“The only advice you can get from a fool is a foolish advice.”

They told her to leave her husband because she’s worth more than him. They told her she’s beautiful and successful, that a woman of her standard deserves a better man with a better job income and personality . She listened to them and abandoned her home. Ts been over 7yrs since then and she’s still looking for a better man that matches her standard. The funniest part is that those friends who told her to leave her man are still with thier own husbands, doing everything possible to save their homes. Be very careful from who and where you take your relationship and marriage advice. The only advice you can get from a fool is a foolish advice. Anyone who recommends divorce or break up to you at every slight argument with your partner is an enemy that appears like friend.

A lazy man and a poor man are never the same. If a man doesn’t have today does not mean he will be lacking for life. As long as he’s GOD fearing, loving, caring and appreciative of your efforts you don’t have to worry yourself. There are only two ways to regret in life. BEFORE AND AFTER. Those who choose to regret later may regret for long. A woman who choose never to be patience for a while might ends up enduring for life. Marriage is not a bed of roses. Don’t get carried away by what you see, some marriages and relationship are just like a reality show of make believe.

Behind every beautiful family pictures is an untold story of agonies and pains. If you want a husband like Obama you must be ready to be a wife like Michelle. ~~~~~~~~ Akin Al-Ameen®™2017

 

***The Ladies picture has nothing to do with the story! Nawapenda kwani wanajitambua!***

Couple we like: Mr and Mrs Jackson Lyimo!

Palipo na Mungu siku zote pana upendo wa kweli!….Mr and Mrs Lyimo katika ubora wao! Wamependeza sana hata kipofu atashuhudia?? Mbarikiwe sanaaaaaa!

Mother and son moment: Mama Zion na King Zion

Ni picha ya muda kidogo lakini nimependa! Dina Marios na mtoto wake #King Zion handsome boy wa nguvu!…….Nimependa sana muonekano wao na maneno ya kwenye Tshirt! Wamependeza sana!……..Kuna video fulani inaonyesha Dina akimfundisha Zion kukaanga Kuku, nimependa sana! Dunia ya sasa maswala ya kupika siyo kazi ya Mwanamke peke yake! Hapana! Hata wanaume nao wanahitajika kujua kupika ili waweze saidiana na mke ndani ya nyumba 🙂 Dunia imebadilika! …..Mbarikiwe sana mama Zion na King Zion!

“Love is peace, not competition.”

“When you were using your own star you can’t afford a bike. When your wife bought you a new car, you and your family said she is spiritually using your star.

WHICH STAR???????? Never take a woman’s kindnesses for wickedness in life. If your wife’s income and financial status is affecting your confidence as a man means your self esteem is dead. Unless she’s very disrespectful and arrogant you don’t have a point. Stop making her life miserable just because she’s richer than you. If you cannot be happy for her means you were never in love with her. Love is peace, not competition. Whoever makes more money shouldn’t be a problem as long as everyone knows and respects each other’s role as a husband and wife.”~~~~~~~~~~~ Akin Al-Ameen®™2017

***Zari’s picture has nothing to do with the story***

“The only difference between a 50yrs old boy and a 25yrs old man is not the age but the brain”

“AGE has nothing to do with BRAIN. Growing UP & Growing OLD are never the same. Growing old is mandatory while growing up is optional by choice. The only difference between a 50yrs old boy and a 25yrs old man is not the age but the brain. Perhaps the reason why GOD put the nose, eyes, ears and mouth in our head is because HE doesn’t want them too far from the brain. Knowledge is different from WISDOM. Education and common SENSE are never the same. It’s a million times better to have common sense without education than to have education without common sense. Education is light while common sense is the switch. Power is nothing without control.Knowledge is common while wisdom is rare. When knowledge brags, happiness smiles. Humility is wisdom’s first child. Wise people don’t show off, only the fools display their foolishness. Avoid too much arguments even when you’re right. When arguments becomes a habbit it turns to disease. You can never be right all the time. Everybody has a right to their personal thinking, reasoning and opinions always respect it.

