Regrann from @hollietheblogger - We have all gossiped too much this week, so let’s talk about something different 🤷♀️ RESILIENCE‼️ Resilience is the capacity to recover quickly from difficulties. Is sort of the ability to spring back from any challenge and difficulties and soldier on like nothing happened‼️Like for me, given the dynamic nature of events in a healthcare sector, resilience is a must have characteristic. One minute you are fighting to resuscitate a patient, the other you are signing an end of life form and the next examining a new patient with all smiles like nothing has happened. Over a period of time, You tend to block these events and just put yourself in a moment every time everyday. Resilience can be emotionally draining so it requires tremendous emotional stamina. Most people give up easily because they have traded resilience with fear. They choose the easy way out and opt for easier choices instead of immersing themselves in this complex journey and wait to enjoy their complete un-breakable success. For example you want to loose weight and get in shape but you do not want to exercise or give up your old lifestyle. So you will try exercising for a week and get drained or bored and decide to resort to other short cuts to achieve your objective. The truth is that you might just get thinner but not fitter which is your main health benefit goal. So overall you fail to achieve the COMPLETE OUTCOME. For you to enjoy your FULL benefits of success you must be willing to sacrifice and invest your everything in any project or goal you choose. You must be resilient in all circumstances no matter the weather so that when you build that house you have a solid foundation or business without any loopholes. See your Boss Lady is so resilient that when you think she’s broken she springs back tougher and stronger✌🏾 So ladies watch and learn 💯#issabossladiesmovement #brandzari💯🗣🗣💰 - #regrann
New couple in town 😍 Kwanza nianze kwa kuwapongeza maharusi Ken and Christine kwa kuachana na maisha ya u-bachelor na kuamua kufunga ndoa takatifu siku ya JumaMosi tarehe 11 mwezi wa 08 mwaka 2018. Ndoa hii takatifu ilifungwa kwenye Chaple ya Sterling Banquet Hall lililopo Houston, Texas. Ambapo ilifuatiwa na sherehe nzuri sana kwenye ukumbi huo huo. Tunawaombea neema nyingi kwenye ndoa yao, Mungu akawe kiongozi wao siku zote, ndoa yao ikajae amani na furaha nyingi sana. Wakabarikie na uzao wa tumbo lao hata kizazi cha tatu na cha nne. AMEN Kwafaida ya wasomaji wangu, bwana harusi ni rafiki yangu wa miaka mingi tuliishi wote Kalamazoo, Michigan, huwa napenda kuwaita “my Kalamazoo family members” kwani tuliishi kwa amani na upendo. Kwasasa yeye anaishi Dallas, Texas na mimi naishi Houston, Texas. Bibi harusi yeye alikuwa akiishi Spring, Texas lakini sasa amekuwa mwana Dallas, Texas kwani huko ndiko makazi yake mapya. Gosh! Ain’t they pretty 😍 Wasimamizi wa kiume na bibi harusi katika pozi. Kutoka kushoto ni Sammy: yeye alikuwa ndio Bestman. Nirafiki wa bwana harusi wa miaka mingi sana toka Kalamazoo, Michigan na sasa wanaishi wote Dallas, Texas.
Anayefuata anaitwa Gittu: Yeye pia ni mmoja wa “Kalamazoo family members”. Nirafiki wa bwana harusi wa miaka mingi toka Kalamazoo na sasa wanaishi wote Dallas, Texas.
Na huyo gentleman wa mwisho anaitwa Charles Nyakure kutoka Dallas, Texas ni rafiki mwema wa bwana harusi. Naye tumemu adopte kuwa mmoja wa “Kalamazoo family members” 😍😍 Mmenionaa 😍😍 mimi hapa upande wa kushoto, mwanangu upande wa kulia pamoja na Mr and Mrs Sande Dada wa bwana harusi all the way from Nairobi, Kenya akiwa na bestman-Sammy Wazazi! Kutoka kushoto ni baba mzazi wa bibi harusi. Anayefuata ni dada wa bwana harusi. Mwenye nguo ya blue ni mama mzazi wa bibi harusi, na wa mwisho ni baba mzazi wa bwana harusi. Wote wamekuja rasmi kutoka Nairobi, Kenya kwaajili ya kushuhudia tukio hili takatifu. Picha zote kwa hisani ya Charles 👆…… Thank you so much Charles be blessed!
