Category Archives: Words of wisdom

“Treat all women with respect and you will live a happy and peaceful life” Meck Mbwana

Nimependa sana huu ujumbe ulioandikwa na Meck Mbwana founder and owner of PUKU portable power bank. Ni ujumbe mzuri sana kwa generation ya sasa ambapo wanaume wengi bado wanashindwa kujua kiini cha furaha katika jamii na familia zetu inategemea kwa asilimia zote jinsi mwanamke anavyo jisikia. Happy mama happy home, happy community! Linda na heshimu mwanamke kwani wote mmekuja hapa duniani kwa kupitia viungo vya mwili wa mwanamke!! 

Je unamuhitaji huyo mtu maishani mwako? Je upo tayari kumvumilia tabia yake?

Swali la msingi hapo ni Je unamuhitaji mtu huyo maishani mwako? Je upo teyari kumvumilia tabia yake?!!….. Well, Maya Angelous said it very well “When people show you who they are believe them”!! This quote has been my guardian angel in picking and choosing who to be my friend and around me! Yes! Agree hakuna mtu aliye kamilika hapa duniani but there’s a distinctive line between mistake and evil!! Mtu yoyote anaweza fanya mistake lakini kuna mtu anafanya kitu au akanasema mpaka mtu unajiuliza hivi huyu ni binadamu wa kawaida? Kuna watu wana roho za kishetani kaa nao mbali na wala wasikudanganye na makeup wanazo paka, nguo wanazo vaa, elimu zao, wala uzuri wa sura zao! When someone does AN EVIL ACT to you that person is nothing but A DEVIL stay farrrrrr from him / her!

“God did not create us to be the same our”

“God did not create us to be the same our story our category will never be the same there will always be that someone who is more richer more popular more beautiful or more successful … Run your own race at your own pace we all might be travelling same direction but our purpose and destinations would never be the same …….Never ever make a mistake of comparing yourself with one another in life those who evaluate their success based on others people achievements may never see any reason to be happy and grateful ever in life..your present situation is someone else heart desire…..Always remember delay is never denial If God answers your prayers His increasing your faith if your prayers are delayed He’s increasing your patience and if you’re not answered there something better for you and if He keeps you alive He has a better plan for you
#SpokenWithaReason
#positivity” ~~~~~Akinspirational, Akin Al-Ameen

Womanhood!

“Chasing my dreams,not only for myself but for us because I believe that when my dreams come true yours will too.”~~~~~ JNM

“The man is the head but the wife is not a slave”

“To lead is to serve. The man is the head but the wife is not a slave. A good man leads with fear of GOD. HE will choose to serve his wife rather than ruling her. He will not make critical decisions without consulting his wife. Her happiness will be his priority. He will be consistent in his words and actions and whenever there’s is conflicts, he will never raise his voice or his hand against his woman. He will pray for his woman and pray with her.

A good man also knows that…

The Teshas’ familyi

His woman happiness and love is not based on material things alone. She wants you to listen when she wants to talk. She wants to be sensitive to her feelings and needs. She doesn’t want to fight for your attention. She wants to be spoiled at times and be treated like a queen all the time. Sometimes she wants her breakfast while she’s still in bed. Sometimes she creates pointless drama just to be sure with you she’s neva alone. She wantsto confide in you and believe in you.

A good woman will be submissive and work with her man peacefully and faithfully. She will be reasonable in her demand, considerate with her actions, and patience her reaction. She will talk to her husband rather than talking about him. Whoever makes more income shouldn’t be a problem. In a good matrimonial home there is no such thing as competition because the 2 must become 1. If someone faster person must be ready to slow down for the other person to catch up. Both couples must peacefully and happilly walk at same pace and put GOD first in all they do.” ~~~~~~ Akinspirational (Akin Al-Ameen)

***Please note, Tesha family picture has nothing to do with the story****

“The only advice you can get from a fool is a foolish advice.”

They told her to leave her husband because she’s worth more than him. They told her she’s beautiful and successful, that a woman of her standard deserves a better man with a better job income and personality . She listened to them and abandoned her home. Ts been over 7yrs since then and she’s still looking for a better man that matches her standard. The funniest part is that those friends who told her to leave her man are still with thier own husbands, doing everything possible to save their homes. Be very careful from who and where you take your relationship and marriage advice. The only advice you can get from a fool is a foolish advice. Anyone who recommends divorce or break up to you at every slight argument with your partner is an enemy that appears like friend.

A lazy man and a poor man are never the same. If a man doesn’t have today does not mean he will be lacking for life. As long as he’s GOD fearing, loving, caring and appreciative of your efforts you don’t have to worry yourself. There are only two ways to regret in life. BEFORE AND AFTER. Those who choose to regret later may regret for long. A woman who choose never to be patience for a while might ends up enduring for life. Marriage is not a bed of roses. Don’t get carried away by what you see, some marriages and relationship are just like a reality show of make believe.

