The journey to motherhood: Congratulations Nambua Cassandra!

Alpha Igogo -bloggerWapendwa wasomaji wangu, naomba niwaletee tukio zuri sana la safari ya kuzaliwa mtoto Prince. Ni tukio ambalo limekuwa recorded na shemu ya hiyo video imeonyeshwa na mama mzazi kwa kupitia account yake ya Instagram! ……….. Kwanza nianze kwa kusema hongera sana kwa Nambua kwa kujaliwa mtoto wa kiume! Mungu amlinde akuwe katika kimo na hekima. Akampendeze Mungu kwanza na kisha wanadamu! Karibu katika chama cha wakinamama/ wazazi! Safari hii ni ndefu, yenye changamoto nyingi lakini ni tamu mno! Nasema nitamu mno kwani kama kuna kitu nime furahia kwa 100% ย na bado naendelea kufurahia with all the pride is being a mother! Lakini kila siku namrudishia sifa na utukufu kwakwe Mungu maana bila yeye hakuna litakalo wezekana! ……..kwakweli nimependa sana hii familia ya Mr and Mrs Mlaki! Nimependa sana their spirit, wako so open and together, inapendeza sana mfano mzuri sana wa kuigwa katika jamii! Hii dunia imeshabadilika (21st century) kuna mambo mengi ya karne 19 inabidi kuyaacha maana siyo tu jamii haiipi nafasi bali pia hata technology haivitaki! Kwa mfano katika karne hii 21 n* kitu cha kawaida kabisa katika jamii zilizo ona mbele mama na kijana wake kuwa ndani ya chumba cha upasuaji wakimuangalia binti/ dada akileta kiumbe kingine duniani! Wakati jambo kama hilo bado linaweza likawa tatizo katika sehemu nyingi za Africa! ……….. Maelezo yote ambayo yameambatana na picha yameandikwa na Nambua ambaye ni mama mzazi wa Prince! ย #NaniKamaMama.ย Yesterday 4th June, 2017 was one of my big day osn earth. Nimepata experience ya ajabu sana katika maisha yangu. Mwenyenzi Mungu Muumba Mbingu na Nchi amenijalia kujifungua mtoto wa kiume 9.25am South African time. HIYO NI FIRST FOTO ALIPOTOKA TUMBONI KWANGU, ALIPOTOLEWA KAANZA KULIA. Ilikuwa sala yangu kujifungua mtoto wa kwanza DUME. I’M OFFICIALLY A MOTHER. Jana usiku sijalala kabisa nimekaa natoa macho, namshangaa huyu mtoto. Bado siamini kama ni mtoto wangu, namuona stranger, mgeni flani hivi. Na sikujua watoto wanatoka mbali hivi. Heshima kwa wamama wote waliozaa.ย ๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜™. Napenda kuwashukuru wote waliokuwa na mimi katika hii safari yangu. Nikisema nitaje majina mengi sitamaliza. Surely it was a long trip. My brother @laumlaki huyu ni commando aliingia theatre aka record tukio zima la Cesarean operation na mama yangu @lwisemanka amempokea mjukuu wake. Lord Jesus I give you glory. In Christ I have made it to God be the Glory. Yeremia 29:11 HAKIKA MAWAZO YA BWANA NI MEMA JUU YANGU, Yeremia 33:3…… BWANA AMENIONYESHA MAMBO MAKUBWA MAGUMU NISIOYAJUA.

Hapo niko theatre (operation room) najindaa nimlete mwanangu duniani. Nacheka cheka tu naona wanachelewa……๐Ÿ˜€. Niko na mama na mdogo wangu @laumlaki paparazzi. Hili tukio kwangu ni very historical considering mahala nilipotoka. Nilisema Im going to record kila kitu wakati najifungua niweke ktk dvd. Namshangaa Bwana Yesu na matendo yake makuu juu yangu. Nawashukuru sana MEDICLINIC, SANDTON. Doctors & Nurses are very friendly na makini ktk kazi. Biblia inasema katika torati: Mateso ya mwenye haki ni mengi, lakini BWANA humponya nayo yote.๐Ÿค”๐Ÿค”๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜ƒ Amen.ย 

My mother @lwisemanka, my mdogo @laumlaki and my photographer ms melody, hawa nilikuwa nao theatre. Walitaka waone ceserean section inavyokuwa, yani kila kitu na wawe wa kwanza to see my baby. Nimewaita mashilawadu wangu.๐Ÿ˜€๐Ÿ˜€๐Ÿ˜€๐Ÿ˜€…….. love you all. Kweli watoto wanatoka mbali sana. Halafu hili zoezi nimelipenda sana la kuingia theatre na familya yako au photographer wako.

