimika kuondoka na kwenda kuishi na rafiki yangu.
Wakati nikiwa huko nikagundua kua nina ujauzito wa wiki mbili, namuambia ananiambia hanijui. Yaani sijui nini kilitokea lakini nilisikia katangaza ndoa na yule mwanamke aliyekua akiishi naye, kabla hata sijastuka naambiwa wameoana ndoa ya kiserikali.

Ndiyo nikabakia na mimba yangu, yaani nilibaki nalia tu, nilitamani hata kujiua lakini maisha ilikua ni lazima yaendelee. Ilinibidi kuanza upya kwani mbali na ujauzito lakini mshahara mzima ulikua unaishia kulipa mkopo wa nyumba ambayo nilishanyang’anywa.

Mpaka leo hii nalipia mkopo na mpaka leo hii nawaona tu wakipita wapo na furaha na maisha yao. Yaani mimi nina mtoto wangu na wao yule mwanamke kumbe alishazaa naye mtoto mmoja mimi sijui na sasa ana mimba nyingine.

Natamani hata niende niichome moto ile nyumba kwani napata uchungu kila siku nikiangalia Salary Sleep yangu, kwa bahati mbaya wote tunaishi hapahapa Dar hivyo haiwezi pita wiki sijawaona. Nina hasira sio kwasababu nimedhulumiwa tu bali nina hasira na wewe Kaka Iddi kwanini sikukujua mapema nikasoma makala zako mapema. Nina uhakika asilimia mia nisingefanya upuuzi nilioufanya. Kama unakumbuka tulishaongea niliponunua kitabu chako.
Nimeandika hivi ili wanawake wenzangu ambao wanabembelezea ndoa nao waamke na wasiwe mabwege kama mimi. Natamani hata kila siku uirudie ile makala yako kuwa kama mwanaume hajakuoa basi mali zake hazikuhusu.

Kuna wengi tu humu mnajifanya mnapendwa lakini siku likiwatokea mnawalaumu wahusika kumbe makosa ni yenu. Nimejifunza maisha yanaendelea ila nashukuru Mungu nilikupata kwani nilishakata tamaa, ila kwa ushauri wako kaka nimeanza biashara na inaenda vizuri.
Nashukuru kwa kitabu chako pia kimeniamsha sasa najielewa. Sipo kwenye ndoa wala mahusiano kwa sasa ila najua kabisa kuhusu wanaume, nimejifunza mengi kupitia makala zako na zaidi katika kitabu chako, kaka umeniponya.  Sasa hivi nataka kulipa kisasi, sitaki kulipa kisasi cha kuchoma nyumba yao moto bali cha kujenga nyumba yangu na kufanikiwa zaidi. Nakumbuka siku ya mwisho tulipoongea uliniambia hakuna kisasi kizuri kama kua na furaha zaidi ya mtu aliyekuumiza kumuonyesha kuwa humhitaji yeye kufurahi Ahsante kaka Iddi.

 

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LeMutuz: vijana wadogo sana wanaojaribu kutafuta muongozo wa maisha nyuma yenu kuna vijana ambao majumbani mwao na familia zao hakuna muongozo bora wa maisha ndio sababu wapo Instagram kujifunza