Another Africa greatest is gone! R.I.P Kofi Annan Africa will always remember you, your legacy shall forever live!……. Hivi mnajua hakuna kituo chochote cha TV hapa Marekani ambacho kimeongelea kifo cha kiongozi huyu mashuhuri aliyewahi kupewa tuzo za Nobel Peace Prize? Halafu utakuta baadhi ya Waafrika haswa Watanzania wanavyo washobokea Wamarekani wakati wenyewe kama hawafaidiki na kitu hata siku moja hawakiongelei!!
Ingekuwa ni vita au vurugu mahala fulani huko African ungeona ambavyo kila kituo kinaonyesha kwasababu tu wanataka kuonekana wao ni bora kuliko wengine!! Napoa hapo wanajua ni sehemu ya kuuza silaha zao kama bunduki hivyo ni lazima wamfanyie promo ya nguvu ili wauza silaha wapeleka huko!! Siku tutaacha kushabikia hawa wazungu na kujenga vyaketu ndipo tutaheshimika mbele zao!!
Anyway, may Kofi Annan soul’s R.I.P 🙏🏽
Regrann from @hollietheblogger - I salute educated and dignified Tanzanians💯💯💯. My sisters and brothers you have broken the norm and crushed this stereotype & you deserve praise 🤙🏾You know them days Tanzanian Education was one of the most sought after in East Africa. Many former African leaders either studied in Tanzania or Uganda. It was prestigious to be a TZ alumni 👩🎓. However, given the current events I just want to believe that standards must have dropped drastically or this extreme rate of unemployment has discouraged many and forced young people on streets. It’s only in TZ that 98% if it’s local celebrity is on instagram begging from the local struggling businesses for advertisements🙈. Only in TZ that women mock and publicly diss another woman’s child bearing struggles or inability to have children..cheii🤦🏾♂️ Only in TZ that women are defined by marriage and you see them fighting over men publicly, breaking families to please society and be rendered tough by other fellow women🤷♀️ It’s only in TZ that men are allowed to publicly abuse and re-abuse women emotionally and sexually and the society doesn’t rebuke such unacceptable behaviour because it’s complacent to this culture. It’s only in TZ that mother in-law and an unacknowledged prospective daughter in law would publicly insult and mock each other and drag their dirty linen in public without any shame. It’s only in TZ the so called local celebrities will fight for cheap stolen designs publicly and proudly expose screen shots of their discussions for the world to see in the name of levelling up or protecting their brands🙈🙈What went wrong in/with TZ 🇹🇿? Anyone with a different experience or views of this new TZ and it’s current generation? 😱I hope people like @jokatemwegelo, a stream of new and young leaders will start working towards restoring youth confidence, sorting unemployment and setting systems and measures to protect daughters and girls of Tanzania’s next generation. #goodday👌 - #regrann
Regrann from @hollietheblogger - So many people ask me If I get paid to promote @zarithebosslady the answer is NO. But let me tell you what I gain and why I waste my time..it’s her rare STORY‼️ Rare because, she chose HER and HER KIDS above EVERYTHING something many women have no courage to do‼️ My benefits might NOT be in monetary terms but it’s in a sense of hope and reassurance. Reassurance that in future our daughters will NEVER have to sit silent in abusive relationships just because the society expect them to. But because of Zari’s and many other women’s experiences they will have the strength to reclaim CONTROL and emancipate themselves‼️ Just like you, in Zari I see my mother, my sisters, my aunties & best friends. Women who have been cheated on, abused and emotionally & physically trampled on. Women whose happiness have been snatched by another woman. Homes and children left fatherless, loveless, poor and homeless just because of men’s selfishness. Despite all these evil, society and some ignorant women still believe it’s ok for a man to disrespect a woman‼️ Religion & culture teach us that women are beneath men & aren’t allowed to be their own person. When a woman rises up to be her own voice there is so much noise surrounding her strength. Therefore if someone say that DP actions were innocent & didn’t mean any harm, I say that is nonsense.