Behind every beautiful family pictures is an untold story of agonies and pains. If you want a husband like Obama you must be ready to be a wife like Michelle. ~~~~~~~~ Akin Al-Ameen®™2017

 

***The Ladies picture has nothing to do with the story! Nawapenda kwani wanajitambua!***

“Love is peace, not competition.”

“When you were using your own star you can’t afford a bike. When your wife bought you a new car, you and your family said she is spiritually using your star.

WHICH STAR???????? Never take a woman’s kindnesses for wickedness in life. If your wife’s income and financial status is affecting your confidence as a man means your self esteem is dead. Unless she’s very disrespectful and arrogant you don’t have a point. Stop making her life miserable just because she’s richer than you. If you cannot be happy for her means you were never in love with her. Love is peace, not competition. Whoever makes more money shouldn’t be a problem as long as everyone knows and respects each other’s role as a husband and wife.”~~~~~~~~~~~ Akin Al-Ameen®™2017

***Zari’s picture has nothing to do with the story***

“The only difference between a 50yrs old boy and a 25yrs old man is not the age but the brain”

“AGE has nothing to do with BRAIN. Growing UP & Growing OLD are never the same. Growing old is mandatory while growing up is optional by choice. The only difference between a 50yrs old boy and a 25yrs old man is not the age but the brain. Perhaps the reason why GOD put the nose, eyes, ears and mouth in our head is because HE doesn’t want them too far from the brain. Knowledge is different from WISDOM. Education and common SENSE are never the same. It’s a million times better to have common sense without education than to have education without common sense. Education is light while common sense is the switch. Power is nothing without control.Knowledge is common while wisdom is rare. When knowledge brags, happiness smiles. Humility is wisdom’s first child. Wise people don’t show off, only the fools display their foolishness. Avoid too much arguments even when you’re right. When arguments becomes a habbit it turns to disease. You can never be right all the time. Everybody has a right to their personal thinking, reasoning and opinions always respect it.

When people don’t see things the way you see it doesn’t make them a blind. If they don’t reason like you doesn’t make them a fool. The greatest foolishness is to think you know everything. No one will ever be considered wise or intelligent until he/she can wisely and peacefully deal with everybody’s level of understanding. “…….Akin Al-Ameen®™2017

**My nephew’s picture has nothing to do with the story!**

“If you aren’t prepared to carry her heels when she’s tired, then you shouldn’t be next to her when she’s in the spotlight”

DEAR MEN,

Sometimes it’s not just about opening the door to let her in first, any guy can do that when he knows that there’s people watching – just for the sake of the credit. Rather make sure her seat belt is on before you start driving. Sometimes it’s not about walking her down that isle where there’s a lot of people just because you want everyone to notice her and she’s looking fancy in her heels. You feel proud to be with her, yes but you also need to appreciate her effort. Walk her down a route that is comfortable with her, that’s less painful and less risk of her actually getting injured. If you aren’t prepared to carry her heels when she’s tired, then you shouldn’t be next to her when she’s in the spotlight. The strength of your bond should never be determined by the number of likes that your pictures with her actually receive on social media. You should never let the opinion of a friend determine whether you spend your life with her or not. We don’t often choose who we fall in love with, it just happens. You then realize loyalty is no longer an option. You begin to plan things in your head with her. All those love songs that you’ve always hated start to make sense to you. No matter how much of a tough guy you claim to be, she has tamed your soul without you actually noticing it. You begin to talk about her unknowingly to your friends, you think about her as soon as you wake up, during the day and before you sleep. When she starts to tear, you shouldn’t offer her something to wipe it off rather remain with her and let her know she’s not alone, hold and let her know that she has someone to fall back on. It’s not about only being with her on special occasions just to make her feel special in front of the world. It’s about being with her even when no one is watching. At the end of it all, it’s not about how much time she spends with you, it’s about the feeling you get every single time you see her name popping as a notification on your phone… Yes, it’s that same person you’re thinking about right now!

*** Credit to Get Inspired by T_Sha****

***Please note: Jojo’s pictures has nothing to do with the story. She’s cute and I love her thus why I shared her pictures***

“Don’t underestimate your dream”- Jackline Mengi

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Malkia wa nguvu 2017: Hongera sana Mwanaidi Mayowela, pongezi kwa Clouds TV!

Nilikuwa sijapata muda wa kuwapongeza washindi na waandaaji wa sherehe za “Malkia wa nguvu” hivyo naomba nichukue muda huu kuwapongeza!…………Kwakweli kama kuna kitu ambacho kimenivutia sana na kunigusa kwenye TV za Bongoland; basi ni hii sherehe ya Malkia wa nguvu. Sababu kuu yakunivutia nikuona kuwa waandaaji walichukua muda wao kufanya kazi ya kujua nani anastahili kupewa tuzo hiyo ambapo imekuwa tofauti sana na events /awards nyingi sana za “Wabongo” wengi kwani mara nyingi ni zakujuana juana. Yani authentication ya awards inakuwa haipo kabisa!!