When people don’t see things the way you see it doesn’t make them a blind. If they don’t reason like you doesn’t make them a fool. The greatest foolishness is to think you know everything. No one will ever be considered wise or intelligent until he/she can wisely and peacefully deal with everybody’s level of understanding. “…….Akin Al-Ameen®™2017

**My nephew’s picture has nothing to do with the story!**

“If you aren’t prepared to carry her heels when she’s tired, then you shouldn’t be next to her when she’s in the spotlight”

DEAR MEN,

Sometimes it’s not just about opening the door to let her in first, any guy can do that when he knows that there’s people watching – just for the sake of the credit. Rather make sure her seat belt is on before you start driving. Sometimes it’s not about walking her down that isle where there’s a lot of people just because you want everyone to notice her and she’s looking fancy in her heels. You feel proud to be with her, yes but you also need to appreciate her effort. Walk her down a route that is comfortable with her, that’s less painful and less risk of her actually getting injured. If you aren’t prepared to carry her heels when she’s tired, then you shouldn’t be next to her when she’s in the spotlight. The strength of your bond should never be determined by the number of likes that your pictures with her actually receive on social media. You should never let the opinion of a friend determine whether you spend your life with her or not. We don’t often choose who we fall in love with, it just happens. You then realize loyalty is no longer an option. You begin to plan things in your head with her. All those love songs that you’ve always hated start to make sense to you. No matter how much of a tough guy you claim to be, she has tamed your soul without you actually noticing it. You begin to talk about her unknowingly to your friends, you think about her as soon as you wake up, during the day and before you sleep. When she starts to tear, you shouldn’t offer her something to wipe it off rather remain with her and let her know she’s not alone, hold and let her know that she has someone to fall back on. It’s not about only being with her on special occasions just to make her feel special in front of the world. It’s about being with her even when no one is watching. At the end of it all, it’s not about how much time she spends with you, it’s about the feeling you get every single time you see her name popping as a notification on your phone… Yes, it’s that same person you’re thinking about right now!

*** Credit to Get Inspired by T_Sha****

***Please note: Jojo’s pictures has nothing to do with the story. She’s cute and I love her thus why I shared her pictures***

Father and son moment: The Teshas’

Manhood! What an amazing picture of JT and his son! Just lovely!……mbarikiwe sana!

Family Feud: The Akothee Akothee’s family!

Kama mnavyo jua hii blog nilianzisha haswa kwa ajili ya ku-share furaha, mafanikio, changamoto, mahusiano (kati ya wazazi na watoto, wapenzi, marafiki) na njia za kutatua matatizo yetu ndani ya familia na nje ya familia! It’s all about inspirational stories and pictures / videos from our very own families, friends, and so forth! Mengine ni nyongeza tu!……..Basi jana nikiwa natazama Facebook yangu nikakutana na huu ugomvi kutoka kwa mwanamuziki mashuhuli kutoka nchini Kenya ajulikanaye kama #Akothee Akothee, nikasema ngoja ni share nanyi kwani unaweza fikiria kuwa ndugu wa “ajabu ajabu” wapo tu ndani ya familia yenu lakini ukweli watu wa namna hii au vituko vya namna hii vipo katika kila familia yenye UHAI! ………Angalia neno #uhai nimeandika kwa herufi kubwa hiyo ni kuonyesha msisitizo! Yani ninacho maanishi ni kwamba kitu chochote chenye uhai lazima kitakutana na changamoto mbalimbali ili kiendelee kuishi! Changamoto hizo zingine zaweza kuwa nzuri nyingine sinzuri lakini the bottom line kuwa utakutana nazo, and how you solve them hiyo ni juu yako wewe uliye vaa hicho kiatu kwani wewe ndio unajua ni wapi kinakubana!…….Haya enjoy the “drama” 🙂 🙂  

“POLITICS HAVE KILLED ME
one of my very close cousins , who I thought we love each other , came to me & told me that he is stuck with school fee for his daughter & he needs only 50k to enroll his daughter in form one , I gave him the money in a white envelope on a Friday , our first born brother drove him home , & on a Sunday! I recieved a call from home that he just declared that he wants to go for the same seat of mca that my mum is holding , & he used my money to buy people from my village to disgrace my mum , who has been there for the community , I had park afew of my cars in his office as I was looking for an office in Nairobi , when I came to pick the cars, they were already taken as a collateral, as they had not paid rent for months ,remember he wanted me to take over the office but I was too smart , remember he is the same causin I gave the contract to build my mums house, the battle is on , please be carefull of those who kiss you on the forest head & kiss you frequently! I have forgiven you I SAW YOUR SEVERAL CALLS BUT PLEASE! I HAD TO THROW AWAY THE PHONE TOGETHER WITH THE SIM CARD , GOD BLESS YOU IN YOUR FUTURE PLANS
I SHARE BECAUSE I CARE” Anyway, in the end always mshukuru Mungu kwa kila jambo. Kama ni Mkristu utaenda zako kanisani kusali na kutoa sadaka ya kushukuru kama unavyo mwona Akothee hapo na watoto zake akienda nao kanisani ?? Basi na kama wewe ni Muslim utaenda Msikitini kuswali, na kama wewe ni mpagani basi utajijua wewe na mashetani yako ??…….