Hapo nimetoka kutoa mtoto tumboni naumwa sana, nimezinduka. Koo limekauka kwani niliwekewa oxygen. Yani kuitwa mama aisee ni kazi! Nafundishwa kunyonyesha naona ni adhabu halafu siamini kama nitaitwa mama. Shikamoo mwanamke. Naomba wanaume wawaheshimu wale wanawake waliozaa wakawafanya wakaitwa wababa. Hii experience ni ya ajabu. Wamama shikamooni. Kuanzia leo simgombezi tena mama yangu……. Biblia inasema ZABURI 34:19-21 MATESO YA MWENYE HAKI NI MENGI LAKINI BWANA HUPONYA NAYO YOTE.HUIHIFADHI MIFUPA YAKEย MY FIRST BORN,UZAO WANGU WA KWANZA…… BWANA MUNGU AKASEMA HAKIKA NITAKUBARIKI NAE AKANIBARIKI NA HUYU KIUMBE KATIKA JINA LA YESU …………… PRINCE THAT HIS NAME.NI PRINCE MTOTO WA MFALME WA WAFALME, JEHOVAH RAPHA. TODAY HE IS ONLY 15DAYS OLD NA AMEANZA TO POZI TAJIRI MTOTO. I LOVE YOU MY SON. I LOVE YOU. HUYU KIUMBE NIMEMJUA SIKU 15 ZILIZOPITA ILA NAMPENDA KULIKO VIUMBE VYOTE DUNIANI…….๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜ย MY LIFE HAS CHANGED 100%. #nambuacassandra @baby.mix.baby.ย 

Me and My baby PRINCE that his name (tajiri mtoto)…… hapo yuko 12days old๐Ÿ˜€๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜‡๐Ÿ˜˜. Na nilipokuwa natafakari๐Ÿค”๐Ÿค” siku zangu duniani, Nae Mungu akasema na mimi akaninong’oneza MWANANGU NEEMA YANGU YATOSHA JUU YAKO. MGHH SIKUAMINI……. ILA LEO NIMEIONA NEEMA YAKE KWA KUNIZAWADIA MTOTO WA KIUME SAWASAWA NA HAJA YA MOYO WANGU. (Heart desires) ๐Ÿ˜‡๐Ÿ˜‡๐Ÿ˜‡ Neno la Mungu linasema (Torati) Zaburi 37:4-6 Nawe utajifurahisha kwa BWANA. Naye atakupa haja za moyo wako. Umkabidhi BWANA njia yako, Pia umtumaini, naye atafanya. Ataitokeza haki yako kama nuru. Na hukumu yako kama adhuhuri……. #nambuacassandra #huumchezohauhitajihasira

***HONGERA SANA NAMBUA CASSANDRA***

How can I attract my Boaz? A) Close your legs. Open your heart!

My babybrother na wifi yangu ๐Ÿ’–

Wataalamu wanakwambia muonyeshe kuwa you are a team player without any benefits attached then you will see kama hajakufanya uwe Malkia wake wanguvu! ………. Ngoja niwadokezee kidogo, this is exactly what happened kati yangu na Muhaya! Kwani unafikiri hiki kiburi cha kusema “haachwi mtu hapa” kinatoka wapi? Pure love will never come back void people!!ย ๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜ I will let him aje awaelezee siku moja leo nimewaonjesha tu. ๐Ÿ˜€๐Ÿ˜€๐Ÿ˜€ ย “Help a man build his empire without giving him sex and watch him marry you. #Helpmateย #close your legs.Open your heartย SOMA BAADHI YA COMMENTS:ย 