DP knew and still knows what he does. His actions were & are still emotionally abusive and were/are meant to break ZARI and leave her dependent and powerless just as he’s done to all his exes. DP has broken them all emotionally and left them powerless and dependent on him‼️If Zari had hold on to this nonsense this guy would have continued to demean her publicly to show her she’s worthless. These actions would have created fear and decreased her self esteem making her dependent on him‼️💯 So don’t expect the dirty *** to move on or find happiness anywhere else because she’s EMOTIONALLY broken and will sit in that rented flat as a side fuck for the rest of her life👌Compared to Zari who had a loving upbringing, these two are both as bad as each other because they both had a fucked up-bringing #revisitthispostinfuture #goodmorning - #regrann
Regrann from @open_kitchen2014 – Siku zote katika maisha yangu nilipenda sana kuitwa mama lakini kwa sababu ya uzito wangu ambao ulikuwa unanipa complications katika uzazi ilinichukua muda mrefu sana kufanikiwa mwaka 2010 nilibahatika kwa mara 2 kupata ujauzito baada ya hormone treatment za kufa mtu nilipigana na kubeba mimba mpaka almost 7 months lakini kwa bahati mbaya my pressure haikuwa controlled vizuri mtoto akafia tumboni nilikaa labour masaa 12 sitokaaa kuyasahau mpaka nikafanikiwa kujifungua and she was a girl almost 1.5kg tukamzika next to my mum . Baada ya mwezi nikapata bahati ya kwenda shanghai china kulikuwa a world expo kupitia Tan trade nikafunga mzigo wangu wa vinyago maana ilibidi nifanye mchaka mchaka nikapakia mzigo kwenye container pamoja na wenzangu na hapo sijapona vizuri ila Mungu ni mwema alinipa nguvu za ziada mwezi unaofuata nikapanga safari na kuondoka hakuna siku niliwahi kumwona mume wangu analia kama hiyo siku ananipeleka airport alilia sana kwa uchungu na kunionenea huruma kwamba sijapona vizuri then naenda kuhangaika nguvu zenyewe bado hazijarudi vizuri alinibembeleza sana nikamwambia bora niende nikapigane nifanye kazi kuliko kukaa kitandani na mawazo mimi naamini kila jambo Mungu anapanga kwa muda wake i am strong mentally na nitaweza tu wewe kuwa na amani.
Tulikuwa wafanya biashara wengi kidogo kama 10 hivi tulifika na kupokelewa vizuri na watu wa ubalozi wetu so ikabidi tu share apartment mimi akaniomba dada mmoja ni share nae alikuwa na mtoto wa kiume alikuwa kama na miaka 10 plus or 8 yrs hiyo apartment ilikuwa single room so mimi nikachukua bed wao wakasema watachukua sitting room because kuna more space na kuna sofa bed kubwa basi next day tukaanza kukimbizana kupanga mizigo kwenye banda letu kwakweli ilikuwaa kazi ngumu sana kwasababu mzigo ulikuwa umeshushwa almost 2km away ndio store ilipo vinyago ni vizito sana so inabidi uvitoe store uje kuvipanga kwenye banda na ukifika lazima uvipige kiwi yaani tulikuwa hoi na huwezi kuleta vyote maana nafasi ndogo so inabidi ulete kidogo kidogo na hapo sina nguvu za kutosha but najipa moyo i can do this ukizingatia hakuna kukaaa ukimaliza kupiga kiwi kupanga unasimama uuze bidhaa zako yaani ikifika jioni miguu yote imevimba unchoka hata kuongea huwezi.
