Category Archives: Womanhood

Is baby number 2 on the way?!….if so; hongera sana Madam Rita!

Haya kuna huu ubuyu nawaletea wapenda ubuyu wenzangu 😀😀😀 Niliona hii picha wiki imepita sasa, kimoyo moyo nikasema “she looks like pregnant” lakini nikadharau! Sasa juzi kinaenda kuchungulia tena Instagram page yake nikaona no update! Nikasema mbona siku hizi anapotea sana kwa social media!! basi nikaamua kusoma comments chini ya hiyo picha si ndio naona watu wengi wakimpongeza na kumsifia kuwa mimba imempendeza! 

Honestly, nimefurahi utafikiri mie ndio Madam Rita 🙈🙈 huyo atakuwa mtoto wake wa pili baada ya miaka zaidi ya 20 kama ni kweli mjamzito! Isijekuwa mtu amevimbiwa maharagwe ya Mbeya sisi tunampa pongezi 🙊🙊 …………anyway, Madame, please rusha basi picha nyingine tukuone mpenzi 😍😍 Hongera sana, Mungu awe nawe 🙏

I am a woman-So what?!

           I AM A WOMAN!!! -So what?

I get into an argument with a man, he slaps me, I feel the pain, yet they tell me I provoked him. I should have been quiet, I should have been patient. I should apologize to him.

I get into an argument with a man, I slap him, they tell me I have no respect, no home training. I should have been quiet, I should have been patient. I should apologize to him.
Because I am a woman, I don’t have a right to be angry. So, the degree of my innocence is directly proportional to the degree of my silence in the face of oppression and brutality….. Because I am a woman, my husband cheats on me, I am told to tolerate it to save my marriage. The barbaric and stupid excuse is that ”it is in their nature to cheat, I should slim down, dress better, cook better, pray harder and be more pleasant to him”

I cheat, and I am called a whore, I have committed an abomination, I have no right to look elsewhere for the love and emotional support I lack at home, I am an irresponsible mother.

So I am sent packing, from the home we both built, with all my earthly possessions stuffed into a tiny box on my head. I am henceforth forbidden from seeing my two older children, I’m lucky to be allowed to go with my little one still suckling on my left breast. Three years later, the little one is tagged a bastard. Now, my new name is “after-three”, because I am a woman.

He is 28 and runs a company. He’s tagged wonderful, hardworking, focused, career oriented, successful at a very young age.

I am 28 and I run a company ” Hmmmm, she is not even married, unserious, can not order her priorities right, a hustler, loves money, let her go and get a husband oh”

And I wonder if being successful has anything to do with a person’s gender.

Because I am a woman,
I am not allowed to have wits or be a prodigy, I cannot be financially buoyant, professionally successful or be treated with respect without a man beside me.

Then I am tagged a generous leg opener, “a runs girl”. They never see the possibility that I actually had to go through ups and downs to get to where I am.

Because I am a woman.

A man looses his wife to death and remarries a year after, he did the right thing, he’s being praised and congratulated for moving on, after all life is for the living.

A woman looses her husband to death and remarries after 4yrs, “ahhh! so early? Are u sure she wasn’t sleeping with that man even when her husband was alive? That was why she killed her husband. She’s a witch! ” Because she’s a woman.

Because I am a woman, this post will be considered controversial, and everyone will try to correct me.

But don’t forget, that I am a woman and it does not make me less human!!!

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Mama Salma Kikwete ndani timu ya netball!

Mama yetu kipenzi mama Salma Kikwete ndani ya kivazi mwanana kabisa teyari kwa kuingia uwanjani kucheza mashindano  ya netball za timu za Wabunge wa Africa Mashariki hapo juzi kati! Inapendeza sana, inavutia, na kutia moyo wanawake wengine na mabinti unapo ona powerful figure Kama mama yetu hapo akijishusha kwa unyenyekevu na kufurahia maisha na watu wengine! Safi sana na hongera nyingi mama yetu!………… Mwaka jana naye Dr. AshaRose Migiro alituonyesha ujuzi wake wakupiga dana dana  tazama 👉👉 BigUpDrAshaRoseMigiro

Dina Marios: Kuna watu tutakutana nao kama baraka kwetu na wengine ni mafunzo kwetu.