Step-Dads, Boyfriends and Other REAL Dads Take One For the Team

Bado tupo kwenye moment au mwezi wa kusherekea na kuwaenzi baba zetu! Baba si yule aliye kuzaa na kukubwaga bila kujua nini kinaendelea kwenye maisha yako au hata kama yupo hachukulii swala la malezi yako kama jambo muhimu katika majukumu yake! Ili uwe baba kamili lazima ushiriki katika malezi ya mtoto kwani hayo ndiyo yatakayo mfanya awe kiumbe kilicho kamilika hapa duniani. Mtoto si kumpa pesa tu! Mtoto anatakiwa kufunzwa manners na life values ili aweze kuishi vyema hapa duniani!…….Sasa kuna wanaume wengi ambao wanalea watoto wa wanaume wengine kwa viwango ambavyo huwenda hata baba zao halisi wasingeweza kufanya hivyo lakini inatokea watoto au jamii haitambui mchango wao kitu ambacho kinasikitisha sana! ย Hii article imeandikwa na blogger mmoja aishie Marekani (Sarah Maizes) ambaye ni a single mama na watoto wake kwa 100% wamelela na mwanaume mwingine ambaye si baba yao mzazi. Lakini pamoja na mambo yote anayowafanya bado watoto wake hawaoni umuhimu wake na kumpa heshima yake kama baba!My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 8 years and he has helped me raise all three of my kids. My oldest is 15 and my twins are 12 and he taught each of them how to ride their bikes, how to rollerblade, and assisted each of them in building kick-ass volcanos for Science Lab. He listens to all of their problems, goes to all of their games, and buys them frozen yogurt with extra toppings when they lose. He even talked my son through his first little broken heart. He enforces chores, doles out consequences, and is all-too-often the target of the tweenage, hormone-fueled frustrations that rage under our roof. We’re a team. But, nobody thinks of him as “dad.”ย When my kids’ friends come over to our house they ask, “Is that your dad?” and my kids say “No. That’s just Scott.” Invariably, the friend shrugs and gives a confused wave before moving on down the hall towards the XBox. And you know what? I feel a little bad for him every time they do. Not because they should call him Dad – we both agree they shouldn’t. They already have a dad they see on Sundays and for dinner once a week. But after giving up eight years of his own life to be whined at, puked on and giving up his only chance to have his own kids to raise mine (and somebody else’s) with me, he deserves to be recognized as something more than “just Scott.”

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“Asante mume wangu kwa kunipenda na kunijali….!” Mrs. Maria Makonda

Wiki iliyopita niliwaelezea sakata la mke wa ย TV icon and comedian Mrs Bill Cosby a.k.a Camille Cosby jinsi alivyojitokeza saa za mwisho bega kwa bega na mumewe huku aki-smile kwa raha zake! Kama ulipitwa basi soma ๐Ÿ‘‰๐Ÿ‘‰ย MrsBillCosby

Basi leo tena na waletea maneno aliyo andika Mke wa Mkuu wa Mkoa wa Dar es salaam Mrs Maria Makonda au kwa jina maharufu ni โ€œMrs Daudi Bashiteโ€ ๐Ÿ˜€๐Ÿ˜€ hizi social media ni shidaaa! Btw, kabla sijaendelea naomba ieleweke kuwa sina chuki na Makonda wala familia yake japo simuungi mkono kwa mambo aliyo yafanya kama kiongozi! Hata hivyo mimi sio mwana siasa wala sio mwanaharakati wa siasa hivyo hayo ninawaachia wataalamu wa mambo hayo ku-deal nayo! Hii blog is all about love, spirituality, family, friendship, relationships, sisterhood, brotherhood, parenthood, empowerment, na mambo mengine kama hayo ambayo yana inspire jamii! Kama kuna mtu anataka siasa tafadhali usisite kwenda ย kwa Mange Kimambi, Peter Sarungi, ย na Lemutuz! Haya back to our topic! โ€ฆโ€ฆโ€ฆ.. Juzi kati kwa kupitia account yake ya Instagram Mrs Makonda aliandika maneno haya โ€œAsante sana mume wangu kwa kunipenda na kunijali. Mungu akutunzeโ€! ๐Ÿ‘‡๐Ÿ‘‡ Haya maneno anayaandika baada ya scandals zote ambazo zimemuandama mumewe kuanzia sakata la vyeti feki, vita feki ya madawa ya kulevya, na mengine mengi bila kusahau kuhusishwa na scandal za kuwa na mahusiano ya kimapenzi na muigizaji Kajala Masanja pamoja na Agnes Masogange! โ€ฆโ€ฆ.. Mimi nasema waacheni watu na ndoa zao kwani hakuna mtu anaejua sababu haswa zinazowafanya wanawake wengi wasimame na waume zao hata pale ambapo watu wengi wanaona ni wakati wa kumuacha โ€œhigh and dryโ€! Sijui ni kwasababu ya kiapo #Kitakatifu. au mapenzi au ni huruma tu ambayo mwanamke ameumbwa nayo! Simnaona hata mimi hapa bado nimesimama kidedea na my Muhaya yani hapa ni Kigoma mwisho wa reli ย ๐Ÿ˜€๐Ÿ˜€๐Ÿ˜€ ย kama nawaona wapika majungu sura zao zinavyo pooza ๐Ÿ˜ท๐Ÿ˜ท Haachwi mtu hapa poleni sana mtahachika nyie na ndoa zenu fake za Facebookย ๐Ÿ™†๐Ÿ™†ย #StandByYourMan #GodHelpUs