Yule dada aliyeomba kukaa na mimi akawa so rude kwangu ghafla mara kanuna mara hataki mtoto wake akuongeleshe watu tunakaa same room tunfanya biashara same banda dah nikasema huu ni mtihani but mtoto was so kind akawa tukikutana nje ananiambia Aunty its ok my mum is like that msamehe tu he was a good boy mimi nikaamua kumpotezea na kuishi kivyangu nikiingia room kwangu kimya naoga nalala .
Nikiamka naenda store najazia mzigo kwenye stand yangu napiga kazi na hapo mchina hajui kiswahili wala kingereza biashara tunafanya kwa calculator yaani we acha tu unaongea mpaka unapasuka untoa mifano yote maana wote tunauza same product sasa wewe hapo inabidi uwe mjanja mteja akipenda kinyago chako usimwachie ukimwachia tu imekula kwako Aiseee nilipigana for 4 weeks none stop 7 days a week 12 hrs kila siku on my feet Mungu ni mwema niliuza mzigo wangu wote sikubakiza hata kitu kimoja nilimshukuru sana Mungu maana kuna wamasai wakubwa wananishinda urefu nilisema hawa kweli nitawauza but i had faith mteja alikuja akanipa bingo ndefu dah i was so happy nilipomaliza tu mzigo nikafunga sanduku langu huyooo nikarudi zangu dar mifuko imejaaaa nilikuwa nimechoka sana but i did it niliinvest kama dola 10,000 usd kila kitu mzigo plus all expenses nikapata kama 35,000 usd in 30 days i was so happy nilijiona mimi ni mshindi mkubwa sana i did not give up kabisa mazingira ya kazi na kuishi yalikuwa magumu but i stayed focus .
Miezi miwili baada ya kurudi nikajikuta nina mimba tena nikaanza hormone treatment pressure ikawa controlled then Mungu akanipa zawadi ya Baby Iman so leo nataka wewe usikate tamaaa no matter what NEVER GIVE UP BELEIVE IN YOURSELF AND BELEIVE IN GODS TIMING .
kila kitu Mungu anapanga kwa muda wake mitihani inakuja kila siku we need to stay focused
Watu tumetoka mbali sana kwenye haya maisha ya kupambana but Mimi sijawahi kukata tamaa💞 – #regrann
True Situation Analysis of Life.
After Secondary School..
All your classmates have gone in different directions in the world.
Some have completed universities and are now:
- Administrators, etc.
- Some are married,
- Some have given birth,
- Some are still searching and waiting on the Lord.
- Some are dead, don’t forget that too.
- And others are on the sick bed,
- Some are running their higher degrees: Masters, PHD, etc.
- Some haven’t even gained admission into the tertiary institution and may NEVER be able to.
- Some own companies,
- Some are now Directors and major shareholders in global companies.
But how do you feel
When you meet your classmates, and it seems like he/she has accomplished their dreams and you’re not yet close to yours? So many thoughts run through your mind, right?
First, you think God has not been fair to you. How about the ones you meet on the street wearing dirty cloths and still struggling for survival ? Do you get the same thoughts running through your mind? I guess, NO. Don’t forget too that some are already dead.
Somehow it feels natural to have that feeling of jealous for those mates who seem better off, but it is really unnecessary. There is no room for regrets,
We are all different and our paths to greatness are also not the same in distance. Some might have arrived earlier before you and some after you, but whatever level you find yourself in life,
Please keep trying to break limitations and move further. Celebrate the success of others, its an indication that yours too shall surely come.
Your friend buys a car now, be happy with him/ her. Remember when you’ll buy yours, theirs might not be the latest again. There’s no permanent champion, but current champion.
Life is not about competition, do not be in a race with anyone; remember, we may seem to be reading the same book but different chapters at different times.
Don’t let the passion in you kill the desire in you, keep it burning. What you’re passing through today; Write it down because one day the world would be ready to read it, they’ll become part of your success story.
There’s no height you cannot attain, believe in yourself, define your goals, recognize distractions and don’t stop striving. Spend time teaching yourself, because those things that mainly take people to the top are the things they devoted their time to develop.
Don’t be intimidated by your friend’s success, the sky is wide enough for birds to fly without touching one another. Value every little thing that God brings into our life, love God and obey Him. For with God, all things are possible.