 LIVE STRAIGHT TALK:- The Art of peace hii picha ni kumbukumbu sana ya siku ya pili ya kuanza kwa mahusiano yao yaani @diamondplatnumz & @zarithebosslady na jana Instagram nzima tumeshuhudia mambo yasiyokuwa ya kiungwana baina yao...my appeal to both of them ni spare us your close friends and your fans cause wote kwa pamoja mna wafuasi Millioni 7 wengi ni vijana wadogo sana wanaojaribu kutafuta muongozo wa maisha nyuma yenu kuna vijana ambao majumbani mwao na familia zao hakuna muongozo bora wa maisha ndio sababu wapo Instagram kujifunza now kwa you guys Icons wa maisha ambayo Vijana wengi wangependa kuwa nayo mkianza kuwaonyesha kwamba mkifarakana cha msingi ni kwanza kuionyesha Dunia kwa kutumia kuunfollow each other huku kwenye KIOO yaani Instagram mtawavuruga sana vijana wadogo Instagram ...na the worst of all ni sisi marafiki wa karibu mtatupa wakati mgumu sana wa kuchagua sides baina yenu that is not fair to us your friends ...again ninawaomba sana mtumie busara na uungwana wote sio wageni wa Mapenzi na watuwazima kila mmoja anajua anachokifanya kupendana na kuachana ni mambo ya kawaida na infact hata kurudiana tena ni kawaida sana so please guys calm down and solve your ishus kwa manufaa ya wafuasi wenu Milioni 7 they deserve better than what you guys did yesterday ...please I am again appealing to both of you @zarithebosslady and @diamondplatnumz please spare us na msipokuwa makini mtawapa maadui wenu wakubwa mwanya wa kuingia hapa kati yenu na kuwavuruga zaidi ....kwenye mapenzi kufarakana ni kawaida na kuachana ni kawaida na kurudiana ni kawaida pia ila angalieni msije mbele ya safari mkaja kushindwa ku overcome the distarctions you are about to bring to yourself wazungu wanaita SELF DISTRACTIONS ....love U all guys but please tuoneeni huruma mashabiki na marafiki zenu tusifikie kuchagua sides baina yenu......MATATIZO KWENYE MAPENZI YANATATULIWA YAKISHINDIKANA MNAACHANA KWA AMANI!....... MUNGU AWATANGULIE WOTE! - le Mutuz

“Naamini bado nina nafasi kwenye moyo wako please usiniangushe”!

Umeshawi kumpenda mtu asiyekupenda? Well, naamini wengi tu imeshawatokea. Pengine utakuta kama ni mwanamke basi anakubali hata kuwekwa kimada miaka nenda rudi basi tu mlimradi naye aseme nipo kwenye “relationship” au “married” 😅😅 hiyo yote nikupenda asiye kupenda. Nawengine ndio wanakuwa na ujasiri zaidi kama huyu mrembo Teddy!  Jamani hii siyo hadithi ya kutunga, ni kitu cha kweli kabisa. Teddy Lacoste ni binti mzuri sana, na mchakarikaji. Kwakweli ametokea kumpenda kijana Tuma. Kwa bahati mbaya Tuma anampenda Teddy kama rafiki tu / kama dada. Lakini Teddy anaona kuwa yeye na Tuma ni “soul mate” match made from Heaven! Hivyo amekuwa akimbembeleza Tuma wawe pamoja naikiwezekana waoane wawe mke na mume wazae watoto! Ameshakuwa akimbembeleza Tuma kwa zaidi ya miaka 2 sasa kwa kutumia lugha zote za mapenzi, in private lakini ikashindikana. Sasa akaamua kuja public kwa social media. Yani ni anapost picha na status za kumuomba Tuma amkubali #Live lakini Tuma kagoma!!   Tuma ni kama mdogo wangu, age mate na wadogo zangu, amekuwa nikimuona pale mtaani kwetu KJ. Hivyo amenizoea ananiita dada. Sasa, mwaka jana mie nikaona Relationship status ya Teddy kwa Facebook kuwa “engaged to Tuma” na picha ya pete. Halafu na Tuma aka “Like” hiyo status. Basi mie nisifurahi  nikaja ipost humu (somahapa) si ndio Tuma anakuja niambia kuwa it’s not true haja mu-engaged ni vituko vya Teddy 🙉🙉 mbona yalinishuka, nami nikagoma kuiondoa kwani yeye Tuma huwa ana “LIKE” hizo status za Teddy!  Sasa jana nikamwambia Tuma kuwa leo nakuja kuanika hii story yao kwa blog ili watu wengine watoe ushauri wao. Kwani mie hiyo kesi ilinishinda pale Teddy alipoileta kwangu mwaka jana. Nilimwambia mapenzi ya kutongozewa au kulazimisha mtu hayanaga mema mengi! Nimeona wengi huwa hawana furaha ya kweli. Ni shida. Hivyo yeye mwenyewe ndo itabidi aendelee kum #Seduce Tuma mpaka aukubali wimbo 😅😅 Though moyoni natamani kama wangekuwa pamoja. I love both of them 🙈🙈 ……. Haya wewe una ushauri gani kwa Teddy na Tuma?