Hongera sanaaaaaa Clouds TV mmenifanya niangalie hii event mara zote mlikuwa mkiirusha hewani! Natumaini na wengine wataiga mfano wenu. Pia hongera sana dada Mwanaidi Mayowela kwa kulitwaa taji kwani unastahili kwakweli! Ubarikiwe sanaaaaaa wewe na familia yako! Nawashindi wengine wote pia nanyi nawapongeza sana. Mungu azidi wabariki.

Malkia wa nguvu; Mchapa Kazi, Mbunifu,  Jasiri!

“Much of this success was built on my own hard work” -Monica Joseph

Katika ubora wake!

“I spread love babe and that’s why am tooo blessed.Try it!”-Zari the bossLady

Thank you from Mr and Mrs A. Banduka 

We would like to thank you for all the love and support you have given us over the course of our lives and for being in the midst of this exciting and memorable adventure. We appreciate each of you and recognize your participation. We’re honored that you came to celebrate and witnessed our love and vows to each other. To each and everyone of you, you mean so much to us and we’re beyond thankful to have you in our lives. Finally, to all of those who have given us their time and helping hands with planning this wedding, WE THANK YOU. From the bottom of our hearts we could not have done this without you.

Womanhood!

“Hii ni sababu mojawapo kwa nini ni lazima kuachia ya nyuma yapite”- Pastor Caleb Migombo

Umeshagundua kuwa ukiendelea kumchukia mtu, chochote kile walichokutendea kitaendelea kukuumiza maisha yako yote? Hasira zetu na chuki huzidi kutonesha vidonda vya majeraha ya huko nyuma (zamani).

Hii ni sababu mojawapo kwa nini ni lazima kuachia ya nyuma yapite na – kwa msaada wa Mungu – kufungulia hasira na chuki vitoke kabisa katika  maishani mwetu, na badala yake turuhusu Upendo wa Mungu kukaa ndani yetu. Kama tusipofanya hivyo, mioyo yetu itatiwa sumu na kujaa chuki na uchungu maisha yetu yote yaliyosalia, badala ya kuakisi upendo na rehema za Kristo.  

Kumbuka Yesu anasema: “ Wapendeni adui zenu na waombeeni wanaowaudhii” Mt 5:44. 

Uchungu wote na ghadhabu na hasira na kelele na matukano yaondoke kwenu, pamoja na kila namna ya ubaya. Waef. 4:31

TAIFA LA JANA, LEO NA KESHO…. na Peter Sarungi

Imeandikwa….

1. Baba bora ni yule anayelinda na kutetea familia yake, anaye tengeneza urithi mzuri kwa watoto, wajukuu hadi vitukuu na anaye hashimu familia yake.

2. Mke mwema ni yule anaye jenga familia yake bila kuharibu kwa mikono yake, anaye lea watoto katika maadili mema na anaye simama imara na mumewe katika hali ya hatari, dhiki, shida, raha, hofu, furaha, matatizo kama ya siasa, umasikini, chuki, wakati wa ujana na uzee, wakati wa afya na magonjwa.

3. Mtoto bora ni yule anaye heshimu wazazi wake na kujifunza maadili na maarifa kutoka kwa walio mtangulia. Ambaye anapenda kuwa kichwa na si mkia. 

Na Peter Sarungi (Next Speaker)

#MyTake.

Vijana ambao wamefika umri wa kujenga familia wachukue hatua kufanya hivyo, wasisubiri harusi na madoido ya kifahari maana kuna maisha ya ndoa baada ya kupata sifa za harusi.

??Fidel Pilato alikuwa akiangalia post zangu  za nyuma huku akijaribu kuuliza maswali katika lugha nisiyo tambua.???…Hao ndio watu wazima wadogo, Taifa la kesho. NIWATAKIE MWANZO MZURI WA WIKI………MUNGU BARIKI KAZI YA MIKONO/AKILI ZENU.

Pastor Caleb Migombo: The Most important advice for life’s crossroads is this:

Pastor Caleb Migombo

The Most important advice for life’s crossroads is this:

” Seek God’s will.” He knows what’s best for you and me, and He doesn’t want us to wonder aimlessly through life.

Never forget: God made you, and He knows all about you-including the gifts and abilities He gave you. More that, He loves you and wants what is best for you. Maybe you’ve been living for yourself and for the moment rather for Him and for things eternal. But don’t stay on that path; you will only end up at a blank wall if you ignore God’s plan for your life. 

“I will instruct you and teach you in the way you should go; I will counsel you and watch over you” Psa 32:8

Womanhood!