Kwa wazazi mlioko Dar tafadhali usikose #Mtoto Day Out

EVENT: ย  ย Mtoto Day Out..

TAREHE: 9/7/2017ย 

MAHALI: Msasani Beach Club (kawe jeshini)

UMRI: ย  ย  ย  ย  1_13
MUDA: ย  ย Saa nne asubuhi mpaka saa kumi na mbili jioni.ย 

KIINGILIO: Mtoto Tsh 5,000 mzazi bure.
Imedhamimiwa na @nmbtanzania kupitia mtoto akaunti.
Imeandaliwa na Dina Marios kupitia Mtoto Events.
Mtoto day out………Ni bonge la outing kwa mtoto wako.Michezo mbalimbali ya watoto,zawadi mbalimbali zitatolewa kwa watoto,mashindano ya kuchora,kupaka rangi,kucheza,kujibu maswali,mpira wa miguu wa beach,volley ball,kuvuta kamba n.k
#MtotoDayOut #MtotoEvents
#mtotoakaunti #mtotomagazine

Mtaarifu na mwingine baba, mama na mlezi.

Quote for today!

Nimependa hii picha ya Kiki na baba yake. Naamini sio mimi tu naweza sema kwa mara ya kwanza kumuona baba yake mzazi Kiki. Mara nyingi nimekuwa namuona na mama yake pamoja na ndugu zake wengine. Wanafanana haswa pua. …….Wamependeza sana ๐Ÿ˜ย 

QUOTE FOR TODAY!….
โ€œA man’s worth is measured by how he parents his children. What he gives them, what he keeps away from them, the lessons he teaches and the lessons he allows them to learn on their own. Thankfully, there is no measurement great enough to measure the worth of my father.โ€โ€• Lisa Rogers

Happy Father’s Day to all fathers out there!

My International brother-in-law with his family-squad! So beautiful! Wishing you and my other brother in laws and all other fathers around the world a very Happy Father’s Day! Mungu azidi wabariki sana and thank you for carrying the title with respect and gratitude! Happy Father’s Day mashemeji zangu wote! Nawapenda sana!

Happy Father’s Day to the best father in the world!

#TBS January 2010, KekoJuu,
2012, Battle Creek, Michigan

Najua ninaye Baba wa Mbinguni ambaye ananilinda, kunijali, na kunipenda sana. Lakini ni haki kusema kuwa kama asingenipa huyu mzee kuwa baba yangu hapa duniani, sijui leo hii mimi Alpha ningekuwa wapi! It’s hard to have a child like me! Mimi ni mtu ambaye I can speak my mind, but not so good nikiwa nimekwazika ๐Ÿ™Š๐Ÿ™Š Despite of all, my father has been there for me hata kishingo upande ๐Ÿ˜…๐Ÿ˜…ย  ย Yes, he is my friend and my “best enemy”! He has assured me with unconditional love! Yani kama amenikwaza hata siku moja huwa sisiti kumwambia hata kama kwa hasira nitasema without any fear of ooh! My baba will never talk to me again! And guess what, my dad is just the coolest dad in Africa nasema Africa kwani siyo tamaduni ya wazazi wa Kiafrika kukubali pale anapokosea na kuomba msamaha kwa mwanae / wanae! Baba yangu akiona kweli alikosea basi huwa hasiti hata siku moja kuomba msamaha!