Zari please watch this (Iyanla fix my life with Evelyn Lozada)!

Zari, this is all for you. I want you to take a moment and watch these clips or you can watch the whole episode on YouTube and see if you can relate yourself to Evelyn Lozada or learn something worthy to apply in your life! I see the “bling bling ” is off again! Not sure for how long will it be this time!!

Wishing you the best. Love you always!!

“I Esther Akoth will never date a celebrity”

this kind of men steal my heart , not social media addicts who worship the no of followers , likes and comments , I told my daughters , I would be happy if you introduce your boyfriend as , ( mum meet my new catch he is a farmer ) but if you tell me he is a celebrity , am out , you will end up funding a lifestyle which will render you broke , I Esther Akoth will never date a celebrity , unless he has some brains & willing to grow, or he is damn rich, but just because he is famous 😂😂😂😂 fame can only take you as far as getting free and easy sex, business class tickets , favours , but no stable income , the rest you pay , think !!! my opinion , good morning peeps 🔊🔊

“Usimuingize mtu shimoni kwa shida na STRESS zako” ~~~~ Zamaradi Mketema.


Wengi wanatamani harusi ila wanasahau kuna maisha ya NDOA baada ya harusi, hivyo Kabla ya kukubali maombi ya mtu hakikisha umeridhika na yote juu yake mazuri na mabaya maana ndio unayoenda kupambana nayo MILELE. Usifurahie kusema I DO bila kujua unakubali kitu gani, unapokubali pale humkubali yeye tu ila yeye na matatizo, vimbwangwa, kasoro na kila alichonacho. 

Lakini inavyoonekana Karibu wengi wako tayari kuvaa shela huku mengine wakijipa moyo kujuana nayo mbele kwa mbele, wanachosahau ndoa sio kitu cha mchezo wala majaribio, ndoa inahitaji UTAYARI na sio kukurupuka. Usiolewe kwakuwa rafiki yako ameolewa huenda yeye amepata mtu sahihi hivyo isikufanye udandie yeyote alie mbele kumbuka kila mtu ataishi nyumba yake Usiolewe kwakuwa umri wako umekata kona, badala ya kupata pumziko unaweza jikuta unamalizia uzee wako vibaya na uchungu mwingi kwa kuparamia tu ukajuta maisha yote Usiolewe kwakuwa umezaa na mtu, kama si mtu sahihi UBABA hauwezi kumbadilisha kwa namna yeyote. 

Usiolewe kwa msukumo wa wazazi, utakapoingia kwenye ndoa kama ni furaha itakuwa ya kwako na kama huzuni utasema nayo mwenyewe wao kazi yao itakuwa maneno tu ambayo hayatakuwa yanasaidia chochote kwa wakati huo. Na wala usiolewe kwakuwa EX kaoa, yeye amepata alieridhika nae na sio dhambi, sasa wewe okota tu yyeyote KUKOMOA, humkomoi mtu na utaisoma mbele kwa mbele OLEWA kwakuwa uko TAYARI na umeridhika kwa HALI YOYOTE ALIYONAYO. Kwenye harusi utakuwa special kupitiliza lkn baada ya pale usitegemee uspecial uendelee, na zaidi hakuna wa kupoteza muda kila siku na nyinyi kwenye ndoa kama walivyokuwa wanapoteza? kwenye vikao vya harusi hivyo lazima ujue jinsi ya kusimama na ya kwako. Kwenye harusi kuna michango kwenye ndoa hakuna wa kukuchangia, JIPANGE. 

