Some girls are so used to being used that they can’t even receive love or compliments without thinking there is a hidden agenda of sex behind it. To sleep with or take advantage of such girls is easy because they are vulnerable. But a real challenge for a man is taking one of these girls who has been abused verbally, sexually, or not had a father in her life and then loving her unconditionally and building her up and making her feel like she is the most special girl in the world. Some girls just need to be led to the mirror mentally and emotionally and shown their true worth and beauty. Fellas, Learn to build such women up without asking for something in return. They need someone to show them the Jesus type of love. No strings attached. The biggest temptation i face on a daily basis comes from broken girls who come looking for help. Many of these girls have not had a father figure in their life who loved them and protected them unconditionally. Many of them have never seen what real love from a man can be like. All they have known is men who have abused them verbally, sexually or emotionally. So when they come looking for help, many of these girls are shocked when they notice i give them my help unconditionally. Most feel like they ought to give something in return. They are suprised to discover that there are men out there who want nothing from women except to build them up. Not all men are crooked. Not all men are sexual perverts. Pastors and other counsellors please don’t take advantage of vulnerable women who are wounded. Don’t slaughter them but lead them to Christ for inner healing. Let’s be the man and change the world.

Source: Get-inspired by Ti-Sha