*Now to those who are on top Never forget to give a helping hand to those who are down.Because Life is full of uncertainties; the one you pull up today, may be the one to hold your hands and prevent you from falling tomorrow*
A piece of advice there, food for thought
Share this to all your friends and let them realize that God has a purpose in their lives.
May God bless you.”
***Written by Mipigano Peter***
#RepostSave @cheyennebbostock with @repostsaveappI want my wife to be a wife, a mother, a friend, confidant, and much more! She will have everything she needs and more! If she wants to work, it will be her choice, but it will never be for the money. Only for sport. 😎 #MarriageGoals
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R.I.P the King of comedy, the Legend mzee Majuto! You have fought a good fight your legacy will forever live in Tanzania entertainment industry! You will be dearly missed with not only Tanzanians but many around East Africa and Africa in general! Rest in Eternal peace mzee wetu . Bwana alitoa na Bwana ametwaa jina lake lihimidiwe milele zote 🙏🏾
Labda ni-share kitu kidogo, kuna muda mwaka jana mwishoni nilikuwa so down nilitamani kukata tamaa na kila kitu kwenye maisha nilikuwa pia sijaelewa vizuri hatma yangu kwenye siasa. Nilikuwa kwenye mkutano mkuu wa chama kuna mdada mmoja kutoka Arusha akanikimbilia na kunikumbatia kwa nguvu sana alikuwa na mama mmoja hivi walikuwa wamekuja kupiga picha namimi. Huyo dada mdogo hivi akasema ananipenda sana sana na mimi ndio nilimfanya aingie kwenye siasa na akagombea nafasi kupitia mkoa wa Arusha akashinda!! Nikabaki natabasamu. Ikanipa nguvu kubwa ya kupiga moyo konde na kusonga mbele. Nilifurahi kuona kuna mdada nimeweza kumhamasisha na kumpa ujasiri wa kugombea. Unaweza ukawa unapitia mitihani migumu sana kwenye maisha yako lakini inakubidi usikate tamaa saa zingine kwasababu tu ya wale wanaokutegemea, wanaokuangalia na kuvutiwa nawe na kujifunza kupitia maisha yako. Lakini zaidi kwasababu safari ya mafanikio ina milima na mabonde, inabidi upambane na kiukweli hakuna mafanikio yasiokuwa na changamoto. Na kuna muda changamoto ndio haswa zinatengeneza “character” zetu. .
Kikubwa zaidi wakati wa changamoto tukumbuke kuwa wanyenyekevu, wenye kujishusha na kumuomba Mungu aendelee kutupa imani, hekima na busara ya kusubiri wakati wake. Tukumbuke Mungu hamtupi mja wake. Nawatakia Jumapili Njema. Nawapenda Sana. Ahsanteni 🙏🏽”
Ninafuraha sanaaaa! Hongera sana mdogo wangu Muheshimiwa Jokate Mwigelo kwakuteuliwa kua Mkuu wa Mkoa wa Kisarawe. Mwenyezi Mungu akuzidishie mibaraka yake, ukaongoze kwa hekima, na busara kwa faida ya wana Kisarawe na taifa la Tanzania kwa ujumla, zaidi ya yote utukufu wa Mungu ukapate onekana mbele za watu. Hongera sana tena sana! #WanawakeTunaweza
"Namshukuru Mungu kwa Kunipa Kibali cha Kumsaidia kazi Mhe, Rais, Dkt. John Pombe Magufuli katika Nafasi Ya Ukuu wa Wilaya ya Arumeru, Nakushuru Mhe, Rais, Dkt. John Pombe Magufuli pamoja na Viongozi wote Waandamizi wa Serikali kwa kunipa Jukumu Hili la kuwatumikia wananchi wa Meru.#WakatiWetu #MeruYetu #TanzaniaYetu" Naomba kutoa pongezi zangu za dhati kabisa kwa Mkuu wa wilaya mpya wa Arumeru Mh. Jerry Muro. Nakuombea uongozi bora wenye haki na tija kwa maendeleo ya wilaya ya Arumeru na taifa kwa ujumla!. Hongera sana!