lakini KUBWA hakikisha unaeingia nae kwenye ndoa UNAMPENDA KWA DHATI maana ndie utalala na kuamka nae kwa muda wote wa maisha yako, sasa kama utaamua kujibana kwa usiempenda kwa ajili ya visababu fulani jua hujiumizi wewe pekee ila utaitesa hata nafsi ya anaekupenda isiyo na hatia kwa kumfanyia YASIYOSTAHILI maana hutaweza kuigiza milele, kumbuka Hakukuoa ili ATESEKE, usimuingize mtu shimoni kwa shida na STRESS zako. Mwisho ni ADHABU KWAKO pia.

MOYO ULIOJERUHIWA DAWA YAKE NI FARAJA

Mr and Mrs Ridhiwani, wamependeza sana! 💖
MOYO ULIOJERUHIWA DAWA YAKE NI FARAJA kama huwezi kuwa faraja kwa mwenzi wako basi ujue husitahili kupewa nafasi hata ya kumwambia HABARI... Maana halisi ya mahusiano ni wawili kunia mamoja, Huwezi kuwa MUME wake kama huwezi kuwa rafiki kwake, Kuifikia heshima ya MUME ipo ngazi inayokubidi kuipanda nayo ni "HURUMA" Mtu ambaye hana huruma hawezi kujuwa vile mwenza wake anaumia, Mtu asiye na huruma hawezi kujikosoa, Mtu asiye na huruma hawezi kujifunza maumivu ya mwingine, Mtu asiye na huruma hajui kabisa KUHESHIMU! Na mtu huyo hata mwenza wake akilia mbele yake yeye hufurahia na kujiona mshindi, Mtu asiye na HURUMA NI KATILI tena amejawa dharau na majigambo, ni mwenye kujihesabia haki muda wote... lakini pamoja na yote hayo MWANAMKE NI MVUMILIVU wala asiyekata tamaa akijenga tumaini kuwa MUMEWE ATABADILIKA wakati huo akiendelea kuumia na kulia kila kukicha, Baadaye unakuta Mwanaume huyo amemuolea Mwanamke mwingine lakini mwanamke huyo anahamia kanisani kumlilia MUNGU ili amrejeshe mumewe, Lakini mumewe hubeza na kumwambia anapoteza muda huko makanisani mnakwenda kujifunza umbea, Still Mwanamke huyo yupo tu! MOYO wa Mwanamke ni MTAMBO... Wallah wakiungana wanawake wanne kwa uvumilivu wao ni KIWANDA😅😅😅

** Writen by: Elista Relief Heart ..........Picha ya Ridhiwani na mkewe haihusiki na story hii! Nimependa tu! **

“Go where you’re CELEBRATED. NOT where you’re TOLERATED.”

No matter how sweet your voice is, never sing where nobody wanna hear your voice. No matter how good your intentions are, never ever force kindness on people against their wish. Stop going to places where your presence is never APPRECIATED. Go where you're CELEBRATED. NOT where you're TOLERATED. Respect everyone but never ever forget that you're equally important. Never beg anyone to accept you into thier lives. If you have to beg them to come, you will always beg then to stay. Until you master and understand the art of standing alone, you may never have any STAND in life. Be friendly to everybody but never try to be everybody's friend. The moment you decide to be friends with everybody, your value starts dropping.

Always remember........
Not everybody deserve to sit in the front row to watch the movie of your life. Be open but don't be loose. Akin Al-Ameen®™2017

“watu wema wengi huishia kuwa na sifa ya UBAYA vinywani mwa watu lakini kwa kuwa MUNGU NDIE ANAELIPA!!”>>>> Zamaradi Mketema