Kuna watu tutakutana nao kama baraka kwetu na wengine ni mafunzo kwetu. Hata wale unaohisi ni wabaya kutokana na yale waliyokufanyia au wanayokufanyia sasa wapo hapo kwa sababu. Wapo kwa ajili ya kukupa funzo fulani…….wapo hapo kukufanya uwe imara na mkomavu.
Dina Marios

Womanhood

Madam Rita katika ubora wake 😍 Kuna ubuyu fulani nautamania sijui niseme 😀😀 simnaona kitu Cha Diamond kwa kidole cha madam?! So who is the “mystery man” behind that bling-bling? Wapenda ubuyu mtatujua tu 🙈🙈……….  Anyway, madam wetu kapendezaje sana. I hope the mystery man is worth it all,  a woman like you who hassle like that deserves more than an average man! O’hello!! Can we talk?!!! she’s Madam Rita Paulsen for people’s sake! 😂😂😂😂😂

Womanhood!

The one and only Dr. Ellikunda Kihengu a.k.a Dr. Elly Kihengu kutoka Houston, Texas! When we talk about Tanzanian women in the diaspora, women with brain and integrity you can’t miss her name  unless you are hater 😍😍 mzurije sasa, beauty and brain =Extra extra beauty in madam Rita Paulsen’s voice 😍

Womanhood!

“Your mental growth totally depends on you and the effort you’ll make towards that growth. Feed your brain with the right information and you’ll see positive changes in your life, feed it with rubbish and that’s exactly what you’ll end up with. You only have one life to live, choose wisely!” JNM

Wema Sepetu: Peace of mind is everything for me

“Siwezi Kuendelea kuishi kwenye Nyumba inayo nikosesha amani… Peace of mind is everything for me… Natangaza Rasmi kuondoka Chadema na Kurudi Nyumbani…. #ThereIsNoPlaceLikeHome… Feels good to be Back…

“Wow! Kwaniaba ya mdogo wangu kipenzi Magreth Otieno Olung’a Igogo ambaye ni mmoja wa mashabiki wakubwa wa Wema Sepetu na pia ni mwanachama muaminifu wa CCM naomba nichukue fursa hii kumkaribisha our Tanzania Sweetheart #nyumbani! CCM oyeeeeeee! Kidumu chama 😁😁😁😁 O’Lord of Mercy!!…….Honestly, nampongeza sana Wema kwa maamuzi haya. Huwezi kuwa na amani kwenye chama ambacho Mwenyekiti wake amekutaka kimapenzi! Ndio maana hata amabavyo hujaenda kumuona uncle wako Mhe. Tundu Lissu mie sijashangaa kwani nilijua ni ngumu sana kwako kuonana na Freeman Mbowe uso kwa uso! Nafikiri it’s high time kwa wanawake kushika uongozi kwani hawa wanaume wanatuchanganyia habari tuu! Hongera sana Wema  😍😍💝  BTW, hivi mnajua jinsi gani mdogo wangu alikuwa anachukia niki mpost Zari humu zaidi ya Wema? Hahahaha! Haya Sasa nitakuwa na balance lol!

Repost: women over 40!

Nimeipata hii article kwenye Facebook nikaona siyo mbaya ku share nanyi hapa. Mtaniwia radhi kwa wale msioelewa lugha hii ……..Picha zangu hazihusiani na hii story lakini mwakani itakuwa 41 so get your life 🤣🤣  #TBT “Ladies and gentleman, this is a must read!!! THIS HAS BEEN WRITTEN BY A MAN……….This is for all you girls 40 years and over….. and for those who are turning 40, and for those who are scared of moving into their 40’s…AND for guys who are scared of girls over 40!!!!…. This was written by Andy Rooney from CBS 60 Minutes.  

Andy Rooney says: As I grow in age, I value women who are over 40 most of all. Here are just a few reasons why: A woman over 40 will never wake you in the middle of the night to ask, “What are you thinking?” She doesn’t care what you think. If a woman over 40 doesn’t want to watch the game, she doesn’t sit around whining about it. She does something she wants to do. And, it’s usually something more interesting.

A woman over 40 knows herself well enough to be assured in who she is, what she is, what she wants and from whom. Few women past the age of 40 don’t give a damn about what you might think about her or what she’s doing. Women over 40 are dignified. They seldom have a screaming match with you at the opera or in the middle of an expensive restaurant. Of course, if you deserve it, they won’t hesitate to shoot you, if they think they can get away with it. Older women are generous with praise, often undeserved. They know what it’s like to be unappreciated.

A woman over 40 has the self-assurance to introduce you to her women friends. A younger woman with a man will often ignore even her best friend because she doesn’t trust the guy with other women. Women over 40 couldn’t care less if you’re attracted to her friends because she knows her friends won’t betray her.

Women get psychic as they age. You never have to confess your sins to a woman over 40. They Always Know.  A woman over 40 looks good wearing bright red lipstick. This is not true of younger women. Once you get past a wrinkle or two, a woman over 40 is far sexier than her younger counterpart. Older women are forthright and honest. They’ll tell you right off if you are a Jerk if you are acting like one! You don’t ever have to wonder where you stand with her.