**Undugu ni gharama ambayo haiepukiki**

“If you have to prove it means you really don’t have it. The grace of GOD doesn’t come with stress.”

“If you have to prove it means you really don’t have it. The grace of GOD doesn’t come with stress. If you must go through stress to get attention means you are fooling yourself. When GOD makes you a star you will never struggle to shine. If you have it flaunt it, but if you don’t have it then stop living in pain. Fashion police is equal to mental slavery. Stop going through stress just to be in vogue you can never be faster than life. The antics of today were once upon in vogue. Wear what looks great on you, those who loves you will accept you for who you are. Stop spending the money you don’t have to oppress the people who don’t really matter in your life. Those who truly matter don’t care as long as you’re not walking naked on the street. The only way to cut your coat according to your size is to know your real size. BE HONEST WITH YOURSELF. There’s no point in wearing expensive designer shoes and then you start walking like SHREK painfully in debts. The greatest form of slavery is a mental slavery, to be prisoner in your ownn soul while the greatest follishness is to fool yourself, like the blind man who pretends to be sleeping by closing his eyes. Stop trying to fit in to the status you don’t belong, that’s why shoes come in diffrent sizes. Friendship is not a do die. If you must beg people to accept you for who you are means your self esteem is dead. A low self esteem can be cured but there’s never a remedy for a NO self esteem. If their class is too high CHANGE YOUR SCHOOL. Age has nothing to do brain. Growing up and growing old are never the same. Growing old is a mandatory while growing up is optional by choice. Until you fully learn and understand the art of standing alone, you may not have any stand in life. “~~~Akin Al Ameen®™2017

***picha za  Mengi’s family has nothing to do with the story. Nimezipenda tu***

“Don’t underestimate your dream”- Jackline Mengi

Btw, lile tangazo la Amorette is one of very few best Ads in Bongoland! Kudos to Jackline and your team!

Don’t miss, the Mother and Child Gala April 22, 2017!

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Malkia wa nguvu 2017: Hongera sana Mwanaidi Mayowela, pongezi kwa Clouds TV!

Nilikuwa sijapata muda wa kuwapongeza washindi na waandaaji wa sherehe za “Malkia wa nguvu” hivyo naomba nichukue muda huu kuwapongeza!…………Kwakweli kama kuna kitu ambacho kimenivutia sana na kunigusa kwenye TV za Bongoland; basi ni hii sherehe ya Malkia wa nguvu. Sababu kuu yakunivutia nikuona kuwa waandaaji walichukua muda wao kufanya kazi ya kujua nani anastahili kupewa tuzo hiyo ambapo imekuwa tofauti sana na events /awards nyingi sana za “Wabongo” wengi kwani mara nyingi ni zakujuana juana. Yani authentication ya awards inakuwa haipo kabisa!!

Hongera sanaaaaaa Clouds TV mmenifanya niangalie hii event mara zote mlikuwa mkiirusha hewani! Natumaini na wengine wataiga mfano wenu. Pia hongera sana dada Mwanaidi Mayowela kwa kulitwaa taji kwani unastahili kwakweli! Ubarikiwe sanaaaaaa wewe na familia yako! Nawashindi wengine wote pia nanyi nawapongeza sana. Mungu azidi wabariki.

Malkia wa nguvu; Mchapa Kazi, Mbunifu,  Jasiri!

UN Youth Envoy

“Its time for young women to showcase by example our ability to lead and potential to deliver for all youth &that we’re not too young to lead From Tanzania I and my sister @victoria.mwanziva have declared interest to run for #UNYouthEnvoy post. Please support us. If you are a youth-led or youth organisation, you can nominate us through link in our Bio. Our win Is your win”~~~Rebecca Gyumi Wishing you all the best, najua lazima mmoja wenu atatutoa kimaso maso!