2015, Missouri city, Texas

And for that I salute you and celebrate your day Sir. O.O.Igogo. ……..Nakupenda sana baba yangu na nakuombea maisha marefu sana. Happy Father’s Day baba Alpha!

Wema Sepetu na bibi yake

Wow! Kumbe Wema ni copy & paste ya bibi yake! Sina huwakika kuwa ni bibi upande upi lakini nadhani ni bibi upande wa mama maana naona rangi ya ngozi zimefanana sana. Unajua inaleta raha sana kama tunakuwa tunapata nafasi ya kuona the other side of family’s ya the so called “stars” wa Bongoland! Sio kula bata tuu au kuweka picha na mashoga wa mujini!………..Mnajua nani natamani kumuona ๐Ÿ™†๐Ÿ™† mama yake mzazi Jackqueline Mengi! For some reason I’m curious to see how she looks like and maybe hear her voice!…..anyway Wema kapendeza sana na bibi!

Kheri na furaha ya siku ya wakina baba duniani!

Baba Akinyi na Akinyi wake ๐Ÿ˜

Kwa kutumia hii picha ya cousin-brother wangu na binti yake, naomba niwatakie kheri na furaha ya siku ya wakina baba duniani ย kwa wakina baba wote wenye mapenzi mema kwa watoto wao! Hii ni maalum kwa cousin-brothers zangu wote, kaka zangu wote wakubwa kwa wadogo, na marafiki zangu wote! Mungu azidi kuwapa hekima na busara pamoja na mapendo ya kuweza kufanya kazi yenu kikamilifu! Happy Fatherโ€™s Day! ๐Ÿ˜˜

Let me be……….!

Life is too short let Alpha be Alpha! Yani mimi kama I could have things my ways nafikiri ningekuwa na cheka tu kama #Zezeta …….Mpendwa, Usipoteze muda wako kusikitika kwanini yamekukuta yalio kukuta! Wewe sema kama yasingenikuta mimi nani mwingine anayestahili? ย Mshukuru Mungu kaamua kukutumia wewe kama chombo cha kufikisha ujumbe wake kwa watu / duniani! Mungu anajua you are strong enough to handle the stormy weather ndio maana akakupitisha njia hiyo! Maybe alijua kama kila kitu kingekuwa rahisi kwako basi usingejua kusema Asante Mungu! ย Yani Mungu asingekua na nafasi katika maisha yako! Shukuru, na furahia maisha yako hata kama kuna magumu gani unapitia. Kama unataka kulia nenda sehemu ambayo upo mwenye iwe chumbani au chooni wewe nenda kajifungie ulie wee tena lia sana kwa nguvu zote kwani kulia ni dawa ya kuondoa sumu ya hasira mwilini! Ila baada ya kulia hakikisha unafuta machozi yako na kuendelea na maisha yako kwani siku zetu hapa duniani zimehesabiwa na hazipo nyingi sana! Muulize Mungu, haya, katika hili unataka nijifunze nini ambacho sikuweza kujifunza mara ya kwanza! Maana wengine huwa tuna miss the core of the lesson na kwakuwa Mungu anatupenda sana basi naye hutupatia mapigo / maonyo hata mara tatu au zaidi mpaka pale tutakapo elewa somo! Basi muulize akufungulie ili usipate pigo lingine tena………..Life is too short let me be who I’m! Alpha is all about love and love is her religion! Love me or hate me I care less about you as my birthday is just around the corner and “Life” begins at 40!……Love you!