Yes, we praise women over 40 for a multitude of reasons. Unfortunately, it’s not reciprocal. For every stunning, smart, well-coiffed hot woman of 40+, there is a bald, paunchy relic in yellow pants making a fool of himself with some 22-year-old waitress. Ladies, I apologize. For all those men who say, “Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free”. Here’s an update for you. Nowadays 80% of women are against marriage, why? Because women realize it’s not worth buying an entire Pig, just to get a little sausage!

You see this lady!?! Don’t give up!

JNM: Where there’s passion, perseverance and dedication there’s always a reward. Keep going!

“Where there’s passion,perseverance and dedication there’s always a reward. Keep going!” ———-JNM

Zarinah Hassan: We have been created so different, the type of humans who can multi task

“There is so much in a woman that most people don’t know. We have been created so different, the type of humans who can multi task. A man can watch a game and not hear what one said while a woman can watch a movie and still hear, still know the stove is on, and so on (the list is endless). So here is to all the multi tasking women juggling through life as mothers, wives, momprenuers aka business women, caregivers and many more. You are appreciated! It’s all about knowing what comes 1st #prioritize. Salute🍾 help me tag one woman who inspires you. @lukambaofficial 📸” ——-Zarinah Hassan

Joyce Kiria: MWANAMKE PIGA KAZI KWENYE NDOA FUATA MAHABA

IVI DUNIA YA LEO BADO KUNA MWANAUME ANAKATAZA MKE KUJITAFTIA KIPATO???? ------ Jamani Kuolewa kunatakiwa kukubadilisha tu kuwa umetoka kuishi mwenyewe na sasa unaishi na mwanaume lakini sio ubadilishwe kutoka kwenye kazi uwe mama wa nyumbani. Halafu kuna wanaume wanatumia hicho kama kigezo kisa kujifanya wana wivu kuhisi labda mwanamke akitoka kwenda kazini atakuwa na mchepuko. Yani wewe mumeo akisema acha kazi mwambie nipe kazi ingine ya kujiajiri na tena hiyo kazi nayo uwe na haki nayo sio umeachishwa kazi umefunguliwa kiduka siku mnaachana kiduka chake anachukua unaenda kuanza upya. Usikubali kupoteza kazi yako kisa ndoa tambua maisha ya leo yenyewe hayatabiriki wanaume wenyewe wa sasa maji kupwa maji kujaa sasa ndo uache kazi unajua umeolewa ukiachwa unaenda kuwa omba omba. Kwanza mwanaume mwenye akili atamuacha mke wake afanye kazi ili siku mambo yamekuwa mabaya kwake mke anaweza endelea kutunza familia. MWANAMKE PIGA KAZI KWENYE NDOA FUATA MAHABA... Kumekucha achia shuka bibi weeeeeee, SHAURILO

The C.E.O herself! #Molocaho

Nani Kama Jacqueline!! The C.E.O of Molocaho furniture katika ubora wake!  Nampendaje sasa!! Mzuri wa sura, shepu, mpaka roho! Kuna wanawake wengine japo ni wazuri wanavutia lakini usiombe ukae nao karibu utajuta!! Wana roho mbaya mfano hakuna, hawapendi kuona wengine wanafuraha kwani maisha yao ni vilio kila siku!! Halafu maendelo ya wengine ni chungu kwao kumeza kama mwarobaini!! ……Ubarikiwe sana Mrs Billionaire 😘💞 

A day in the life: Siku ya maisha yangu na Emelda Mwamanga

Emelda Mwamanga (Kushoto) pamoja na Dorothy Kipeja ambaye ndiye mmiliki wa show hii ya A day in the life

Wow! I’m super happy Bang Magazine is coming back!!! My wishes came true! Ni miezi michache iliyopita nilikuwa nauliza kuhusu Bang Magazine kama itarudi sokono (SomaHapa), na katika video hii fupi inayo onyesha maisha ya Mama / Mke / C.E.O / Entrepreneur lady / Motivational speaker and now what an Author?!  (ma’am this lady can do it all huh!! I only have this blog and can’t even keep up with it 😂😂🙈🙈)  Emelda Mwamanga ambaye ndiye mmiliki wa Bang Magazine ametamka kuwa Bang Magazine inarudi sokoni muda si mrefu! ………So happy for you Emelda! Nice show, good job! Love it!!

Joyce Kiria: Maisha ya Ndoa bana yana mambo jamaniii mwee……!