Tenda wema unavyotenda, kuwa mwema unavyokuwa, mpende binaadamu unavyoweza, muoneshe kumjali kupitiliza, niamini kitu kidogo kitamsahaulisha yote makubwa tena hakuna ajabu kukuta kinachomfanya akuone mbaya ni haki yako, hakuna anaefanya jema kwa mtu ili alipwe, ila kuna ile hali ya KUONA na kuthamini juhudi anazofanya mtu ambapo hiyo inapokosekana ndio unakuta mtu unakuwa dissapointed kwa namna fulani, maana mara nyingine mtu unatoka hadi nje ya njia zako kumridhisha mtu ama hata kujinyima mara nyingine ili wengine wafurahi hata kama ni kwa kidogo, huenda ndio uwezo wako ulipoishia, lakini hakuna hisia mbaya na zinazoumiza kama kujihisi HUTOSHI ama huna unachofanya hasa kwa mtu ambae deep down unajua unafanya nini na unajali kiasi gani. Nilichogundua ukiwa mwema sana unaowafanyia mara nyingi wanakuonea, watakugandamiza, wata-take advantage of you na zaidi watavuka hadi mipaka yako mara nyingine hata kwa vile vitu vya kutumia tu akili, kiufupi watafanya hadi yale ambayo kihalali wasingeweza kuvumilia kufanyiwa na watu wengine na ukiongea ni KOSA, unakuwa mbaya, tena mara nyingine unaweza hata ukanuniwa, wanataka hata wanapokugandamiza unyamanze UKAE KIMYA hata kama ni haki yako kuongea. Ikikutokea usiumie na wala usiache kutenda pale inapostahili, watu wema wengi huishia kuwa na sifa ya UBAYA vinywani mwa watu lakini kwa kuwa MUNGU NDIE ANAELIPA!! Usiache kujitoa, uzuri yupo na ANAONA!!

“Wanawake FAITHFUL hapa Tanzania wako 16 tu….!”

WANAUME huwa tunatamani sana kupata WIFE MATERIAL lakini cha ajabu tukiwapata tunawatafutia visa vya ajabu visivyoeleweka wakati tuliwatafuta wenyewe............
Ukiona Mwanamke ana WIVU NA WEWE, anakufuatilia mambo yako, uko wapi, umekula, umekula nini, umekula saa ngapi, kwanini hujalala, kwanini umepiga picha na mdada asiyemjua, kwanini hujamtafuta nusu saa, kwanini uko Online Whatsapp lakini haumtext, TUNAANZA KULALAMIKA, "Oh huyu Mwanamke ana wivu sana mi siwezi"
Mwanamke mwenye Wivu SHE IS IN LOVE........SHE IS LOYAL........SHE IS FAITHFUL
Hawa makurumbembe tunaowapenda kisa hawatusumbui wote WEZI NA WAONGO TU, they are after something, Kwao Mapenzi ni rahisi kama kuagiza RED BULL BARIDI Wanawake FAITHFUL hapa Tanzania wako 16 tu, kama umempata mmoja kati ya hawa MSHIKILIE, NA MPENDE SANA, USIMTIBUE.......Akiondoka huyo utapata Bata la Uswahilini, hata uuchune SIKU 2 na yeye hakutafuti, utabakia na Majuto while She is Gone na amempata aliyeona thamani yake........
WANAUME HATA HATUELEWEKI TUNATAKA NINI SOMETIMES, Hata mnune mpige mawe UKWELI NDIO HUU!》》》》》by Chastic Chastic

Cheka urefushe maisha yako….. #No romance without finance

 Eti wataalamu wanasema hivi, msichana anapo muuliza mwanaume kuhusu namna anavyo endesha maisha yake kiuchumi haimfanyi kuwa mwanamke mwenye tamaa au kupenda makuu, hapana! Huyo ni mwanamke mwenye akili nzuri / timamu! Kwani hata wao wanaume wasingependa kuona binti zao wanaolewa na wanaume Mburulaz 😂😂😂 Yakwamba wanatakiwa wawajali wanawake wengine kama ambavyo wangependa mabinti zao watendewe na wanaume wengine! Hakuna pesa hakuna mahaba 🙈🙈🙈 kuna topic nyingine kasema kama mwanaume hawezi kumudu kununua pete ya ndoa basi huyo mwanaume hawezi imudu ndoa achana naye 🙆🙆🙆  ee shughuli pevu maana mie nimempenda mmeba mabox mwenzangu 😂😂😂 Duh! Mapenzi ya mwendo kasi yana kazi kweli! >>>>>>> "She's not a gold digger for wanting to know how you make your living. She's smart! You wouldn't want your daughter to marry a BROKE man either. Fellas!!! Do unto other women as you would have other men do unto your daughter(s). 👌🏾 No romance without finance. 😉" AskcheyB

He said, ‘You are asking a lot. She replied, “I’m worth a lot!”