In loving memory of Ontlametse Phalatse

Ontlametse ni mtoto alikuwa ana ni-inspire sana! Nilikuwa namfatilia sana kwa Instagram, nilivutiwa sana na inspirational speech zake na jinsi wazazi wake walivyo mlea na kumjengea confidence kubwa sana ya kujikubali jinsi alivyo, kujiamini kuwa anaweza na anastahili kuishi kama wengine, na kujipenda! Nimeguswa sana na kifo chake, may her soul rest in peace! ……Ee Mungu naomba uniongezee ujasiri niweze ku-overcome all my fear and conquer them with greatness just like Ontlametse, Amen! 

Cheka urefushe maisha

Cheka urefushe maisha!

“Only a black person would go to a butchery and buy bones and only to complain that ‘these bones got no meat’.

My brother you said you want bones,stop being emotional,you need deliverance and 365 bottles of anointing oil.” -Tusiime

“Tusimame pamoja kama Watanzania kupambana na uovu kwenye jamii” -ShyRose Bhanji

CHADEMA HAINA HATI MILIKI YA KUWA UPINZANI PEKEE NCHINI. -Peter Sarungi

 Nilipokuwa natafakari maamuzi ya kwenda kugombea Spika wa bunge niligundua kuwa kama wewe ni mchezaji mzuri wa mpira wa miguu na unajiamini basi si lazima usajiliwe na timu kubwa kama Simba, Yanga ana Azam ili ucheze ligi kuu, kumbe unaweza kucheza ligi kuu hata kupitia Mbao Fc, Ndanda Fc, majimaji au hata Costal Union. Kinachotakiwa ni siku timu yako ikikutana na Simba ama Yanga hakikisha unafunga walau goli moja tu hata kama wao wataifunga timu yako kwa magoli 10. Hilo goli lako wataondoka nalo likiwa na jina lako. Hii ni bora zaidi kuliko kusajiliwa Simba ama Yanga halafu ukakaa benchi kwa sababu wachezaji ni wengi. Nchi yetu ni nchi ya demokrasia na nchi yenye kufunya siasa ya vyama vingi. Kuwepo kwa wingi wa vyama vya siasa ni moja ya tendo la demokrasia tunayo ikubali kila siku. Tanzania kuna vyama vya siasa zaidi ya 25 vyenye usajili wa kudumu vinavyo ruhusiwa kushiriki katika siasa zote za nchi. Ni kwa bahati mbaya Chama tawala hakijawahi kupoteza kushika dola huku vyama vya upinzani viki badilika badilika katika kuwa na wafuasi na nguvu za kisiasa hadi kupewa kijiti cha kuitwa chama kikuu cha upinzani. TLP, NCCR Mageuzi na CUF zimewahi kuwa na nguvu katika chaguzi zilizopita na kuwa chama kikuu cha upinzani wakati huo vyama kama Chadema Tanzania vilikuwa vipo chini sana na vilikuwa havijulikani kwa Watanzania walio wengi. 

Leo Bunge la Tanzania lina vyama 5 vyenye uwakilishi Bungeni huku CHADEMA kupitia muunganiko wa UKAWA wakiwa ni chama kikuu cha upinzani. Ukawa inabebwa na wabunge kutoka CUF, CDM na NCCR huku ACT ikiwa iko peke yake lakini katima kapu la upinzani ikiwa na haki zote kikatiba na hata kwa sheria za uchaguzi na za bunge.

Kumetokea taharuki kidogo juu ya nafasi za wabunge wa Afrika Mashariki hasa kwa upande wa vyama vya upinzani. Mnyukano ulikuwa ni kati ya UKAWA na ACT wazalendo juu ya nafasi 3 za upinzani. Mnyukano huo umeendelea hadi yalipo patikana maamuzi kutoka kwa Speaker juu ya mgawanyo.

Kilicho nisikitisha katika mnyukano huo wa hoja ni baadhi ya makada wa CDM kwa makusudi ama kwa kutojua kuhamisha mjadala wa kibunge na kuuweka kwa wananchi huku wakitoa lawama, matusi, kejeli na hata dharau kwa hoja iliyo tolewa na ACT kupitia mwakilishi wake Mh. Zitto Zuber Kabwe iliyotaka ACT wapate nafasi ya kugombea ubunge wa Afrika Mashariki. 