Joyce Kiria

Maisha ya Ndoa bana yana mambo jamaniii mwee, unaanza vizuuri kabisa kuwa “Mke” mtamuuuuu, kisha Polepole unakuwa “mama Fulani” Mke wa mtu, kisha taratiiibu unakuwa “Mlinzi” baadae “mlezi” kuna “mtunza nyumba” kuna “Mpishi” kuna “mfuaji” kuna “furniture” uuuuuuwwwwiiii nkinkiiii ruwa mangiiii ?? (Usiombe Mume awe chini ya Miaka 45😢) utashaaaaaaaaaa…. — Jipe tuu Furaha mwenzangu, tuishi kama single flani amazing, akiwepo sawa akisepa sawa, tusingoje Furaha Toka kwa Mwanaume.. Tutaiskia kwenye filamu! Akili za usiku #NaesabuBati 😢😢 #NikoDirishani ##AnatokeaWapiNifungueMlango

ASANTE SANA @didavitengewear kwa mwonekano wa kitenge… @rosebrazilian kwa Nywele… Twende SAWA… Kama una neno lolote weka hapa

 

Jacqueline Mengi: Love is an act of endless forgiveness!

Nimeenda kuchungulia kwa Mrs Mengi nikakutana na picha nzuri sana zakwake na maneno Fulani amazing hivi, "love is an act of endless forgiveness"! Haya ni maneno rasmi aliyo yatamka Beyonce baada ya kumsamehe Jay Z kwenye ile "cheating scandle" nakusema kuwa amejifunza upendo ni tendo la kusamehe bila ukomo / kukoma! Dah! Haya maswala ya mapenzi namwachia Jacqueline na Dr Mengi wake maana site wengine tulishaga achana nayo  😂😂🙈🙈. 
Kuna mtu aliandika article akisema Beyonce amemsaidia sana kwa maneno yake hayo ............."The best part of the show is when Beyoncé gives us the quote about forgiveness.

Love is an act of endless forgiveness. Forgiveness is me giving up my right to hurt you for hurting me. Forgiveness is the final act of love” 

All this while getting shot in a wedding dress. Yes, shit gets THAT real.
We’ve all been there for before where we wanted to hurt the one we love because they hurt us. Why? Because no one can hurt you more than the ones you care for. They know you best and you feel so vulnerable to them.

It is a valuable lesson to be learned here. In order to sustain love, you have continuously BE love. You have to be willing to love through thick AND thin. It’s easy to stop loving once you’ve been hurt but as the late Maya Angelou once said, “Have enough courage to trust love one more time, and always one more time.”

If two people can put aside their ego and realize that mistakes will be made; and know that nothing worth having will come without HARD work to keep it, you can really have that ever lasting love you seek." ............unaweza soma article you kwa kubonyeza 👉👉 (LoveIsAnActOfEndlessForgiveness).  

“If you are happy with yourself it’s very easy for others to make you happy”JNM……….Umependeza sana! Super clean and beautiful!

Mama na mwana: Hakika wema na fadhili zako zitanifuata siku zote za maisha yangu!

Ni kwa neema tu! Nasema ni kwa neema yake Mungu kwani akili yangu haikuwai kuwaza kuwa ipo siku kama hii! Hivyo namshukuru sana Mungu kwani ni hakika wema na fadhili zake zitanifuata siku zote za maisha yangu, nami nitadumu ndani yake! Nimeweza kuona ukuu wa Mungu kwa kufanikisha uumbaji wake! Amenibariki na rafiki wa kweli ambaye upendo wetu utadumu milele na milele!  ………Najua tunamipango mingi sana naomba Mungu azidi kutuwezesha katika kila jambo! Moja ya vitu ambavyo nasubiri kwa hamu sana ni passport ya mwanangu!! Yes! her American passport!! Ee Mwenyezi Mungu mimina baraka zako!! Yani can’t wait!! Maana tutatembe hii dunia mpaka ndege zinune  zigome kabisa kuruka 🙈🙈 ……..Anyway, namshukuru Mungu kwa mbaraka  wa huyu mtoto! Naomba azidi kunilindia na kumuongoza katika kila jambo haswa kiroho, asikae mbali naye!

Watu wangu wa nguvu katika picha!

Watu wangu wa nguvu katika picha! Mama yangu kipenzi, Makamu wa Rais Mh. Samia Suluhu akiwa na mdogo wangu kipenzi Jokate Mwegelo.  Safi sana nawapenda sana hawa wanawake. Wanajitambua. Wanajikubali. Wanajiheshimu. Wanakubalika katika jamii zote!! #WanawakeTunaweza  😘🙏 

 

“good things come to those who hustle” ~~~~~ Major General

 “Last thursday of the month, not sure what motivation is needed but I know i gotta put the past behind me and focus on the future…. good things come to those who hustle #WorkMode”~~~~Zari. a.k.a  Major General