The Mboni show: Tanzania Day 2017, Dallas, Texas (Tanzania Festival Day)

Pata kuona sehemu nyingine ya Tanzania Day 2017 iliyofanyika Dallas, Texas. ย Hii ilikuwa sehemu ya pili ya event yote. Kama nilivyo waambia siku zilizopita kuwa event hii ya Tanzania Day imegawanyika katika sehemu kuu tatu (3) …..1) Twiga-Networking Reception 2)Tanzania Day Festival na 3) Tanzanite-Gala Night…………. Kama ulipitwa na sehemu ya kwanza tazama hapa ๐Ÿ‘‰ ๐Ÿ‘‰ ย TanzaniaDay2017

“Mimi nimejifunza kutonung’unika sana kwa kila linalotokea”Jacqueline Mengi

Umeshawahi kulia na kusononeka kwa mfano kwasababu ya kukosa maelewano na mwenzi wako mpaka ikapelekea kuachana halafu baada ya muda kupita ukagundua kuwa kilichotokea ilikua ni njia ya kukufungulia mlango mpya wa baraka? Kama binaadamu tungekua tunajifunza kutokana na historia hata kama sio yetu binafsi tungeepusha masikitiko mengi sana. Mimi nimejifunza kutonung’unika sana kwa kila linalotokea maana kila nililoliona ni tukio baya baada ya muda niliona jinsi ambavyo ilikuwa ni njia ya kuruhusu baraka ziingie kwenye maisha yangu.Everything happens for a reason therefore be grateful for everything. Asubuhi njema…..

Camille Cosby hatimaye bega kwa bega na mumewe!

Mimi naamini kuzaliwa “mwanamke” ni mtihani tosha, lakini kuwa mke unayebeba jukumu lako la kuwa mke kikamilifu ni mtihani mgumu na mzito zaidi! Ukiwa umekula kiapo kile “KITAKATIFU” kuwa KATIKA TABU NA RAHA yani utakuwa unajifikiria mara mbili mbili na kujikuta unasimama hata pale usipo taka! Haya ndio yalio mkuta Mrs Bill Cosby a.k.a Camille Cosby! Baada ya ukimya na kujificha kwa takribani miaka 3, finally amejitokeza saa za mwisho bega kwa bega na mumewe ambaye anashitakiwa kwa makosa ya ku-drug wanawake na kufanya nao mapenzi bila hidhini yao ( sex assault). ย As I said before being a woman is not a joke but I can only imagine how hard it is to be a fully committed wife!!

Sidhani kama Camille Cosby angekuwa na uwezo wa kujificha forever asinge fanya hivyo kwani aibu na fedhea ambayo mumewe amempa ni kubwa mnooooo! Angesema akaye pembeni society bado ingemuhukumu kwa kutokuwa “woman enough” kusimama na mumewe!! Shame! As Bill Cosby’s lawyer said in the court room kuwa the real victim here is a long ย suffering Camille Cosby! Which in somehow nakubaliana naye kwani huyu ni mke walio owana kwa miaka 53, amemjua mume wake kama; mume muaminifu, baba na mwanaume ambaye siku zote analinda na kuheshimu wanawake. Akajenga “image” hiyo katika dunia kuwa yeye ni “Family man” na mkewe na watoto wake wakawa very proud of him! Sasa leo hii mbele ya uso wa dunia anatakiwa afute hiyo “image” aliyo wajengea na kuwaaminisha watu kuwa Nope! That ain’t him! Ni ngumu kueleweka na fedheha kubwa sana kwa mkewe na watoto wake wakike!ย Naamini sababu kuu ya Mrs Cosby kukwepa kuwepo mahakamani wakati victim wakitoa ushahidi ni kwasababu hakutaka kuweka mambo yatakayo semwa mahakamani kwenye akili yake ambayo yangemfanya aanze kutafakari na kumuangalia mumewe katika sura mpya! I believe she wants to continue to remember her husband the way she knows / knew him and not otherwise! Maana zile testimony ukizisikiliza unaweza file for Divorce bila kutaka! I truly feel sorry for her! Mungu amsaidie!ย Hata hivyo yeye si wakwanza kusimama bega kwa bega na mumewe katika scandal kubwa na za kufedhehesha namna hii! Wapo wanawake wengi wamefanya hivyo kama Hillary Clinton wakati mumewe anakesi ya kufanya mapenzi ndani ya moja ya office za WhiteHouse na secretary wake Monica Lewinsky!……… It’s hard to be a woman but it’s more harder to be a fully committed wife!! #StandByYourMan #GodHelpUs!