ZZK ametukanwa sana na baadhi ya makada wa mtandaoni wa CDM huku wakiamini wao ndio wapinzani pekee walio teuliwa na Mungu kuja kuwasemea watanzania. Mimi niwakumbushe tu makada wa CDM kwamba hata wao walikuwa kama mchicha kipindi CUF wakiwa Upinzani imara, Pia wakumbuke hata wao hawana HATI MILIKI ya kuwa UPINZANI pekee nchini. Wasikasirike, kubeza na kupinga wanapoona mbegu zingine za upinzani zinapo chepua kwa kasi, ipo siku mtahitaji ushirika wao ili kufikia malengo yenu.

By the way, inasemekana hata mgogoro wa CUF unawafurahisha sana CDM kuliko CCM, Maana wapo tayari na wamefungua milango kwaajili ya kuwasajili akina Seifu, Mtatiro na wengine pindi chama hicho kikifutwa kama alivyo sema Lissu kwenye mahojiano ya Azam… Daah kufa kufaana.

Msijisahau mkalewa kwa sifa na ubinafsi, ni kweli umoja ni nguvu lakini ni umoja wenye maslahi sawiha ulio Imara na wenye Nguvu.

Wasalam.

SIMBA ANAPO LAZIMISHWA KULA MIWA. -Peter Sarungi

Utani wa jadi huwa una raha na karaha zake. Ushindi wa timu yangu Yanga jana haukunishawishi kuandika chochoye juu yao maana naijua timu yangu hasa katika dakika za lala salama kama hizi. Lakini kufungwa kwa watani zangu Simba kumenishawishi kuandika post hii japo kuwasabahi kwa ushindani wao. Moja ya uchawi katika soka ni historia. Hata makampuni ya bahati nasibu (kubeti) huwa wanatumia historia katika kuweka rate, mara nyingi wanaweka rate ndogo kwa timu iliyopata ushindi kwa wingi huku wakiweka rate kubwa kwa timu iliyopata kushindwa mara nyingi pale timu hizo zinapo kutana. Lakini pia wanaangalia historia ya michezo hiyi ugenini na nyumbani.

Historia inaonesha timu ya simba imekuwa ikipata taabu sana wanapo kutana na Kagera Fc hasa wanapo safiri hadi bukoba. Simba imekuwa ikipata matokeo ya ovyo sana kama ya leo ya kufungwa bila huruma. Hawa wakulima wa miwa wamekuwa wakiwalisha Simba miwa bila kupenda huku mabingwa watetezi tukianza kuwasha taa za hatari kwa watani zetu juu ya Ubingwa wa mwaka huu 2017. 

Peter Sarungi (The next time)

Matokeo ya watani zangu yawe dedication kwa marafiki zangu wa zaidi ya miaka 20 iliyopita ambao ni watani zangu akiwemo Godlove Mpandiko, Nelly Peter Namasambillo na Swaleh Madjapa.

Lakini pia matokeo haya yakwende kwa ndugu zangu wa damu waliokuwa kwenye kikao wakiongozwa na mwenyekiti Mzee Busara, Sabasaba Sarungi, Daniel Sarungi, Nyakwar Omwami Bonnie Sarungi, Mourice Leonard Sarungi, Hamisi Sarungi na wengine wanao shabikia Simba.

Niwakumbushe kuwa kilele kinamilikiwa na Yanga. Asanteni sana.

Matukio katika picha!

Hizi picha naweka tu ili ufurahishe macho kwani najua saa zingine unahitaji break ya kusoma articles  😉 😉 …….. Ni picha zilipigwa kwenye mji wa Beijing, China, kwenye picha nipamoja na Sir O.O. Igogo na binti yake Advocate Janeth Igogo (Mrs Nyagilo), na Mwanasheria Tarimo. Hii ni moja ya board meetings ambazo wanazifanya kila mwaka na wamekuwa wakikutana hivyo kwa muda wa miaka 10 sasa. Na mara nyingi huwa wana alternate kati ya Tanzania na China. Mwaka jana ilifanyika Tanzania soma ? HolleyPharm …… Haya enjoy the pictures