Shout-out this this beautiful lady, humble soul, prayer worrier, woman who gave birth to me! Today is her birthday, namuombea mibaraka mingi zaidi ya hapa, Mungu azidi kumbariki, naomba uzingatie kuwa nimesema "naomba Mungu azidi kumbariki" kwa I naamini kuwa ameshabarikia kitambo ila naomba Mungu amzidishie isipungue hata moja! Namuombea afya njema na furaha tele. Happy birthday mama, I love you!
#RepostSave @hollietheblogger with @repostsaveapp Relationships are never going to be what you want, what you expect, what you need, what the society expects or what people will say. F*ck all that BS‼ Relationship is what YOU make of it. Relationship is what you dream of and wake up and put in time to get what YOU want. That’s why you see people investing in their spouses, children and partner and silly people want to snatch not knowing it’s someone’s effort for them to look the way they do🤦🏾♂️Relationship is failing, making mistakes, learning and growing together. Relationships is understanding beyond any reasonable doubt that NO ONE IS PERFECT‼ Relationship is about saying sorry, acknowledging your failures and forgiving. That’s the best relationship that’s the lasting relationship! 🍎 🍎🍎 For those who know about Tuckman’s theory well and good for those who don’t know I will sum up quickly. Tuckman believes that relationship is formed in 4 stages, forming, norming, storming and performing. Forming is when you meet someone for the first time and form a relationship. Norming is where you normalise stuff. You’ve known each other and now you go to get coffee together to normalise your relationship. Storming is where the PROBLEM IS‼ this is where hell breaks loose! Now that you have met, gone for a coffee you are now at a stage of knowing each other’s weaknesses‼‼🤙🏾 This is where relationships break, die and murder happens BUT good news is that if you have survived this stage you’ve triumphed because performing stage you are just enjoying each other and it will take a miracle to break up or YOU AGAIN👍 However to get to performing it takes time, years to be precise. So to sum up Zari and her mother in law have passed the storming stage that’s why you see she’s comfortable with Wema visiting. So just remember when you are going through challenges in your relationship which stage are you at! ...🤷♀️🤷♀️🙀🤦🏾♂️
Being a man isn’t about what’s in between your legs. It’s about what’s in your heart. Women respect leadership. If you’re not leading her anywhere, your relationship won’t go anywhere. It is time for us men to reclaim our positions as protectors and providers. Leader means “lead her”. 👌🏾
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Kwamasikitiko kwa niaba ya familia ya mzee Otieno Igogo tunatoa pole kwa mtoto / mdogo wetu Guka Otieno Igogo na familia ya mama yake kwa kufikwa na msiba mzito sana wa mama yao mzazi. Kama familia naomba mtambue kuwa tumeguswa sana ma msiba huu na dua na sala zetu zipo pamoja nanyi siku zote haswa wakati huu wa maombolezo. Bwana alitoa na Bwana ametwaa jina lake lihimidiwe milele zote. Kwafaida ya wasomaji wangu, marehemu ni mama yake na mdogo wangu Guka (pichani hapo akiwa na mimi kwa nyuma). Tumawaombea faraja toka kwa Mungu wakati huu wa msiba na siku zote. 🙏🏾
#RepostSave @hollietheblogger with @repostsaveapp There are four pictures that define @zarithebosslady for me! All these pictures paint her journey both physically and emotionally. @1. When she had lost Ivan and her mum and was sitting by Ivan’s graveside and was quietly dealing with Hamisa’s child scandal because the instagram was on fire 🔥 @2. When Hamisa decided to stalk her in Kampala during her annual white party☹️. @3' After dumping Baba tee. I had never prayed for anyone the way I prayed for this lady honestly. I was that 😔 and angry but helpless. @4. MY BEST PICTURE her transformation!! She took control and had swam to the other side of the river. Duh! 🙏🙏💯 😍. 🌹🌹 This lady has taught me, resilience, faith and self worth. In three words what has this lady taught you?