"In a brief conversation, a man asked a woman he was pursuing the question: 'What kind of man are you looking for?' She sat quietly for a moment before looking him in the eye & asking, 'Do you really want to know?' Reluctantly, he said, 'Yes. She began to expound, 'As a woman in this day & age, I am in a position to ask a man what can you do for me that I can't do for myself? I pay my own bills. I take care of my household without the help of any man... or woman for that matter. I am in the position to ask, 'What can you bring to the table?' The man looked at her. Clearly he thought that she was referring to money. She quickly corrected his thought & stated, 'I am not referring to money. I need something more. I need a man who is striving for excellence in every aspect of life. He sat back on the couch, folded his arms, & asked her to explain. She said, 'I need someone who is striving for excellence mentally because I need conversation & mental stimulation. I don't need a simple-minded man. I need someone who is striving for excellence spiritually because I don't need to be unequally yoked...believers mixed with unbelievers is a recipe for disaster. I need a man who is striving for excellence financially because I don't need a financial burden. I need someone who is sensitive enough to understand what I go through as a woman, but strong enough to keep me grounded. I need someone who has integrity in dealing with relationships. Lies and game-playing are not my idea of a strong man. I need a man who is family-oriented. One who can be the leader, priest and provider to the lives entrusted to him by God. I need someone whom I can respect. In order to be submissive, I must respect him. I cannot be submissive to a man who isn't taking care of his business. I have no problem being submissive...he just has to be worthy. And by the way, I am not looking for him...He will find me. He will recognize himself in me. He may not be able to explain the connection, but he will always be drawn to me. God made woman to be a help-mate for man. I can't help a man if he can't help himself. When she finished her spill, she looked at him. He unfolded his arms and sat there with a puzzled look on his face. He said, 'You are asking a lot. She replied, "I'm worth a lot!" >>>>> Bishop Larry Boyd

 

Pete ya ndoa ni pingu ndogo, chagua mfungwa mwenzio kwa makini!

Mr and Mrs Mali Kimesera katika ubora wao! Wamependeza eeh! Hadi raha sana! Wamechaguana, wakawezana!............... Sasa ninekutana na hii msg nikaipenda:>> Eti kuwa pete ya ndoa ni pingu ndogo sana ambayo ni ya umilele hivyo tafakari sana. Chagua mfungwa mwenzio kwa makini na ujihukumu kwa busara ili kuhepuka  kutoroka gerezani! 🙉🙉🙊🙊 #ChapterClosed  >>>>>>> "Wedding rings are the smallest handcuffs ever.  So think deep. Choose your prison mate carefully and sentence yourself wisely to avoid any prison break." Bishop Larry Boyd

Make no mistake about it…..!

"Don't give anybody privileges and rights without responsibilities. The mind cannot handle being afforded privilege without purpose. Make no mistake about it, whatever is earned cannot be mistaken for free, cheap or easy. Giving a grown person free privileges is like giving a baby a razorblade. Just because somebody wants to hold you does not mean that they can handle the responsibilities that come with you."~~~Bishop Larry Boyd

Ladies!~~~~not everyone is able to go where you are going……!

"LADIES!...... not everyone is able to go where you are going & there's no reason to hold on to someone that don't want to be held. Sometimes you have to cut the ropes & sail on to deeper waters... alone! And those who are not with you will just have to paddle back to shore!" ~~~~Bishop Larry Boyd