Alijisemeaga Oprah Winfrey kuwa labda hizo vows zingebadilishwa huwenda angefunga ndoa cause yeye haelewi wanaposema “katika shida na raha” what do they real mean?! ๐Ÿ™‰๐Ÿ™‰ Wenyewe wanasemaga hivi “if you can’t stand the heat better stay out of the ktchen” ๐Ÿ˜€๐Ÿ˜€๐Ÿ˜€ bora yeye kajisemea ukweli lol!………..Huko nyuma niliandika hivi ๐Ÿ‘‰๐Ÿ‘‰ ย TheBillCosbyTrial

 

Mtoto Day Out

“Mtoto Day Out…..itakuwa tarehe 9/7/2017 siku ya jumapili.

Mpendwa mzazi,Mlezi hifadhi hiyo tarehe.Kama unavyoendaga wewe kwenye matamasha mbalimbali basi hili ni maalum kwa mtoto wako hakikisha unamtendea haki…asikose!

Basi hapo unawaza kiingilio kitakuwaje????yaani naona hata aibu kukitaja maana utaona huyu Dina Vipi mbona kiingilio kidogo hivyo???Wazazi itakuwa buree ila utamlipia mtoto wako.

NMB Tanzania wametuwezesha nitakusimulia mengi ya muhimu kutoka kwao.

Kwanza nikuulize umesikia kuhusu Nmb mtoto akaunti?je unafahamu unaweza kumfungulia mtoto wako akaunti toka apozaliwa?je mwanao anayo akaunti uliyomfungulia?Je unafahamu kwa tsh 5,000 tu unaweza kumfungulia mtoto wako akaunti na kila mwezi ukawa unaweka tsh 5000 kama ndio uwezo wako na zaidi kama upo vizuri???
#MtotoDayOut #MtotoEvents
#mtotoakaunti #mtotomagazine”~~~~~~~Dina Marios

The BET AWARDS: Tafadhali piga kura ulete ushindi nyumbani!

Tanzania, Kwa mara nyingi tena kijana wetu katajwa kwenye BET AWARDS! Tafadhali piga kura. ulete ushindi nyumbani! Mpigie Ray Vann wetu kama umesahau sauti yake basi tazama hizi video umsikie! Yani hadi Wamarekani wamemkubali sio mimi tu! Haya hima leta ushindi huu nyumbani!

“MTOTO ANAFUNDISHWA NYUMBANI.”~~~~~`Zamaradi Mketema

TV host Zamaradi Mketema

Kwangu mtoto kufanya hivi sio fahari ni Aibu, Hawa ndio aina ya watoto anakuwa anawaza kitu kimoja tu kichwani mwake, Kumridhisha mwanaume, juhudi zake atazielekeza kwenye kutafuta style mpya, bila kusahau vitu mbalimbali vya kupagawisha wanaume. Na wengi wa aina hii bahati mbaya waliowazunguka wanaendelea kuwatengenezea mazingira ya namna hii, wanakuwa wakiamini MAISHA NI MWANAUME TU, na ili uishi nae nguvu yako uilekeze kwenye KITANDA TU. Asilimia kubwa ya maongezi yao yamejaa hayo akiamini ndio UBORA, wanasahaulishwa kabisa kuwa kuna zaidi ya hayo kwenye maisha, wanabaki na mawazo mgando na kubaki kwenye dunia yao ya peke yao, ndio wale utasikia wanamtukana mwanamke mwenzao eti HUJAFUNDWA WEWE!!

Hapondiohuwainachekeshasababukwabahatimbayaufundajimwingiunaangaliasehemumoja tu and am sorry to say wengi WALIOUABUDU wanakuwa na mawazomgando mno yanayopeleke akuachwa na Dunia nyingine. Wadogozangu kitanda ni muhimu lakini haijawahi kuwasehemu KUU pekee ya UKAMILIFU wa mwanamke ama kumshika mwanaume, na kwa ulimwengu wa sasa kama unachojua ni kitanda tu.kunaathari nyingi utakazo kumbananazo hata katika hiyo ndoa unayoiabudu, na hakuna faida yoyote utakayo ipata, maishani zaidi ya kitanda. Mapenzi ni zaidi ya style mpya! Wamama tunaokuja tujitahidi kutotengeneza kizazi cha aina hii, tunaumiza watoto wetu, wanaishia kuwa malosers, washamba, akili ndogo, na hakuna cha maana kwenye maisha yao. Ninachoamini mtoto hafundwi siku moja, wiki moja, wala mwezi mmoja. Mtoto anaanza kufundwa tangu anazaliwa na katika ukuaji wake, MTOTO ANAFUNDISHWA NYUMBANI, Na ndio mafunzo mazuri au mabaya yanapotokea kulingana na imani unayomlisha, mazingira unayomkuza nayo na hata picha unayoionesha.

Hajawahi tabia mbaya alioishi nayo mtoto ndani ya miaka 13 au 14 ikabadilika ndani ya wiki moja za kumuweka ndani, hakuna!! Atawasikiliza tu lakini kama ana asili ya uchoyo ataendelea kuwa mchoyo, kama ana kaumalaya katakua, n.k Tuangalie RIGHT TIME ya kuwafunza hata hayo tulioamua kuwafunza kama ndio kudumisha mila na tamaduni, hakuna ubaya wa kumfunda mtu anaeingia kwenye ndoa lakini hakuna utamu wowote wa kumfunda mtoto wa miaka 12, 13, 14 au 15 ambae hana pa kuyapeleka hayo mafunzo, na hata hao wanaoingia kwenye ndoa kuna haja ya kuwapa LIFE SKILLS na sio kuwashibisha kimoja tu kisichokuwa na faida ya moja kwa moja katika ndoa yake!! Maisha yana changamoto nyingi sana, tusiwatengenezee utumwa wa akili na kuwafunga humo, kwanza angalia hata watoto ama wasichana wengi waliokulia kwenye imani ya kufundwa na kufundana katika hali ya kuabudu walivyo ama wanavyoishi kwenye jamii zao ama ndoa, kama hajaachika basi ana ndoa ya pili au ya tatu, wengi WANASHINDWA KULINDA NDOA ZAO na mpaka sasa nimefeli kujua kwanini!!

Walichokishiba wao ni kimoja tu. Hakuna bingwa wa malezi lakini mengine tunayatengeneza wenyewe, maana hapo utakuta mama yuko pembeni anashangilia na kupiga makofi huku akiona fahari mwanae anavyoyakata, jamani hata ukate mauno mpaka juu ya dari kama kuna vitu huna na hujielewi na kujitambua HAUTATHAMINIKA hata siku moja kwenye ndoa yako, na hao unaowaita wasiofundwa wataishia kukupiga bao tu kwenye maisha. TUAMKE.

Are they allowed to date?

The O.O Igogo’s daughters! #Sisterhood

Nimekutana na hii topic huko kwa Instagram as usual huko ndipo vituko vyote vipo ๐Ÿ˜†……..Sasa swali ni kwamba; eti umemkaribisha rafiki yako ukamtambulisha kwa ndugu yako halafu wakapendana, je ni sawa hiyo na ungefanyaje? Binafsi sipendi kabisa! Hila sina huwakika kama ni sawa au si sawa japo hii tabia ipo sana Ujaluoni! Yani unaweza kukutana familia imeoa / kuolewa ย kwenye mji mmoja. Naposema mji mmoja namaanisha familia ya baba na mama mmoja au baba mkubwa na mdogo. Utakuta dada na mdogo wake wameolewa kwenye familia moja. ย Sasa hao wanaoowa kwenye ukoo mmoja ndio usiseme nikitu cha kawaida sana!………..Tatizo kubwa ambalo naliona hapa ni kama ukoo /familia ina magonjwa ya kurithi basi kuna uwezekano mkubwa wa watoto wenu wote wakarithi hayo magonjwa! Otherwise, mmh! Ila wanasemaga “mapenzi hayana macho”! Hata hivyo huo usemi mie sina huwakika nao kwani macho yangu yamemuona Muhaya ๐Ÿ˜…๐Ÿ˜…………..ย 

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